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Natally

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Okay. i just broke up with my man coz it was waaaaaaaay too serious a relationship. i'm 17 him 18 me a virgin him a well a slut. he was always wanting serious conversations and we started fighting coz i'd joke aroud too much and 'hurt his feelings' so yeah. i dumped him. now i want a guy that is fun and stuff but i have no way to meet one! i'm out of school with a full time - 6days a week- job so i barely even have time for my friends. it sux! how can i meet a fun guy??? i know i'll be fine in july coz it's my 18th so i can actually go night clubbing. but what do i do in the meantime? does anyone know a place where heaps of guys hang out? plz help i rate!

well i know guys hang out at the mall. um, you could try at sport parks they're filled with guys! but umm... even if theres a guy at your work, hang with him (that is if you like any of them) and see what he's like. but yea just wait and your Mr. Right will come along soon!
:)

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(16/F)
i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.

just talk to him truthfully. tell him nicly that you would like to spend some more time with ur girlz but he still means everything to you. just make sure that he still knows you want him, and maybe have some of his friends and yours spend a day together so your still with your gurls and him.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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Hi does anybody know the ingredients for a high protein drink which can help build up muscles. I wanna make it myself cos they r expensive at da shop. thanks for the help!

I rate high!

try fruit smoothies. or search the internet for some ingrediants for protien drinks. working out also helps while drinking this stuff. :D
h.i.h.

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My moms bff called me up the other day and said her nephew was moving in with her and she wants to hook us up! I mean I'm really excited because I havent had a boyfriend in over a year. But my ex and I are in love but he is with someone right now...ok I mean im really scared because you know im scared by dating him i might mess things up with my ex and what not...just i really dont know what to do?? what should i do? go for it and date her nephew or stay single and wait for my ex?

well even though theres still things goin on with u and ur ex... since he's with another grl go ahead and date the nephew... it wont hurt. And plus its good to try out with new ppl!
h.i.h.
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What is the difference between a "padded" bra and a "cup" bra?
thanks.
-confused

cup bra pushes up and the padded bra just keeps the shape better.

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My twin and I need help finding something to get our boyfriends for valetines day!! we need HELP!! If you have any Ideas PLease Post Them!! Will Rate HIGH if i like them :) Thanks!

depending on what they like, maybe some chocolate with a cute stuffed animal. or a cd with candy on the front, maybe even make him a scrap book of you being together, with like those cadny hearts that say stuff on them lol
h.i.h.
xonat

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How do you bar-lace shoes? Please explain it in as much detail as possible! thanks a bunch!

its really hard to explain but maybe you could have some one show you that has it done.
good luck!

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heyy! i wentout this this guy who was basicly my 1st real boyfriend..we broke up about a year ago, but though crushes and boyfriends have come and gone since then, i cant keep him off my mind! is it just a "1st love" kinda thing? i need help!

well if you still have a thing for him talk to him about it. He'll understand. And if you're luck, he'll still feel the same way too.
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My lip is bleeding really bad from being chapped. Is there a way I can stop it? It's a reddish black and I'm about to go to school so it's going to look weird. Any tips?

use some good chap stick to make them less chapped. maybe some vitamine e. it doesnt really matter what kind of chapped stick as long as it works for you.
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I need help QUICK!! Im getting my braces tightened for the first time tomorrow and I know to expect pain but how much? And do they hurt WHILE he's tightening them or AFTER hes done? Should I take advil first? Will i be able to eat/chew food afterwards? How long does it take for him to tighten them? Thanks ill rate high!!

eh, it doesnt really hurt, you feel some tightness in your mouth but it wears off after like 1 to 2 min. Dont worry!
Nat:.
(i had braces too :P)

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hey .. can someone on here .. like be an internet friend to me? & help me out ? because im going through alot right now and i just need someone to talk to .. my AIM sn is HARDC0REx EDN0LB .. and please dont IM me saying .. TELL ME WHATS RONG .. cuz i dk thats just not what i want .. i just want a friend.

feel free to IM me at sourtartbblgum8, ill be glad to talk to you and help ya out, even be an internet friend lol.
Natally :P

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I know i asked this last night, but i have a reaaally hard time finding any sheet music for straylight run songs. Does anyone who didn't answer me last night have any other ideas?

check some music stores around your area or search the internet or even ebay but id go for the local stores.

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every time i go out wit some one they just feel bad for me wat should i do? help i rate high

maybe act alittle different, tell them not to feel sorry for you if you dont like it. Maybe talk to them and, buy your own stuff... dont have them pay for you, but mainly acting different would help, becuase it might be from that that they get a hint you might need help.
h.i.h.
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this i guy i like is touching me a lot lately not like i'm complaining but he today he touched me in the stomach and he was hugging me today once again. we are cuddling a lot does this mean anything? he knows i like him and he likes me too.

well if you two arent going out and your positive that he likes you back then ask him out! even if he doesnt say yes, try anyway :D
natalie

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what is a good way to ask a heavy metal guy to a prom?! and when should i ask him cuz our prom is in may.

maybe during lunch or after school, and ask him cooly, not that he thinks that it will be soft, but dont worry everyone including the hard core guys have a soft side.

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If I take my cartilidge piercings out for like 30 minutes every weekday for gym class, do you think it'll close? I've had one of them since June '04, and the other since August'04 =) thanks.

its fine! as long as the earing is back in when gym is over it wont close
nat*

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hey im having a superbowl party and should i decorate for the patriots or the eagles..(which one of them will win) IM thinking patriots all the way but what about you guys?

well if ur having a praty with a whole bunch of frineds a few of them might be eagle fans and the other might be patriots so i would decorate it with both just so that you dont get into a big argument with whole like what and which is better.
h.i.h.

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ok, first of all, let me tell you that i just want to know what y'all think about this - please tell me honestly if you think this guy likes me or not. i usually see answers that 'since i don't know you both, i don't know', but please tell me your gut feeling.

i'm a senior and there's this guy who sits behind me in one of my classes (he's also a senior). i really like him and he can probably tell, but everyday when there's a break in the class or something we end up talking. not just like, 'can you help me with this worksheet' but more personal things. also, when i go through the halls i glance over and he's usually looking at me. from your viewpoint, do you think he likes me?

i would say he does :D so maybe try asking him or have a friend ask him if he likes u. i do believe he does though. Good Luck grl!
Nat:.

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My friend is over my house and we are running out of things to do to keep ourselves occupied. we are 13/f and real girly girl. and we can't go outside because of snow

you could paint your nails, do your hair all funny, watch a sweet movie and eat popcorn with hot cocoa... :). listen to music and sing to it, go on AIM or w.e you have a talk to random ppl lol you could also go outside in the snow and have a snow ball fight. thats really fun! but thats all i got so far.
Natally.:

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my n my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months... im 13/f and well valentines day is coming up.. and i have no idea what to get him... hes sorta a prep, he plays football, and umm idk hes just like a normal 13 year old guy.. please help!!

hurm... well he likes fball.. you could get him a fball like one of those miniatures. or some candy that he likes (or the sweet hearts and make a book of how much u love him with those, that would be cute :)) ortake a pic of u to and make it into this craft frame with candy around it that he can eat.
Gook Luck hun!
Natally:.

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