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My best friend and I are both girls and I'm 14 and she's 13. We have experimented 3 times and we've liked it each time(nothing below the belt). On one day she says she wants a boyfriend really bad,then other days she says that she wishes she could be with me and life would be so much easier and i'm the only one who listens to her seriously and cares and truly understands.I feels she very insecure about her liking for me because she feels God won't love us becuase she's sinning and that her parents will not except her anymore. Her parents barely except her now and they really don't take her seriously and they really don't trust her with the simpliest things. I wonder if she really wants to be with me because she would believe that our love for each other can't stop God from loving us and our love can conquer over her parents. Also on some days she made a strong statement that she wants to find her partner in life thats a man. She would only go for woman if they were the last human species on earth. I thought that was harsh and cold blooded because every time we experimented we never thought about any males while we were being affectionate to each other. I know for sure i'm bisexual and i'm comfortable with that, but the way my best friend talks it seems like she's confused big time about herself. I'm wondering if i should talk to her about it or she just needs to figure it out on her own. I'm ready to talk to her about it, but i want a second option on what I should do.

i think you should give her time and respect what ever her feelings are. im also a christian and know thats a sin so if it were me i would just want some time to think thourgh. good luck hope i helped

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okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?

nice abs :P

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there are 2 guys that like me and one is very outgoing but he can be rude sometimes but he loves me and then the other guy is very sweet but he is quiet. which one should i go for???

if it were me i would go for the outgoing one because the main prioty i have for boys is being crazy and fun and funny like me. so just think- what are the main things you want in a guy? and then see which guy is better.

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Hey!

I dont know if i like a person or if i dont what should i do?

try hanging out with him more and see how you feel. youll know if you like him once you get to know him
hope i helped!*brookie*

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how do you ask a guy to be your boyfirned? i mean im old fashioned and i dont think me, being a girl, should ask him, because hes a guy. i mean i dont wanna screw it up because i like him ALOT, i think about him all the time, but my friend, whos like his best friend, he just said that i should either ask him out or not like him at all, which is making alot of sense, but im too scared. how should i do it?

talk to your friends to ask him if he likes you. and also just notice how he acts around you. if hes always looking at you or making an effort to talk to you or flirt with you maybe thats a hint! hope it works out

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Im so sick of this. I have a friend and one weekend we were suppost to go to the mall together, Well I kinda ditched her.. but anyway the thing is one my birthday she ditched me!! Well today my other friend basically ditched me.. its not like I havent felt it before and I told her about it. She said "It sucks right?" So I said "Well duh.. but wouldnt it suck more if it was on your fricking birthday?!?" and I walked away... I feel bad.. but then I dont want to talk to her. What do I do?

omg im going thourgh the exact same thing right now!ok so what im trying to do is... she never follows thourgh with plans so the later i make them the better. firt say u wanna do something friday? on monday but of course shell forget so then on thursday be like wanna go to the mall tomorrow? then on friday call.. so far its working. as for ur bday thats pretty f*ed up so i wouldnt ignore her but talk to her and tell her it was your bday she shouldve been there with you if she condsiders herself your friend. hope i helped
BROOKIE

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Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers.

i just think hes too shy to come talk to you in person... if he didnt wanna talk to you then he would ingore you online. so i say just make the first move!!

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When you go to the doctor just to get meds. for the flu or something...do they still weigh you? I know they do when you go in for a physical or a check-up but what if you just have the flu?

yeah they weigh you whenever you go in :/ i hate it

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Hey. I'm in the 7th grade, and for my grade in math for the 3rd quarter, I know I got a 87.45% B+. Can that be rounded to an A?

well for me an a is a 90 or above so no that cant but if an a at your school is an 88 it probably wont be.. one year i got a 89.49 and they wouldnt give me an a! i even went and was like PLEASE can u just let it slide in all my other classes i got a's but she wouldnt.. but talk to you teacher and ask her to let it slide or maybe she'll give u an extra paper thats an easy 100
hope i helped!

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i have this friend and we are really good friends. I am a 15 year old guy and she is a 14 year old girl. She wants me but i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards. I dont want that to happen. How can i tell her this without hurting her feelings?

girls take the "i dont want to hurt the friendship" as "i really dont like you". so im sorry but i think no matter what you tell her she will take it like that... so the only thing you can do is try but be aware of how she will take it. and anothere thing- dont tell her unless you she asks u out or something.. hope i helped

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there are some songs i want on a cd but it's only about 5 songs so i need more so i don't waste a cd..what songs should i put..i like pop...some rap..and r&b...it doesn't have to be a new song..

candy shop by 50 cent
surrender, autobiagrophy by ashlee simpson
let me love u by mario
hope i helped!

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What are some stores or websites where I can get really cute skirts for our school's spring fling?

abercrombie has all kinds of cute clothes.

