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so we have a history...
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well i know this guy (jake) and he was my first kiss and my first friend in the nieghborhood but later on we got in a fight for 4 months but then he apologized to me. so we started hanging out again and one thing lead to another and we had sex (no. he didn't take my virginity. i felt bad for a while because he has a girlfrind in another state he's had for over a year. then after that, summer started and i wasn't home for most of it so we never saw eachother. then when school started we started hanging out again. we haven't really talked about it bt he's told me he's been thinking about us. i didn't really say anything because for a while i really like him but i've moved on and the incident was just a memory now. he's a great guy but i'm not sure how i should feel around him. i mean when i'm by him i feel protected andi care for him alot but does he feel the same. i mean he was there when my heart was shattered by the guy who took my virginity. (he pounded on him like crazy) he was the shoulder i cried on but he still has a girlfriend & i'm starting to feel like a side girl. but then i think to myself if i was just another girl why would he have stood up for me, why would he have been there for me and not just somewhere else? i'm not sure on where to be in this mess. am i suppose to care or do i forget? is he the real thing or just a fling after a year? help please!!
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he does obviously care about you..
if he cares about you the same way that you care about him is the real question...
*ask him how he feels about your friendship/relationship
and go from there...
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from what it seems like, you both have feelings for eachother, you need to communicate with him and ask him these questions because then you'll know if you should continue it further
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Since Jake has a girlfriend you can only see him as just a friend,someone to see as a person who will look out for you when you're in danger it would of been different even he didn't have one,he does seem like a great guy.It could be that he felt the same way you felt or maybe he see's you as a good pal.It's okay to feel this way but you should forget about him and try to move on.
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I think you guys should be really good friends. I think you feel like he is a really good friend to you. So explain that to him. Tell him that you don't regret having sex with him but you think you guys would be better as just friends. Tell him you are always there for him like how he was there for you in the past. And hopefully he will be there for you in the future. Tell him how you feel comfortable around him and your freindship means alot to you. He will understand.
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