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Hey, I'm Tyler. I'm a freshman in High School and I want to be a psychiatrist one day. In my spare time, I smoke pot (shhhh, don't tell lol) and I bench drink among other things. On the more cultural side of me, I enjoy such things as Japanese music, fantasy or science fiction books, and dancing. I also love seafood and almost all meats. I am a demecrat although I'd like to think that I just follow my own opinions and don't really have a political party but republicans are against things I strongly believe in such as abortions, gay rights, and less religion in schools and other non religious establishments. I don't really get along with my family too much for pretty good reason. My mom is a drug abuser and alchohalic and my dad left me when I was 1 year old. I talk to him very seldom. I lived with my grandparents until I was 9 when my grandfather became abusive and kicked me and my mother out on the streets and I've pretty well been on my own since then. Never-the-less, I've managed to keep up in school and get good grades and my ever growing zest for knowledge is one of my more postitive characteristics. I also love video games that include hours of gameplay were you watch more than play. Startegy or RPG games are my favorites and my all time favorite game is Final Fantasy X. Among my time in thought, I've developed a sense of understanding for people. I am great at giving advice and I specifically love answering questions about love and relationships. My all time favorite hobby is watching anime and my favorite anime shows are Full Metal Alchemist and InuYasha. My e mail address is InuyashaFreak611@aol.com so give me a mail if ya wanna talk. Feel free to ask me anything and remember:Party Hardy
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im 14 almost 15 and im a girl alrite well im going out with this guy and i've never really kissed anyone well little pecks with an ex bf and those weren't great but when he went to kiss me he had his mouth wide open and just went for it not a french kiss but ya know wut i mean..anyways i didnt kiss him back cuz i have no idea how to kiss..i need major help cuz i really like this guy and im embaressed to tell him why i didnt kiss him back and i really dont wanna lose him but i do need to know how to kiss..so in that situation how am i suppose to kiss
I was nervous the first time I went to french kiss a person too but its easy in a weird way. It's like instinct when you go to do it but if you want the basic moves I'll tell you. The guy usually goes first and when your lips collide he'll put his tongue in your mouth. You probably ant to suck onto it a little before having to stick your tongue into his throat and close your eyes while you do it. It should come as instinct to you when you finally do do it and I hope it all works out.
alriight well i have this best friend, hes a guy, im a girl. we've been best friend for a pretty long time. i guess you could say were not your ordinary guy and girl friendship. we sit with each other at lunch, we call each other alot, we hang out every other weekend or so, we tell each other everything, etc. Well, yeah you know how i said i sit with him at lunch. well we whisper, like mostly whenever we talk we whisper, just because, we dont know why. well anyway i sit next to him and were always whispering and stuff. and the one day i was tired and i was resting my head and he put his arms around me and started shaking me.. then the one day they tried to stick pizza in my face and they know i dont like eating lunch, so i tried to like get up from the table but his shoulder was in the way so i ended up throwing myself over his shoulder and i just laid there and then i got off.. and then he was like, im not feelin to good and i was like.. ew throw up that way and hes like, ill be fine let me use your arm as a pillow, and he layed on my arm but then he got up like 10 seconds later.. alriight so i guess my question is, are we really flirting? my friend keeps saying that we would be really sweet together and even my teacher think were going out.. because this one time my math and science teacher were talking and he was whispering to me and he said something weird so i straightened up and looked at him with a suprised face and slapped him lightly on the shoulder and he started laughing and pulled me back down so he could finish and i looked over at my teachers and my science teacher looked at us all weird and my math teacher said something to her and she was like, "aw".. it was really weird.. well anyway are we really flirting?
I know exactly how that feels to think your flirting and not to be sure if you are or not. Guys are horny creatures so what I've learned is if you think they're flirting, they most likely are. If you ask me, it sounds like flirting but make sure he's not gay because its common for gay people top have famale friends and talk on the phone a lot. If your sexually attracted to him, give it a try and go out with him and hopefully it will be the same as it is when your friends with a hint of love and romance added. I say go for it!
okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!!
Whenever I do something like that I get caught. Just make sure you have all your shit done at your house so your mom doesn't call looking for you and make sure you don't smell like alchohal when you come home and make sure you keep your story straight. Also, remember not to stress over it all night and to enjoy yourself because worrying is a buzz kill.
My boyfriend is moving and I really really like him, and we have been going out for 3 years and I wont see him anymore should I break up with him or not!