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My friend just told me that my other two friends were knocked down by a car earlier today. One of them is one of my best friends, my friend says she didn't get badly hurt but I'm still worried. Her mobile phone is switched off and no one is answering her home phone. I'm quite worried, I want to check that she is definitely okay but I can't get hold of her. What should I do?

can you leave a message on her phone? and what about the other friend? have you tried calling her? because if an ambulance came they HAVE to take both of them so she probably went to the same hospital if they did go to the hospital. if not theres really nothing more you can do. sorry. hope i helped! *brookie*

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I like this guy who's quite weird. People calls him a nerd. He seems so quiet, aloof, shy but incredibly smart. I didn't get to talk to him often, but when he talks to me, i notice that his voice goes soft. Other times when we were discussing a project in a group, he either seems bored, brash, flustered or really egoistical. He seldom talks to people in class in the past, but recently he seems happier. He seems to dislike me at first, either ignoring me or giving sarcastic coments just like he does most people, but now he seems to talk to me a bit. Then the other day he suddently comes around and calls my name and calls me his sweetheart. What does that mean? Does he like me or was he just joking?

yeah i think he likes you from all that... if he singles you out and treats you better than everyone else then i think he likes you

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Hey everyone,

Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female

spend more time with him and flirt so that he can get the message that you like him. hope i helped!

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Okay.My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he doesnt like me anymore so she can tell me. When I got online she told me and I was really mad. I was mad because all of my friends were telling me to break up with him because he didnt treat me right. He didnt know how to be a boyfriend and plus he was prude. He always told me that he loved me and he would never break up with me but look now he told her he didnt like me
anymore. Im so mad at my self that I didnt listen to my friends before. I didnt want to belive them. Now I`m hurt and I dont know what to do. I dont wanna talk to him and let him know I`m sad or anything. So .. do you think he ever liked me or that he just said he did? Im so confused and hurt. Please help! I rate 5's!

boys are such jerks. if he feels like this fine his lose but dont let it get you down. and if he cant even tell you to your face hes breaking up with you or give you an explanation hes not worth it. your too good for him. hope i helped!
*brookie*

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(Sorry if this turns out really long!) I've only been cutting myself for a little over two weeks but I'm already addicted. I told my boyfriend first because I vent to him a lot. I trust him and he can comfort me. Then later I told my teacher and she suggested for me to talk to my school counselor. My teacher told my parents, too. My mom talked to me but it wasn't about ME, it was about what my sister went through. It wasn't helpful. So I talked to the couselor. She freaked out and kept telling me, "You can't do that! STOP! You have to stop! If you do it again I'll tell the principal!" That is not what I expected from her. It wasn't helpful or encouraging. It was threatening! It almost made me want to cut! Later that day I was sitting alone in the gym slicing the skin on my arms and my Gym/Health teacher saw me and made me go alone in a room with him to talk. He kept telling me that even though life may suck now, it'll get better because I "have a good mind". I didn't think it was helpful either, but I started crying. Everytime I had to talk to someone, I wanted my boyfriend there holding my hand helping me endure it. I feel uncomfotable around everyone but him. One day my teacher actually tried to send me home because I was cutting and crying and miserable. I told her I didn't want to go home, I just wanted to talk to James. (James is my boyfriend.) She said she couldn't let him out of class. I glared at her and wouldn't talk to her. She called my parents and they took me home. The whole time I wanted to scream, "I JUST WANT JAMES!" When I got home I just reread old notes from my bf. He's the only one who can comfort me and it feels like he's the only reason I go on living. Do I depend on him too much? How can I stop cutting if I have nobody to talk to? Please comment or give advice! Sorry so long!

i think right now you need to really get close with your parents. they will always be there for you, friendships can get ruined and james could break up with you (but i doubt he will in your time of need) but it could happen. your parents will always be there for you. i know its getting harder everyday to tell them how we feel but when i talk to my parents they know exactly what to say and so just tell your mom exactly what your saying on here. you just need some encouragment and stuff. if you ever need to talk you can im me at texassoccerbabe9 or PiMpInAiNtEsY9 hope i helped! *brookie*

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I cant get a foundation to match my skin, because I am so pale. Does anyone know any good brands?

cover girl is really good. i dont know what the thing is called i know its brand is cover girl and that its in a some what long and skinny compact thats blue. hope i helped!

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There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?

aww! he probably likes you but is just too nervous to talk to you in person- its so much easier to talk on aim because you dont have to worry about how you look. i say you make the first move- dont be shy- because if he didnt like you he wouldnt talk to you on aim- so take a breath walk up to him and say hey but be sure you have some ice breaker like any gossip or something haha good luck hope i helped!
*bRoOkIe*

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what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do?

dont worry about it cause u arent a sophomore so you dont have to deal with them just keep going with your guy and sont worry about them

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