Q: i am a 15 year old guy. i have always like girls and i mean ALWAYS. never ever felt even the slightest love directed at a guy. 4 months ago i asked a girl out. after that, i had a crush on another girl a little less than 2 months ago.
I am really confused because about 3 weeks ago i started wondering i may be gay after i saw some line reading a soccer review where the player said "its a man's game". i have no clue why but that set of a chain reaction in me. after this i can count about 3 instances where i haven't been aroused that much by porn. i have never watched gay porn but for some reason it seems more exciting but not so arousing. i think it might be the hero worship happening now. i am sexually attracted to women ONLY and masturbate thinking about them only and do not fantasize about men.
my relationship with my dad is good but i don't see him so much because he is busy and my brother left for college last year. have not been able to meet my friends so much cos i have study leave for exams.
please help. i really need it

Q: Ok so I don't get it anymore. Me and my one best friend have been best friends since forever it seems. In like 7th or 8th grade she started to hang out with this other group of friends. I was hurt at first but it's not like she can't have other friends. The thing that hurt me the most was when she would ditch me for them or not even invite into their plans, even though I was friends with every single one of them in that group. I tried everything, but eventually she came back to me and we were really close in 9th grade. Except she lied to me and I don't know if I can trust her anymore... it was a big thing her lie.. but I won't get into that. Anyway, she keeps talking about two of the girls in their "group" about how much they hate them and that they never have time for their "grouP" anymore and if they asked them to hang out then they wouldn't hang out with them. All the while I'm standing there listening trying to pay attention but frankly I could care less. Anyway Friday her and another girl in their group asked me to do something but I had other plans, and they were like "we should ask the two girls that never want to do something with us to do something tonight because I know they won't want to, but let's do it just for fun". I was like okay go have fun if thats what you call fun... anyway, Saturday night on my best friends away message was the she was having a sleepover with her best friends and they were the group including the two girls they talk about all the time. I have a few questions....
1) what should I do about their group? ignore it?
2) i really don't want to lose this friend and I have confronted her about the group and she just blows it off saying I'm her best friend even if she doesn't show it. any suggestions?

Sorry this is so long but I thank whoever took the time to read this because I really need help with this situation

Q: is your penis size in your genes like girls are with there boobs. like if your family has a history of "big" penis's, will it be hereditary?

Q: i like this guy at school but he's a year younger than me and i don't want pple saying i'm desperate so i decided not to like him anymore but i still do

what do i do? help plz and thanks!

Q: I keep having pimples on my armpit and along my crotch (I don't know the name of the place for a girl's body but like where you would have a camel toe near the pee hole) all of a sudden and they hurt really bad and I don't know why I'm getting it!

I didn't use anything new or anythign and i'm very clean! how can I make them go away? the one on my armpit has been on for liek 2 weeks and still didn't go away!

Q: Now every time I wear Certain Dri (anti-perspirant) my armpit is really itchy and I would want to skip a day or two but I don't think that would be a good choice for my rep in school..

Is it just me or the anti-perspirant?

Q: A girl who I thought was my best friend, Sarah, has been talking about my other best friend, Amanda, alot lately and I got so tired of listening to it, so I told Amanda everything. Sarah was acting like a jerk to her and Amanda wanted to know why, so it's not like I just told her to get them in a fight. Sarah had called her a bitch, a slut, and told me that she hated her because she always says she can't come over because she is busy. I honestly thought that was no reason to call her those things. Also, she had been purposely leaving Amanda out and making fun of her. She had said alot of other bad things about her too, but I don't feel like listing everything and I didn't tell her them because I knew she would get too upset. I told Amanda almost everything today and in return, she began telling me what all she has been saying about me behind my back. Sarah had said the same thing about both of us, including all of her other "friends." On myspace, Sarah's profile says, "If you're mad at me, get over it," just talking to everyone in general and plus every other time I've gotten mad at her for something, she turns everything around and blames me. So, I know I can't talk to her about any of this. What should I do? Did I do the right thing by telling Sarah?

Q: when im making out with my boyfriend and messing around i get really wet like alot of it and is there anyway to prevent not getting so wet because when we have sex it sometimes makes noises ; can i prevent the noises ?

