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DO I ASK HIM OUT OR NOT???
Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!
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I think you should ask him out... there is nothing wrong with asking a guy out. I have done it before. I know that yall are friends, and hopefully that could also help build a relationship. If you go out with someone you know, there isn't as much tention to begin with.
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Yea, go for it! Your friend Brittany is right. Take that advice she gave you. Just go up to him and just be like "I wrote you a note on how I felt about you, but you never wrote me back, so I guess what I'm asking you is, would you want to go out with me...?" Just say something like that. He may be too shy to tell you he likes you and that may of been why he didn't say anything back to you. Guys are so confusing though, you never know what they're thinking lol. But, the worse thing that could happen is him saying no. But, you'll never know if he likes you or not if you don't ask him out. Just take that chance. I mean, even if he says no, it'll still be the same between you because he knows you like him and he's acting the same way to you. And if he likes you, then thats great!! I hope this helps and good luck hun. Tell me how it goes. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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hey im just wonderin who is this because this sounds too fimilar...if ya kno what im sayin!!...
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go ahead ask him out or u can live the rest of ur life knowing that u could of been with him if u had goten the guts to ask him out
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You should! By saying he's hot doesn't mean you like him so nothikng should have changed in your relationship. If your good friends and you really like him, you should go for it. Never pause at the chance of being happy (You only live once after all) and even if he does say no, (Guys usually don't say no to girls when they ask them out) who cares. It wion't change anything in your relationship and he will probably take it as a compliment. Good luck!
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hey this is my ? so i'd really appeaciate everyones advice!!!!
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wow...that's pretty coincidental because i have a friend who had the same problem and i helped her with it. i think you should ask him out, mainly because you know that if he says no then things won't be awkward between the two of you [at least thats what it would seem like because when you wrote him the note that said he was hot, he didn't give you a negative response and things are still regular now]. the way i see it, you have nothing to lose. you shouldn't be afraid of rejection though, because if you end up not asking him out, it could be something that you regret. good luck
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