Hello my name is Ashley and I am 14
I have been riding horses for 8 years
I have two horses named Toby and Savannah
In my opinion, school isn't all that great
And I am here to offer help with anything you need
Gender: Female
Location: Maine
Age: 14
AIM: ashleymarie854
Member Since: February 14, 2008
Answers: 23
Last Update: July 26, 2009
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does anyone know how accurate generic brands of pregnancy tests are? i know first response is pretty much the best, but i bought the walgreens brand that said compare to first response. (link)
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They are pretty accurate actuallyyy...
My frans buy them from the dollar store, and they work just as good as any name brand.
But this is most of the time, if you buy cheap you sometimes get cheap, but you just need to get the job done, so I am sure it is just as accurate as any name brand. Afterall, they read the same hormone when you pee on the stickk....
I hope I helpeddd :D
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i stop cutting two days ago and it is hard because my parents our all over me it the way i deal with stress but i am realize that it hurts alot of people and i think u should stop to like i cutting past the vein and woke up in the hospital so if u ever need to talk to anybody my email adress is cruiser2011@yahoo.com i also have a myspace my name is brandon and i live in the us 2 (link)
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Ok
I will request you
Or you can request me
My display name is A.M.S (trademark thingg)
And thanks =]
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i am a former cutter i used to love to see my blood but i am over it now my name is brandon i am 15 and if u everneed to tlk u can tlk to me because i know it hard to deal with it alone i had to (link)
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I just answered the other question
haha
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i am a former cutter i used to love to see my blood but i am over it now my name is brandon i am 15 and if u everneed to tlk u can tlk to me because i know it hard to deal with it alone i had to (link)
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Ok
Thanks for all the help...
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you gave me advice on my sprained wrist, but I wanted to ask what do you mean regulations don't let you? and did you really run all the time when you broke your wrist? wouldn't it affect it because you're moving your arm up and down when you sprint. I'm joining track, and I am doing sprints, i don't want to reinjure it or anything. (link)
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Yea, I had a brace, not a cast, so my doctor said it was fine, and the movement doesn't matter, or in my case it didn't...SO I don't think it will affect yours, I mean I rode my horses, which is worse then just using your legs...but if you are doing relay or anythingg, then you might re hurt it, but other then that, no I don't think so. And at my old school, they sid if there was any previous healing wounds, like broken anything or deep cuts thats needed stitches you couldn't compete because they didn't want you to get rehurt, and have it be because you were on that team, and they knew about your condition, and they still let you compete, its the whole liability thingg...so yea, I hope your wrist gets better any more questions IM me on AIM at xxAMS15XX or Ashleymarie854
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i sprained my wrist on sat. feb. 23rd and its been around 2 weeks, i can't lift weights onto it, but i can move it a little, if i join a sport that involves running, will that affect the sprained wrist? (link)
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No, it won't effect it at all, unless you clentch your fists, then it might hurt, but if you do track or whatever, the requlations might not let you if your already injured... as long as you don't fall down, you should be fine. I broke my wrist and I ran all the timee, so good luck any more question IM me on AIM at xxAMS15xx or ashleymarie854
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okay, i dont even know where to start.
everything has been so...idfk!
its hard to describe.
you know that saying, "on the outside im fine, but on the inside im screaming" thats how i feel lately.
but its such a mixed and weird emotion im having.
like sometimes everything good, like im having a good day, but other times i get so mad at myself and everyone around me-for reasons though.
**this one really weird thing i cant stop doing is-
i have this theory thing that i like...cant stop doing. its like this, if sunday is a bad day, then the whole week til sunday again will be bad. or if the morning of my day sucks, then the rest of the day has to. its so freakin annoying but its got me convinced.
im just so upset with myself, and i did nothihng.
ughhh (link)
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I think it could be OCD, or something else, I don't really know because I am not a professional...but this could develop into something serious! And if you really need someone to talk to you can IM me on xxAMS15xx or ashleymarie854 on AIM...so yea...thats if you need someone to talk to...
