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[Full Name:] haley elizabeth M******
[Nicknames:] hay hay, sh0rty, blackiie, mickiie, piinky ect.
[Age]: 15
[Hair color:] daRk bRown
[Birthday:] 7-25-89
[Eye Color:] hAzel
[Height:] 5'2"
[Siblings:] 1 older sister
[Righty or lefty:] right
[How do you describe yourself:] umm... dunn0?
[Alstro Sign] eO
:: FrIeNdS ::
[Best Friend(s):] jess, x*tina, cherry, mindy
[Friend(s) you go to for advice:] mindy
[Friend(s) you have the most fun with:] everyone
[Friend(s) you've dreamt about:] i dun dream about dem buh they in ma dreams
[Friend(s) your tell secrets to:] all my best friends
[List Your Friends:] thats too manY....

:: perfect guy ::
[Hairstyle:] spiky. little spikes, or that flip thing in the front...
[Hair Color:] dun matter
[Tall or short:] taller than me...
[6 pack or muscular arms:]six pack ( u get to lick them...heheh)
[Mr. Sensitive or Mr. Funny:] fUnNy... but i think he should have a sensitive side..(not a big one)
[Eye Color:] i love blue dA m0st...
[Hat or no hat:] depends if yu look go0d wid one on
[Pierced or no:] tounge nd ear
[Freckles or none:] n0ne
[What sportz:] pr0lly like basketball, football
[Style:] thug`gangsta appeal
[Music:]rap` hip hop` r&b` pop


::other::
[Kissed Some One:] yert
[Talked to an EX:] yert
[Do You Remember Your First Love?] yert
[Do You Still Love Them:] yert
[Is Love A Mistake:] suMtimEz...
[What facial feature do you find the most attractive on others:] eyeZ
[Been rejected:] yert
[Who broke your heart:] danny haines
[Have a boyfriend/girlfriend/both:] nah
[Had Sex:]yert

:: PrEfErEnCeS ::
[Chocolate milk or hot chocolate] chocolate miLk...
[McDonalds or Burger King] mcdonalds
[Marry the perfect lover or the perfect friend] well, my perfect lover is also a perfect friend
[Sweet or sour] b0th
[Root Beer or Dr. Pepper] n0ne
[Sappy/action/comedy/horror] h0rror` comedey` action
[Cats or dogs] cats
[Ocean or Pool] po0l
[Cool Ranch or Nacho Cheese] Nacho cheese
[Mud or Jell-O wrestling] jeLlO...
[With or without ice-cubes] ice cubes
[Shine or rain] b0th
[Winter/Summer/Fall/Spring] all cept winter
[Vanilla or Chocolate] chocolate
[Snowboarding or skiing] n0ne
[Cake or cookies] co0kiez
[Cereal or toast] cereal
[Gloves or mittens] gloves
[Eyes open or closed] WTF?!?!?
[Fly or breathe under water] fly
[Bunk-bed or waterbed] ;)
[Chewing gum or hard candy] ;)
[Motor boat or sailboat] i dunn0
[Lights on or off] off


:: FaVoRiTeS ::
[Number:] 7 -n- 21
[Holiday] christmas
[Radio station] wired 96
[Place] in his arms
Gender: Female
Location: jersey
Occupation: student
Age: 15
AIM: heart x catcher
Yahoo: taste_liek_candi
Member Since: August 8, 2004
Answers: 51
Last Update: August 12, 2004
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
if yu`r readii to have sex wit him then do it.. nd if he truly does respect yu then he wait until 20 years frum now... dun jus give in becuz he wants yu to... yu wanna have to wanna do it to let him kno yu wanna please him nd show that yu care about him.. sex isnt jus anything.. its shuld be meaningful nd a way of showing love -haley


I use Spermicidal condoms. Everytime after I have sex it seems liek I'll end up with a yeast infection. I heard your suppose to "pee" before and right after sex. I do that and still I end up with a yeast infection more times than not. Do you think its the spermicide on the condoms or maybe an allegy to latex? If any1 else has had this problem what type of condom do you perfer? Thank You so much for your time! (link)
well my friend said that yu shuld alwaiz wipe yu`rself after sex cuz yu can get an yeast affection i mean i reallii dun kno buh thas wha she told me -haley


ive noticed that alotta people have questions on people they believe they are in love with and so on but sum of the people are realli young and i dont think that they notice that being in love and loving sum1 are 2 totally different things....well thats what i think i was just wonderin other opions on bein in love and just lovin sum1 (link)
bein in love nd lovin someone r two different things... buh yu cant put an age on love... its all on how yu are matured... yu culd be 15 nd have the mind of a grown up... buh there is deffenitly a fine line between tha two -haley


i am currently addicted to crack, marijuana, coke, and X. I have been caught only once, and for marijuana. however im getting very worried about some things goin on with some dealers, i need to get out of it all. any one know how? who should i talk to about it? (link)
yu shuld go to rehab nd get yu`r shit together so ya dun gotta be involved wid all that -haley


