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Pregnant or am I just trippin'?
I feel like im pregnant sometimes. But I am not quite sure because it scares me to even go near a test. I just want to now if you think I am experiencing any of these signs because I am pregnant or losing my mind just thinking about it. I feel bloated or fatter. I had my period the first week of January this year. My period is usually 5 days. I had sex just a week after my period. The condom had popped and of course I didn't know until I actually went to use the bathroom. Which had to be atleast 5-10 minutes after intercourse. I noticed that part of the condom was still inside me. However, I didnt notice any sperm inside of it. Before he decided he was going to cum, he pulled out and did so. What I do know is there is something called pre-cum that does exist. Thats's why im explainig this now. Im not on birth control so my period comes whenever it feels like it. And somehow during the last week of January...or the week before the last...my period mysteriously shows up and lasts for 4 days. Up until that happened..my period lasts for 5-7 days. None lesser than those days. I Have no kind of breast pains. Getting bigger or anything like that. My friends say it looks like I have lost weight. But I do not think so. I think I look fat. Bloating maybe. And it is common to start bloating before your period, And on the regular. I get a feeling in my stomach like Fatigue before I get my period. So every now and then. I know when im about to get on. I have back pains every now and then. Morning sickness is not common at all to me. I do not have the urge to eat alot either(like im eating for two. i will eat a single meal and still get full). I am tired everyday, I personally think its because i go to bed at 11pm or 12 midnight and wake up at 4:45am-5am. So I will sometimes just come in the house and go straight to sleep or I will sleep in class. But not occassionally. Please do not recommend a test to be takin'. I am going to do so tomorrow. I just want to know If I am experiencing any kind of physical way of being pregnant. ANd also I want to put in that I am not having mood swings. No headaches. Only once, and it was out of nowhere. My friends say I am losing weight but I truly think I am getting bigger. My breast are not getting larger nor sore nor tender at that matter. And it has only been a month and I hear that it is most common that it happens in the second month. My period. Well im not on the pill so like i said it will come any time it wants too. I think I had my period. I am just not too sure. And it happened to come twice in one month and this onl happened to me a few times. I will have my period in the next month still but it will change dates like for example..my period will come ealier in the month. Than I end up having my period later on in the same month. And then get it later on next month.(if that helps)
Any advice or suggestions or opinions I will take it all. Please help. Any additional information. I will surely be glad to give.
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Well...
You can't/don't have your period when you are pregnant...
So if you are still having it, then you aren't pregnant
And if you don't have it for a while, like three months (usually) And then have a dark hard flow of blood, then it could have been a miscarrage
Three months is the ususal limit for a natural miscarrage
So yeaa.
I hope I helped
And remeber use a condom, and don't use two....they rip holes in each other, making it worse...so only use one!
Good luck...
Hope I helped <3
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My dear friend,
I understand you are scared right now and the best way to feel better about it is to have knowledge about what is going on. First of all, condoms can break when the female partner does not have enough vaginal secretion, which means you may not have been aroused. If this intercourse was not completely consensual, be sure to tell some one and find the proper physical
and emotional therapy. I'm glad you are using a condom, and I hope you know that pulling out is never an effective contraceptive. Sperm can live for up to 4 days outside of the body and can travel from anywhere around the vagina into the uterus. I'm not trying to scare you, I just want to make sure you know.
It does sound to me like you're having some symptoms of pregnancy, and while I can understand you are afraid of taking one, knowledge is your most valuable asset. If you are afraid to face the results alone, find a friend or parent or counselor to sit with you while you wait for the results.
Another thing, vaginal bleeding is not necessarily menstruation. I would suggest you tell some one you trust, contact Planned Parenthood, see a doctor, and take a test as soon as possible.
I understand this is hard on you emotionally, no matter how old you are. I hope it goes well for you.
-Linda
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