Q: ok so there's this guy who i met, and he's like this really nice guy but he really likes me. It's not that i like him, but this is the situation i'm facing. He thinks I'm his girlfriend, but he's a little bit mentally behind?? I don't know if that sounds mean..... if it does I'm really sorry. I don't mean to sound mean. He's not retarted but his mind isn't necessarily at the same level as a regular 17 year old boy. He acts like he's younger. On Valentines Day, he had roses delivered to my school and he wrote on the card that I was the best girlfriend ever and that I make him so happy. But, I have a boyfriend, and they go to the same school. I can't have him telling my boyfriend he's with me and start a whole big huge misunderstanding for no reason. But, I feel so bad because I don't know what to do about this because I don't want to hurt his feelings, especially because of him acting younger. I really don't know what to tell him? Should I just not say anything and tell my boyfriend about this before the other guy does?

ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE AND THANK YOU

Q: I have a serious problem, I always get boners in the middle of class and i have to get up alot and i dont want people to see me. I am not getting hard because the teacher is hot either because, beleve me, she is NOT! Does any else have this proble, how can I fix it???? Any bit of info will help!!!

Q: i have this friend(she really is a friend) whos likes this guy..he liked her at the begining of the year and asked her out alot!!....but she rejected him everytime b/c he did'nt like him then...now she likes him alot...and he likes her friend...he calls her alot and ims her to get info about her friend...everytime he does that she gets more and more jealous...i want him to go back to liking her...is there anything she can do??...she flirts with him and everything..but i don't know wat she can do??

Q: ok, I have a guy friend who I'm pretty close with, and he's stopped jerking off as part of a little quest to see what he can do. I've only talked to him on the internet lately, but:

he's become overly aggressive and easily annoyed. it's good to talk to him, but not like this.

Any views on this? I can't narrow it down to a specific question, but I just want to get him in a state where I can talk to him where he isn't bouncing off the fuckin' walls. Thanks D:

Q: 16,female....

i'll try to make it as short as i can!!..

this guy liked me, we would hangout and stuff then he went out with another girl and then while he was goin out with her he would always say i like you more than her and then i was like why are you even going out with her then?? your stupid! and he broke up with her and hes like i only went out with her because i thought you liked this kid. and i was like nooo! so then he still liked me (i know he did alot =) but he was younger than me so i was like ehh..hes so cute though but then one night he got really mad at me for like no reason and said he never wanted to talk to me so i tried to make things better..and i was like why are you being like this, i heard you were talking crap about me and he was like F*** that i dont talk about you AT ALL. and i was like haha wow alright and he was like why are you even talking to me and i never said anything back but i MISS HIM. ive tried to like other guys, i try and not see him (he goes to a diff school) but i ALWAYS want to see him but its so hard now that he like hates me and now he is going out with another girl and i think he can do SOOO much better everyone thinks she is ugly even all his guy friends and everyone is like they are so not right for each other and it doesnt help that i dont like the girl and i saw his parents and i was talking to them and im like so you know he has a girlfriend and they're like nOO WHO?! and the dad is like i thought you were his girlfriend ;) and im like nooo =( but they love me! and they thought we were going out and i just hate seeing him with another girl. i wish he would just talk to me because ive tried but hes so mad for a reason and wont talk to me. all his friends think im hot they said and want me and him to go out! my good friends were like he just got mad because he liked you soo much and didnt think he could get you. and his cousin and his other friend were like did you guys really go out? and im like NO! who told you that? and they're like oh he did! so he told people we went out and like did stuff and then i saw his older brother one time and hes like how are you and my bro do you still like him and im like i never said i did and he just smiles so obviously he liked me or whatever but i just dont know now..it hurts me to see him and have him give me bad looks and i will go up to his friends and say like hey!! like last night we saw them at a hockey game and he was sitting by his girlfriend and me and my cousin walk up and im like hey bob!hey nick! hey tony! all his friends and then i never said anything to him because he would just start saying why are you talking to me and he gave me the ugliest look like why the hell are you over here and someone pushed him and his girlfriend together and im like haha wow!! but at the end of the game i was talkin to his friends and he was like right behind me talking to his girlfriend and her friends and then he like ran right into me and i dont know if it was on purpose or someone pushed him but he looked at me and then he still talks to my cousin and he came over by us and talked to her but wouldnt look or say anything to me. what should i do? i hangout with other guys, and i cant get over him! even though he is acting like this i just wish he would say i still like you and things could be better....