Well you probably don't have much of a choice. The fact that he's moving and you oviously can't move with him pretty much kills the relationship on its own but you don't not want to break up and feel like you cheating on him when you finally move on. Explain to him that the only reason your breaking up with him is because he's moving and you don't want a long distance relationship and you don't want the guilt when you move on. If he's as good of a guy as he seems, he'll understand.
ok well see the thing is that my guy is in florida but i'm here and his friend has been kinda eyein me and ive been eyein him hes so cute and so's my guy but omg idk i need help should i stay with my guy or go with his friend but the thing about it is I bet my guy loves me but i sorta think he only takes me as a booty call and the other respects me as a person help i need advice !my guy comes back in like 4 or 5 days and his friend is in illinois for 2 or 3 more days
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Well this sounds somewhat weird. You say your boyfriend loves you but he only needs you as a booty call. If thats the case he most likely doesn't love you and if your considering dumping him for this guy you most likely don't love him either. I think you should consider going with the friend but the only risky thing is maybe he is only being respectful to you because he isn't getting any from you yet if you know what I mean. Try the other guy because you oviously don't love the person wour with and if your eyeing this guy it will just be a matter of time before another hot guy will come along and it'll be the same thing all over again. See if you like the new guy and if you don't keep looking until you find the right person who you won't have to qquestion yourself witht he next hot guy who walks in the room. Good luck!
k, ummm...this guy iz my bff, and always has been, and we went out 4 a loooooooong time, and then he went out and danced and kissed this chic on the cheek, k, well i dumped him, and now we like hate each other, i mean we talk allllll the time, but we can't talk without gettin in2 a fight, about the stupidess stuff! idk, wut i should do, should i avoid him, or should, we try 2 b friends even though we've known each other since we were 3, and r seenin' other ppl, even though, we both want 2 be 2gether?
Guys do stupid things sometimes and are usually led more by their hormones when girls are lead by their brains. He might have kissed this person but ask yourself if this is someone he really likes. I've recently learned that it's better to be friends than enemies with people so you should definately be friends with him unless you REALLY can't stand each other. Maybe you can't get along with each other because you both want to really want to be with each other but your teasing each other with the whole "just friends" game so maybe you should give him another chance if you really like him and ask him if he's willing to try as well.
Im trying to upload my picture but it keeps saying it's greater that 15K.What does that mean?
The file is too large and you'll need to either find a smaller file or, you can go to photobucket.com. Sign up. Then upload the pic you are trying to put on your column onto photobucket.com. Then once you have uploaded it, copy paste the url in your profile settings where it says "url of picture of you". And you're piture will then fit on your column.
How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity?
18. 16 at the least.
When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
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Try washing it every morning and use conditioner after you shampoo. Make sure you are gettin all of your shampoo and conditioner rinsed out. That can cause it to be greesy. Oh and some people just have naturally greesy hair. Just take care of it good and you should be okay.
OK, well there is this guy who i really really like and he has a gf. I really like him and i want him and his recent gf to break up really bad. Should i tell him i like him or just wait to see what happens?
I think you should give him time to get over her. Guys need time for that sort of thing. Wait a week or so then just bring the subject up that you like him. Tell him you aren't pushing anything, you just want him to know. Who knows, he could like you.
Im 14/Female and i havnt had my period yet. But i discharge...its heavy (been heavy) since maybe october. Not all the time though. Is it normal for it to be yellowish white? Because i will be in school sometimes and i will discharge and i will always look down to see if i had my period and i dont but its scary. When i do get my period and if im in school will it just come out when it wants to (like people could see it) that would be embarresing! Please Help Ladies! i rate high and give feedback!!!! Thank U
You'll get your period soon. Try wearing a panty liner for the discharge. They are very thin, can't be seen easily. Plus if you wear the panty liner, if you get your period at school it won't be seen and you will just be able to either ask a friend go to your school nurse for a pad or tampon.
hey i am a 15 year old girl and i got into this football accident in ROTC homecoming is coming up and i am suppose to wear my brace cuz i screwed up my neck big time...but isnt that kind of emabarassing... i mean it wouldnt hurt just one day without out.. or would it... HELP plz
I've never had one before but if you think you can go with out it then you can. It may do damage to your neck but if you realy want to look cool at this homecoming then I guess that's your only choice. One night shouldn't hurt.
Ok so there was this girl i went to a dance with a while back. i had actualy jsut met her earlier that day and at the time i liked her but it wasnt really a major thing. we were planning on going out again after the dance but she kept avoiding me. i had asked her if to tell jsut tell me if she didnt like me but she said she did. a while after that i just gave up i fugred she was playing me or something. any ways its been a while and i really thought i was over her but every once in a while something will remind me of her and ill start really wondering what happened and feelings i didnt even have back then will start rushing at me. if it matters im 18.
anyways i have a two part question
1. what do you thing happened in the first place? shes not teh type to play a guy?