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Hi! Well, I'm 14/f. I've been working out, eating healthy, ya know. well, When I work out, I don't feel like I'm doing much. I'm kinda big, and trying to loose weight. The things I do when I work out are palaties, walk/run/jog on treadmil, weights, sit-ups, push-ups. So I do a lot, and I work out 5 times a week, so why aren't I seeing any results or feeling anything? How many months does it take to start seeing results? thanks! (link)
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You have to remember that when you first srart working out your body thinks that it needs the extra body fat for energy, you will actually gain weight the first 2-3 weeks! Then you will slowly lose weight! So keep eating right and working out! So any more questions IM me on AIM at xxAMS15xx
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My bf is 15 and his penis is about 5 inches long
hes nervous about it i told him its ok is that about average? (link)
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Yes it is about average, but maybe on the smaller size, it usually about 5-6-7 inches longg...so yes tell him not to worry, hope I helped!
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15/f
[kind of long. but i really need help]
there's this girl that i'm friends with. we used to be best friends, but lately our relationship has been kind of strained. she's just been so out of control the past 2 weeks that i have no idea how to handle it. we were basically the same two weeks ago.
we're both 15 going on 16, and we had never been drunk, or done anything illegal, or had boyfriends, or h/u'd with anyone. well it started when she went to this persons sweet 16 and got drunk at an afterparty. at first i was like whatever. everyone gets drunk as a teen, no big deal. then last friday she told me she smoked cigarettes, something we swore to eachother we would never EVER do. i was in a different state this week visiting relatives and while i was gone she threw a wild house party and did weed and got completely drunk and h/u'd with 4 guys and got fingered. and she may have had sex but she doesn't even remember. I feel like she's changing too fast and there's nothing i can do about it. and even though i wasn't even in the same state as her when this party happened, i somehow feel responsible. like i let her down in a way. like i was the reason she started hanging out with these kind of people because i had been a bit too clingy and pushed her away and made her want to rebel against everyone. she doesn't understand that she can get in serious trouble for what she did, if anyone ever finds out. and the worst part is, i don't think she even feels bad about it. she'd wanted to get drunk and high and make out with guys so bad. she told me this. and it seems like she's kind of happy about it and i just don't know what to do to make her understand how worried i am about her and how dangerous this kind of behavior really is without sounding too motherly and like a loser.
any advice is appreciated. (link)
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This same thing happened to me! My friend and I were close and then she got into the badd crowd! she wanted some "adventure"...I tried confronting her, and she pushed me awaysaying I needed to mind my own business! My suggestion to you is to be like, why did you do that stuff. Do not critize her, and don't say it was bad, just ask why. This will show that you aren't there to scold her, just to talk. And then be like, I was just wondering what happened...I mean two weeks ago you were different, and make it clear that you aren't upset with her no matter how much you are. If you scold her, even a little bit, before you get the whole story, you never will! And it was a very steep incline, do you think that something might have happened that you don't know about, making her act in this way? Or something that she just needed to get out of her system...and if she won't talk to you, you need to tell someone, and get her in trouble, she will close you out, but its better then her ending up high, and drunk, taken advantage of, and then ending up pregnant, ruining her and the kinds life. If you tell a teacher, or one of your parents...that might help....
Hope I helped...if you need anything more, you can IM me on AIM at xxAMS15xx
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What is it called when a person cant date anyone but the person they are going to married? Thanks to whoever answers. (link)
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I think it might be ingaged....and the person you are about to marry is called your fiance! I hope I helped!
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I've been doing some research on smoking cigarettes while taking oral contraceptives.
If one were to smoke a very little amount (i.e. 1-2 cigarettes a week) while on birth control, would it still be enough to cause harm? (link)
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If you are seriously considering 1 or 2 a week, just quit. the nicotine receptors don't need them...One or two won't make a difference from having them and quitting. And if the pill direction say no smoking, I think they mean NO SMOKING! If there was any chance it could harm you then they wouldn't put it on the package.