Ok my bf duznt like my bestest friend and neither duz his friend and it iz hard cuz my friend talks shyt bout my bf then i oviously stick up for him then when my bf talks shyt bout my best friend i stick up for her and im sick of bbein stuck in the middle it aint a nice position to be in i mean im not gunna like not be friends wid her juss bcuz my bf duznt like her and im DEFINATLEY not gunna liek break up wid my bf cuz my best friend dont like him it juss really sux and all my friend duz iz complain bout me alwaiiz talkin bout himn shyt but wat duz she excpect im flippin IN LOVE wid him and i can NEVER get him off my mind!!!! so how can i get them to not like talk bout each otha n try n get along n shyt like dat??????? sry so long (link)
well if he d0esn`t liek yu`r friend he styll shuldnt tlk shit to yu about her.. thas not a go0d bf to do that... nd yu`r friend obviously dun like him f0r a reason... maybii she knows suttin about him that yu dont... or maybii she knows hes not good enuff for yu... yu shuld jus flat out tell ur bf not to tlk about yu`r friend in front of yu... nd tha same for yu`r friend -haley


yea umm im 14 and a girl
Ok this is gonna be long. I went out with this kid joe for like 4 months. the whole time we were going out this girl Amy was always flirting with him even around me. I would tell her to stop but she never listened and always denied liking him. Well when me and joe broke up I asked him if he liked Amy cuz it kinda seemed like he did but he said she would be the last person he would ever go out with. So then like two weeks later he goes out with amy. I was over him completely but it still made me mad that he had lied to me. They'e been going out for like 4 months now and theyve gone all the way. Two months ago my best friend andrew asked me out. I'm sooo in love with him but guess what's happening. Amy likes him even though shes going out with joe. She always tells me online how andrew always flirts with other girls when im not around. when i ask my friend nichole whos around him a lot she says thats not true.I know andrew would never hurt me or like anyone else. Hes liked me more than anyone else from the moment he met me. One time andrew had to sleep over amys house because her mom is friends with his mom and he couldnt get a ride back home.
Amy: Did andrew tell you what he did on sunday?
Me: No. Why?
Amy: Oh he wouldn't have.
Me: What did he do?
Amy: He slept over my house.
Me: ((theres nothing i could do about it anyway)) thats cool
Amy: OMG!!! Why dont you ever care what he does!! He flirts with like everyone and you dont even care!!
Me: I do care but i trust him so i dont worry too much.
Amy: w/e
I know she is lying but idk what to do. Please help me out. I hate her and i dont know how to handle it without like telling her i hate her cuz she kinda thinks we're friends. I cant be mean to people and i really dont wanna lose my boyfriend cuz i love him more than anything. Please help me!!!!! ((sorry this is so long)) (link)
i think yu shuld jus be like listen shut the fuck up andrews wid me nd he loves me he doesnt wanna be anything more wid yu... he is jus yu`r friend... nd wha goes on bewtween me nd him is between us so stay out of it... dun believe a w0rd she says... yu need to jus be straight up wid her... nd if she d0esnt stop jus fuckin knock her out lol -haley


see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!! (link)
if yu styll have feelin`z for him styll then give him a second chance... buh if yu dont have feelin`z f0r him anym0re then y waste yu`r tyme... go0d luck -haley


whats bipolar mean? (link)
bi-polar has a lot of things to it... yu go thro stages...nd yu have mania... yu can be dulisonal from bi-polar... yu have heavy mood swings... liek one day yu can be jus full wid energy nd then the next yu can jus be fusturated all day long... its liek a roller coaster... it has a lot of upz nd d0wns nd twists nd turns... yu need ta kno m0re hit the box up -haley


on the song milkshake what does milkshake mean?
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i think it means her game... he ways of gettin tha guys ya kno... she got the sex appeal...tha tlk tha walk everything that makes a man go crazii... thas wha i think -haley


okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
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well i was alwai`z raised to loose yu`r virginity to some one you love`trust` nd curr about... dun matter wha age yu are.. yu jus gotta be mature enuff... sex is suppossed to be an intimate thing between 2 ppl.. buh it aint no whurr near that anymore... nd i lost mine when i was 14... nd i lost it to a friend not tha guy i loved...buh in tha end i regreted it...if a guy isnt willin to respect yu then he isnt worth tha tyme or daii... buh do suttin becuz sum1 else does it.. yu do everything fo yu -haley


Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14? (link)
it depends on wha yu`r recent relationships were ya kno... buh yeah thas pretty go0d... that jus shows yall got mad feelin`z for each otha -haley


can you get pregnant 2 weeks before your period? (link)
yert yu can


I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$ (link)
i think its his cuzin?!?!?! hit me back up nd tell me when ya find out


Can you have sex when you are pregnant?? (link)
yeah yu can have sex when ur pregnant


how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!

i rate high! =)

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jus be liek listen... i really think yu`r ko0l pplz buh yu`r jus not what im lookin for in a relationship, yu`ll find sum1 who will like yu back... tell him not ta get mad its jus how yu feel nd yu wanna be ppl`z wid him styll tho -haley


i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it?? (link)
i used ta cut myself too... nd one day my best girl mindy told me that i needed to stop that becuz it hurt her to see tha cuts on my arm...nd it made her sad to think that i have to hurt myself to get rid of my pain... nd she made me promise to stop...so when i felt like cuttin myself id jus call her...so jus tell her that it hurts yu to see the cuts on her arms...nd ask her to promise yu that she wont do it again... let her kno that yu will alwai`z be there nd she doesnt need to resort to cuttin becuz she will alwai`z have yu there by her side... if yu wanna tlk more my s/n is heart x catcher -haley


hey..im looking for CUTE school clothes..and i wanted to ask from everyone to name off a BUNCH of stores that i can check out!!

thnx!

*i rate!:)* (link)
go to strwabridges... they have the cutest RW` peppe` guess` tommy`eko red outifts! so does macy :)


Iam 18 years old and just got into a new relationship with an older guy. Hes 22. Im still a virgin and he isnt. He told me when and if Im ready to have sex with him then that will be an issue that we sit down and discuss. Iam very mature and know exactly what I want out of life. Im a great person..so Im told. I really do think that I am emotionally and physically ready to have sex. Its just that Im so self concious and think that I wont be any good. Not just at sex, but kissing and oral sex. I havent kissed a guy in 4 years and Im terrified to mess up. How should I handle this? How can I make myself feel better about this? (link)
if he knows ur a virgin nd yu`r not all that experienced... it wuldn`t be a problem for him... he shuld expect that yu`r not gonna kno all tha r0pes... im sure he wuld be happy wit the fact that yu trust him enuff to show yu the ropes nd not think yu`r stupid if yu mess up some how... everyone starts somewhere... jus have confindence nd yu`ll wont worry about it as much... jus give it yu`r best... thas wha matters tha most -haley


I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing? (link)
ignore them... its ur body yu do wha yu want wid it as long as it d0esnt make a big effect on everyone... its jus yu`r tounge not a big deal... dun sweat it...yu shuld jus think that it makes yu happy that yu have it done.. so dun sweat it -haley



okay hey heres how it goes... I'm gunna be movin inna month. ([ to King Of Perssia ]).. Is there anyone that lives down there.. ? [( im gunna be movin 8 miles away from the king of perrisa mall )]?!im going to the highschool in 9th grade..

but heres my question..

I've been going with my boyfriend for 8 months! And i love so much words cant explain how much i love him..and he loves me too [ the same way ] .. as you can see this is a SERIOUS relationship...we've done alot of stuff. [sex] [jerkin off] [and lotzZz more] shitt the sex is good :-)... [ lemme get back to my question ] but we talked about whats gunna happen when i move and everything.. and we decided to stay with eachother. But im still scared! I know im gunna be seein him and talkin to him on the phone and everything, hes gunna be allowed to stay over my house.. but the thing is... there is alot of gurls and guys that is hatin on me and my boyfriend.. and they always be startin shit to get us to break up.. it worked once but as you see we worked it out and are still together..but i know the second i move all these gurls that are hatin on me are gunna be all up on his dick! and tellin him lies and shit so he can break up with me. i already got in fights with these gurls and hes gotten into fights with some guys.. and its just to much drama..but I dont wanna break up with him but from where i live now to where im moving to is like 45mins away. (im 15) But do you think i should break up with him or trust him.. see i know that he wouldnt do anythin to hurt me.And i told him that if he hears something that he doesnt like that he should come to me and see if its true. But he tells me everyday "your not gunna hear and words come out my mouth that were gunna break up / i wanna be with you for the rest of my life / you my heart" - and he wants me to have a baby with him.. but im just confuse what i should do.. should i stay with him.. like i dont even know i just need help on what i should do please help me.. ill rate.. (link)
i think yu guys shuld stay together... becuz nuttin or no one can tear real love apart... yu guys have trust in each other... nd thas that all that matters...he cleary loves yu way too much to let anyone fuck up yall relationship... nd tha same for yu... so stay wid him... im sure things will work out perfectly...dun let anyone ever try to ruin yall relationship... yu 2 can be suttin that none of those other be can be... they jus jealous ass ppl...cuz they dun got wha ya got nd thas real luv -haley




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