2. what can i do so taht i dont start thinking about her everytime soemthing remidns me of her?
1. Some girls test guys to see how they'll react in a situation. If you can't recall you doing anything wrong than perhaps she is just testing you. She could have found someone she might have liked better but that's a doubt because women are usually straight forward. You could, on the other hand have done something you didn't think was insulting but she took it the wrong way.
2. If you love her, then don't try forgetting her. Tell her how much she means to you and ask her if you did anything. If she likes you at all, she'll tell you what's wrong.
WHat does it exactly mean when u ask a guy if they like you and they say i dunno..??DO they rly no..
No. When women ask a guy out, the majority of the time they say yes. Guys fall under pressure (especially from women). What "I dunno" means is that he doesn't want to hurt your feelings but he isn't ready for a relationship with you right now.
I clicked to answer a question, but it keeps telling me I've already answered the question, and showing me someone elses answer to edit. So far it's only happened for one question, but what is going on?
Maybe your accidentally logged on someone elses username. When I signed in today, I somehow was on someones screen name. If you can edit someone elses answer, then you have to be in their account. Simply hit log out and sign in again. If that doesn't work or that's not the problem than I don't know the answer.
when i first came here, it was a link from a friends xanga to her column. i was searching around looking at the advice shes given, and i clicked view to see what it does. it gave me the option of rating the answer to the question, which was a little weird, but i thought it was ok, everyone can do it. turns out, you can only rate your own questions. i didnt have a column then, i hadn't even been to the main page. why did this happen? also, i could on rate one or 2 of those questions. just a little curious q from a 13/m
You can rate other peoples advice that is given to you. You can't rate other peoples questions and answers because they don't relate to you and if everyone did that there would be no organized rating status.
I really like this guy and he said that he won't really know if he likes me until he gets to know me better, but when I talk to him online he says that we should get together sometime and says that we should do stuff. I'm not like that, but I guess he seems to think so. We haven't really talked in person, but we have a class together. What should I do?
If you like him than go for it. The internet enables you to go and talk to people. Internet relationships never work out but they do if you know the person and its even better if you have a class together. If you like him, ask him out and I bet he'll say yes (asking to do somethikng together hints around to a date).
Okay,
c i have these two male friends and they r BEST friends with me n eachother. and tonite they told me that they werent friends anymore n its my fault. the reason is cuz i told evan sumthing that his riend told me the other night becuz i didnt feel safe with his telling me that and i needed to talk to sumone about it. so i told evan and when i told evan what i told him made him mad so he told me that him and chris werent gunna b friends anymore and that it was my fault. When i was talking to chris he said that evan called him and told him they werent friends and all. Not only dont i feel bad cuz its my fault but i feel bad becuz they arent friends and its my fault. I love them both a whole lot like really no joke. but the thing that also scares me is that sumtimes they joke and this time i dont know if its a joke+ i wanna help i want them to b friends but they wont talk to me. I have NO clue wat to do plz HELP ME REALLY BAD!! i need it or im planning on killing myself if i cant help!
Suicide is a horrible thing to do for one. They are most likely not joking because if they are then they have a sick sense of humor. Just tell one of them that the other one said something good about the him and then tell him that the other one misses him and do the same for both of them. They'll end up calling each other and they'll be friends before you no it. If that doesn't work then try telling them how you feel about the situation and how you plan on committing suicide if they don't (lol, it might help) and if they are true friends to you they'll do what makes you happy.
(15/I)OK, I have a boyfriend and we JUST started going out yesterday and I think my best friend is jealous that I have a boyfriend and she doesnt. She says little things like.. "I have nothing to wear tomorrow..oh well it doesnt matter,I have no one to impress anyways." She never did this stuff before I had a boyfriend and I know I shouldn't feel guilty but I do. Plus she's being SO picky with boys now.. I was trying to hook her up with one of my boyfriend's friends but she's saying she doesnt like any of them. Is there anything I could do to make her feel any better? Thanks.
She's probably not jealous, but sad. She doesn't have a boyfriend and you do. She is probably just frustrated that she can't find the right person. Don't try to hook her up with some random person because then she will feel like your stressing her into a relationship and that's not good. Give her time and she will get a boyfriend that she likes and ultimately, that will make her happy.
Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!
You should! By saying he's hot doesn't mean you like him so nothikng should have changed in your relationship. If your good friends and you really like him, you should go for it. Never pause at the chance of being happy (You only live once after all) and even if he does say no, (Guys usually don't say no to girls when they ask them out) who cares. It wion't change anything in your relationship and he will probably take it as a compliment. Good luck!