Hope I helped if you need anything more you can IM me on AIM at ====> xxAMS15xx
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hi i'm 16/f 5'3-4" 140 lbs
okay so recently i've became a vegetarian. and i want to loose some weight for the spring, i'm thinking about 10-15 lbs. i know you need to eat healthy and exercise so please don't tell me that. it's just that now i've become a vegetarian i find myself eating more carbs like pasta and beans alot. i know i eat alot of carbs and i eat salads too because i don't really know what else to eat. i also don't know how much to exercise, it would be great if sometime gave me a routine to follow because once i know what to do exactly, i will do it. it there anyone out there who can tell me what to eat per day and how much to exercise, and doing what? i mainly wanna loose weight in my stomach, legs, and arms oh and i have these really annoying love handles that i want to get rid of. can somebody please help me and give me a routine to follow and what to eat per day? thank you so much i really appreciate it. (link)
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First, its not what you eat, its how much you eat. The same amount of calories on a candy bar as in 24 grapefruit type deal. Try recording your calorie intake for a week. Then find the average. And try to burn most of those, and start creating muscle. A way to lose fat around your legs is to run or bike or whatever. Lunges, and squats will help as well. For your love handles try taking a broom stick, or pole and putting it behind your neck and do side crunches, and like twist your body. Those are two that will help. And crunches, jumping jacks will help as well.And if you are working...try getting a gym membership...that could help. And try putting your self in the healthy lifestyle. Instead of eating two salads or whatever, try one. And eat the food one your plate. And wait about 30-45 minutes for your body to realize that its full or not. That could help as well. And if you eat dessert everyday, try once or twice a week.
If you need anything else IM me on AIM at ===> xxAMS15xx
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this girl in my class is a slut! she is fake and really annoying and a suck up. she has fake boobs and trys to get all the guys to like her to hard. she cheated on her bf over the internet a while back and she used to be my friend but now i hate her and she asks me if i still like her. what can i say to her?? that she is a slut and need to clean up her act or ignore her? plus if i dont talk to her one day or talk to a guy she likes she'll say really bad things behind my back. i just want to punch her. (link)
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Well its hard to deal with sluts because they usually think that they aren't a slut. That what they do is prefectly fine! So I wouldn't ignore her, or be mean. Everyone around you will think that you are mean, even though she was first. So I wouldn't make conversation with her, I would just leave things be. If she talks to you, make the conversation short and sweet, don't be mean, but don't be nice either. Find the medium, like indifferent about the situation at hand. And if she asks you if you are friends, then tell her more like aquantinces (sp)....that shouldn't make her to mad, and if it does, its not on your shoulders...she is just being "over sensitive" if anyone asks lol
Hope I helped
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I was around 7 when my brother n law started talking to me about sex and little kisses here and there began, the touching started around 10 or 11 and then all the way when i was 12,i told my sister a few years later when i was about 14, she promised she would not hate me and things between us would not change, we were so close even though she is more then 10yrs older, but she lied when i was 18 it finally came out to the whole family, and i was told to deal with it i couldn't stand to be around him, but they said deal with it.so i've tried, at his son's funeral i felt sorry for the bastard, i went to hug him and he held me tight and said do you know how many beautiful women have hugged me tonight god help me i thought i'd die.i;ve tried shrinks and its all still in my head, how do i get my sister to love me again?shes convinced it never happened, and i just want it all to go away, it has been over 15 yrs of hell, any advice much appreciated. (link)
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Ok first off...
Just to clarify....this isn't your fault!
Your family shouldn't have told you to deal...this is a very traumatic experience for someone to go through! They should be there for you! You should not be expected to be around him, what he did to you is horrible! The way you choose to deal with it is yours. I mean you can get medication from your doctor to block the memories...or you can talk to your "shrink" and just talk about it. You can also confront the man who molested you and ask him why he did it. And clear it up that way. Or maybe write your self letters explaining what you are feeling and then mailing them to that man. This might make him see how he effected you...if he doesn't alreay know! I know you want to get over this, and I don't blame you. I also have another suggestion...horses. If you live near a horse farm, I would suggest going to ride for a little bit, and bonding with them. I have seen the results with rape, mental and physical dissabilities and depression. They turn your life around. So I would try it, you might think at first they are smelly and dirty, but I guarantee it will help if you mindis open and you really want to deal with this. And if you don't think you have enough time, then try taking a weekend far in advanced, and get excited about it. You will instantly feel a connection with the horse. It will hurt your bottom, but its really fun!!! And about the whole sister loving you thing...I think you first need to come to terms with the situation, before you can go and talk to her. If she doesn't think it happened...then I don't think there is any hope in trying, when someone mind is set in one direction, then it porbably won't change just by talking to her. It sounds like you have already talked to her, and it didn't work. You can't make anyone do anything, unless they want to change their mind. So sorry about your sister, but I think the most important thing is to help you get over it, and to make your mental health a lot better. I hope I helped, and if you need anything else you can IM me on AIM at ====> xxAMS15xx
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How do you stay motivated to eat healthier? (link)
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Well ,if you want to be motivated....like because you think you are fat....just remember that if you eat cake, or an apple, which will make you fatter! I ued to weigh 150 and now I weigh 125ish...and I joined the track team to help me stay healthy! I just remember, I Want to lose weight, and ifm I eat that cake, I will become fat, but if I eat this apple, I will get energy and stay skinny!
