my name is
nancy
and im ready and willing to give you my advice
[if you dont like it well thats simply not my problem]
i AM a young person
but that sholdn't make a difference
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i hope you understand my lingo
if you don't well
DISCLAIMER !
*i tend not to read over my advice so if i misspell anything im really sorry ...
Your ratings dont affect my opinion
you downrating me isnt going to affect what my inicial statement was....
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Advice:
noun 1. an opinion or recommendation offered as a guide to action, conduct, etc.:
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this girl in my class is a slut! she is fake and really annoying and a suck up. she has fake boobs and trys to get all the guys to like her to hard. she cheated on her bf over the internet a while back and she used to be my friend but now i hate her and she asks me if i still like her. what can i say to her?? that she is a slut and need to clean up her act or ignore her? plus if i dont talk to her one day or talk to a guy she likes she'll say really bad things behind my back. i just want to punch her. (link)
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Okay,
a person like this isn't a good thing to have around and eventually you'll probably drift apart from her.
Okay but i still think that you should maintain a relationship with her just to keep your name clean, you know?
So, yeah do that.
As far as her reputation goes, she'll have to make that decsision. Karma will eventually bite her in the tushy. People will talk and she will get sick of it and try to change.
yeah.
-Nancydotcom ©
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15/f
[kind of long. but i really need help]
there's this girl that i'm friends with. we used to be best friends, but lately our relationship has been kind of strained. she's just been so out of control the past 2 weeks that i have no idea how to handle it. we were basically the same two weeks ago.
we're both 15 going on 16, and we had never been drunk, or done anything illegal, or had boyfriends, or h/u'd with anyone. well it started when she went to this persons sweet 16 and got drunk at an afterparty. at first i was like whatever. everyone gets drunk as a teen, no big deal. then last friday she told me she smoked cigarettes, something we swore to eachother we would never EVER do. i was in a different state this week visiting relatives and while i was gone she threw a wild house party and did weed and got completely drunk and h/u'd with 4 guys and got fingered. and she may have had sex but she doesn't even remember. I feel like she's changing too fast and there's nothing i can do about it. and even though i wasn't even in the same state as her when this party happened, i somehow feel responsible. like i let her down in a way. like i was the reason she started hanging out with these kind of people because i had been a bit too clingy and pushed her away and made her want to rebel against everyone. she doesn't understand that she can get in serious trouble for what she did, if anyone ever finds out. and the worst part is, i don't think she even feels bad about it. she'd wanted to get drunk and high and make out with guys so bad. she told me this. and it seems like she's kind of happy about it and i just don't know what to do to make her understand how worried i am about her and how dangerous this kind of behavior really is without sounding too motherly and like a loser.
any advice is appreciated. (link)
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Dido
i had the same problem when i was younger so i know where youre coming from so
My advice:
You should tell her how you feel [and no its not gonna be as easy as it sounds] so the most painless way to tell her is by writting her a letter.
Tell her everything how she's going down a downwards spiral
-and blah blah blah
For her this IS just going to be just a phase and sort of a right of pasage kind of thing and EVENTUALLY she will get over it.
-I hope for the best for you and your friend !
if you need any further advice you can rach me at:
nancydotcom@rock.com
XOXO
-Nancydotcom™
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Okay, first off, this guy who i dont like, gave me this other guy that i knows phone number when i asked for HIS! Second, he blocked me on aim when i didnt do anything to him, again, i dont like him, but i am trying to be friends......
Am i doing anything wrong and any advice? (link)
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You havent done absolutely anything wrong if its anyone HE has the problem
i think you should back off a little bit and give him some space ...
Then whatever happens...
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i'm 16yrs old, &&' my mom found out that i smoke marijuana. I told my cousin, my cousin told her mom, and her mom told my mom. She's all crying and stuff, because she found out. My mom and dad both smoke marijuana, so i don't see why she cares. My mom isn't like a regular mom, she asked me why i didn't tell her. And it's because hes not the mom to talk about sex or stuff like that. I just yelled at her to get out of my room, when she asked me why i didnt tell her. Now i'm mad because i thought she knew all the times i came home and smelt like it. And i'm afraid she'll tell my dad. What do i do? please help in any way! (link)
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you yelling at her to get out aint cool
i dont know why shes flipping out cause
se\he smokes to
what the hell kind of example is that
*but your dumb but shouldnt go around smokig pot either...
STOP SMOKING POT!
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my parents dont want me to have a boyfriend, I really like someone and he asked me out but my parents think i'm too young (high school sophomore). Talking about it doesnt solve it too. Shoulld i Go behind their backs? (link)
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yo i have i have th e same problem
go behind their backs...
BUT try not to slip in school or get really distracted by him cause then ull parents will figure it it out and bash you for sneaking around
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14/f
well i know this guy (jake) and he was my first kiss and my first friend in the nieghborhood but later on we got in a fight for 4 months but then he apologized to me. so we started hanging out again and one thing lead to another and we had sex (no. he didn't take my virginity. i felt bad for a while because he has a girlfrind in another state he's had for over a year. then after that, summer started and i wasn't home for most of it so we never saw eachother. then when school started we started hanging out again. we haven't really talked about it bt he's told me he's been thinking about us. i didn't really say anything because for a while i really like him but i've moved on and the incident was just a memory now. he's a great guy but i'm not sure how i should feel around him. i mean when i'm by him i feel protected andi care for him alot but does he feel the same. i mean he was there when my heart was shattered by the guy who took my virginity. (he pounded on him like crazy) he was the shoulder i cried on but he still has a girlfriend & i'm starting to feel like a side girl. but then i think to myself if i was just another girl why would he have stood up for me, why would he have been there for me and not just somewhere else? i'm not sure on where to be in this mess. am i suppose to care or do i forget? is he the real thing or just a fling after a year? help please!!
thanks =]] (link)
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he does obviously care about you..
if he cares about you the same way that you care about him is the real question...
*ask him how he feels about your friendship/relationship
and go from there...
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I'm 13/f, and I have an overprotective mom. She can't leave me home alone for 15 minutes. I was going to my friend's house. I told my mom that my friend's babysitter was going to be there, which was true, and my mom didn't believe me. She followed me to my friend's door and STUCK her head into the house, and looked around. I was SO embarrassed. She could have at least asked my friend if her mom was home or something. And I'm going to my friend's house soon and I'm so scared that my mom will follow me to the door again. My mom never used to be so overprotective. HELP!! How do I get to calm her nerves down? I live in a town where nothing bad has ever happened. (link)
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i agree with every one else
youre barely 13 and your mom is being overprotective because your growing up
she is scared that her *little baby girl *
is growing up so fast
at the moment you kind of have to deal with it until she gets comfortable with you going out
thats all i can say ...
hope i helped
Nancy.Dot.Com™
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my parents are being totally unfair cau i really want contacts but they say im not going to get them. they say they dont want me to get an infection or something like that, and they say they cost a whole lot more then glasses so is there any way i can get my parents to buy me contacts? caus im already 16 and i look like a total nerd wih glasses. (link)
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freshlook contacts are s great ..
+if you get temporaries they are way cheaper
i agree with that other kid
make excuses about how much easier itll be with contacts
just tell them youll take care of them and as long as you dont complain about them thay wont care
just make sure you take care of them....
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