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backstabbers??
this girl in my class is a slut! she is fake and really annoying and a suck up. she has fake boobs and trys to get all the guys to like her to hard. she cheated on her bf over the internet a while back and she used to be my friend but now i hate her and she asks me if i still like her. what can i say to her?? that she is a slut and need to clean up her act or ignore her? plus if i dont talk to her one day or talk to a guy she likes she'll say really bad things behind my back. i just want to punch her.
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i have to dissagree with Nancy. I'm not so sure you should keep a relationship going with this chick.
It seems to me that she is insecure, seeing that she has to try so hard to get attention and change everything about her to please everyone else.
You shouldn't surround yourself with this kind of person. If she starts saying things about you behind your back, don't worry about it.
People WILL notice your reaction and how you're still standing tall, confidence is attractive. And the "fake" will give up on you because she sees that her talking has no effect.
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Okay,
a person like this isn't a good thing to have around and eventually you'll probably drift apart from her.
Okay but i still think that you should maintain a relationship with her just to keep your name clean, you know?
So, yeah do that.
As far as her reputation goes, she'll have to make that decsision. Karma will eventually bite her in the tushy. People will talk and she will get sick of it and try to change.
yeah.
-Nancydotcom ©
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okay babe. there's always gonna be girls like that in your life. just be nice to her. that will give her no reason to talk shit behind your back. don't get in a fight with her. let her do what she wants. if you really want a frienship with her maybe you should tell her nicely that she doesn't need to throw herself at guys for them to like her. she might get really offended though. so i would just stick with being nice to her at school. but you don't have to hang out with her outside of school or anything like that.
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A person like that is someone that'll just bring you down, so I suggest you get rid of her right away! You don't need a toxic friend like that in your life, you're better than that. If she's really that bad of a person, you should just go up to her and tell her how you truly feel about her, have her know what it feels like to be talked bad about. I hope that everything works out for you!
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Oh... wow. First off, I would calm down a bit.
I know how you feel, like, angry towards somebody because of what they did, but you are not her and she makes her own decisions.
For your second part, when she asks what you think of her, don't be mean. I'm sure that if she's as bad as your description, others have said some pretty nasty things to her. Say something like, "I don't hate you or anything, but there are aspects of your personality and there are things you do that I really do not like. I think that maybe you should try not to talk about me behind my back, and you should calm down with the flirting."
Tip: DON'T PUNCH HER.
It is not worth it. Be the bigger person, and just tell her calmly that she's not exactly somebody you like.
-Laura. (15-f)
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Well its hard to deal with sluts because they usually think that they aren't a slut. That what they do is prefectly fine! So I wouldn't ignore her, or be mean. Everyone around you will think that you are mean, even though she was first. So I wouldn't make conversation with her, I would just leave things be. If she talks to you, make the conversation short and sweet, don't be mean, but don't be nice either. Find the medium, like indifferent about the situation at hand. And if she asks you if you are friends, then tell her more like aquantinces (sp)....that shouldn't make her to mad, and if it does, its not on your shoulders...she is just being "over sensitive" if anyone asks lol
Hope I helped <3
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