Hope I helped
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I feel like im pregnant sometimes. But I am not quite sure because it scares me to even go near a test. I just want to now if you think I am experiencing any of these signs because I am pregnant or losing my mind just thinking about it. I feel bloated or fatter. I had my period the first week of January this year. My period is usually 5 days. I had sex just a week after my period. The condom had popped and of course I didn't know until I actually went to use the bathroom. Which had to be atleast 5-10 minutes after intercourse. I noticed that part of the condom was still inside me. However, I didnt notice any sperm inside of it. Before he decided he was going to cum, he pulled out and did so. What I do know is there is something called pre-cum that does exist. Thats's why im explainig this now. Im not on birth control so my period comes whenever it feels like it. And somehow during the last week of January...or the week before the last...my period mysteriously shows up and lasts for 4 days. Up until that happened..my period lasts for 5-7 days. None lesser than those days. I Have no kind of breast pains. Getting bigger or anything like that. My friends say it looks like I have lost weight. But I do not think so. I think I look fat. Bloating maybe. And it is common to start bloating before your period, And on the regular. I get a feeling in my stomach like Fatigue before I get my period. So every now and then. I know when im about to get on. I have back pains every now and then. Morning sickness is not common at all to me. I do not have the urge to eat alot either(like im eating for two. i will eat a single meal and still get full). I am tired everyday, I personally think its because i go to bed at 11pm or 12 midnight and wake up at 4:45am-5am. So I will sometimes just come in the house and go straight to sleep or I will sleep in class. But not occassionally. Please do not recommend a test to be takin'. I am going to do so tomorrow. I just want to know If I am experiencing any kind of physical way of being pregnant. ANd also I want to put in that I am not having mood swings. No headaches. Only once, and it was out of nowhere. My friends say I am losing weight but I truly think I am getting bigger. My breast are not getting larger nor sore nor tender at that matter. And it has only been a month and I hear that it is most common that it happens in the second month. My period. Well im not on the pill so like i said it will come any time it wants too. I think I had my period. I am just not too sure. And it happened to come twice in one month and this onl happened to me a few times. I will have my period in the next month still but it will change dates like for example..my period will come ealier in the month. Than I end up having my period later on in the same month. And then get it later on next month.(if that helps)
Any advice or suggestions or opinions I will take it all. Please help. Any additional information. I will surely be glad to give. (link)
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Well...
You can't/don't have your period when you are pregnant...
So if you are still having it, then you aren't pregnant
And if you don't have it for a while, like three months (usually) And then have a dark hard flow of blood, then it could have been a miscarrage
Three months is the ususal limit for a natural miscarrage
So yeaa.
I hope I helped
And remeber use a condom, and don't use two....they rip holes in each other, making it worse...so only use one!
Good luck...
Hope I helped
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is doing 300 jumpinjacks, crunches and pushups mostly everday over-exerscsing?
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Well...what was your level of excercising before?
If you did nothing...then you are
But if you ran, or did something else, then maybe not
I mean people run 15 miles everyday...
And its not over excercising
So maybee...
So if you are extremely sore, and really tiredd, then lower your workload....
Hope I helped
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So, last night, I had a little to drink and I had a random hookup with one of my friend's friends. We didn't have a condom, and I have been on birth control for a month last night. The sex didn't last long at all, he got off and pulled out. I'm wondering since I've not been on birth control other than a month if there's going to be a possibility of pregnancy? (link)
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Well of course there is a chance!
But if you have been using Birth Control
Faithfully....
Then you might not be...
But it is ususally only 99% effective...so you might get pregnant
Good luck...
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6 months along :]
its a girl.
me and my boyfriend have some names pciked out.
but arent sure what to name her.
just lemme know what you think.
Riley James Court.
Brooklyn ray Court.
Elizabeth lynn Court.
Courtney may Court.
^6what one do you like the best.
or give me some suggestions. (link)
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I love riley!
And courtney!
Some of my favorite names are Laura and Erica
Good luck on parenting!
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