Q: 13/f im starting to really hate life.im not going to a physicatrist.im more baggy clothes all my ~girl~ friends are more girly but in all mixed groups and my ~guy~ friend is more of a unique person he goesin all stlyes too.every1 is in a group or clique. all but me.it drives me crazy.yes i cuss alot yes i love black and i LOVE jewelry. i have my own style.i can go in any group but its uncomfortable but id rather be with my bff thats a guy but he goes to 2 schools so hes only here half the time and when he is here hes usually w/ me but mainly doin tests and work he missed. im alone in a school death trap. i am myself i dont change for anyone and i have my own style.but im not happy at all i dont have friends tht would always go w/ me most ignore me when their w/ their group but they still call me their 'friend'.my only true friend is my bff thats a guy.ppl think of me as a freak.yea so i never cared but now i do.~~~can u answer this question first then the next~~~now we like eachother as bf gf but people who date end up hating eachother.hes all i have.if we would break up sayin still friends is like sayin your dog died but you can still keep it.people also say o the two freaks dating. i never cared befor but now i do. ~help mee o please~ what do i do ~can u answer them sepratly please

Q: k, so my friend thats a girl(not my gf) was going out with a guy that she didnt really like. Then her bf found out that she liked another guy, but didnt do anything about it and he let her know that he knew. Later into the relationship she didnt want to be with him anymore and they broke up. She then hooked up with the other guy that she liked and now the guy she used to go out with h8s her and is not talking to her. Also the two guys,i think are still friends.

Q: I wanted to know why do some boys act mean and nasty to certain girls after they break up. Like they start saying "What are you looking at?" They also start talking about that girl and they don't speak no more or even look the girls way.

Q: Hey. Well, I don't mean to seem stuck up or concieted(sp) but everyone has always told me I'm wicked mature for my age. And when I go out or something with my friends, they often do things I know are wrong, but I really want to do anyways (not like smoking and stuff, just drinking on a very rare occasion.) And like, I really wanna have a fun time with them, like when we all have our boyfriends with us [on the rare occasion I have a boyfriend] and they're all like attached and stuff. I don't know if that information really helped, but I'm wondering if there's a way I can make myself loosen up and get a little bit less uptight. Help! Thank you :)

Q: There's this boy. I've liked him for about three years now. He liked me when I first started liking him, but I was too stupid to do anything about it.

Now that I think about it, he's always been the one in the back of my mind. And lately, I can't stop thinking about him.

I even had this dream that he was going out with this girl (who I hate, by the way) and I was completely jealous. Also, if his name even comes up in a conversation that a girl is having, I get extremely jealous. He's not even my boyfriend.

What does this mean and why am I constantly thinking about him? And what can I do to either a) get him off of my mind, or b) work up the nerve to tell him how I feel?

Q: So...I am 15 (soon to be 16) and this past Saturday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 3 months. His Dad found out and now I have a feeling that he is going to tell my mom. I want to tell her. I really do, but I think that she will be really disappointed in me. I was going to tell her tonight but I couldn't do it. Something told me that it wasn't a good idea, but then I get the feeling that I should because if she finds out from his dad, then she will be even more disappointed in me for the fact that I didn't tell her myself. I don't think she'll trust me ever again. And I have a feeling that she won't want me to see him anymore. I can already see what she is going to say. "You're only 15." or "How could you be so stupid?" or she will call me a slut...I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? Or not...

Q: Me and a friend saw eachother at a dance last friday and there was a lot of flirting. This friday we're seeing eachother again. Last friday he said he was going to dance with me at the dance this coming friday. The thing is he has a girlfriend and when it comes to dancing i freak dance. I told him "yea ill dance with u....but what about ur....nevermind?"...then he said "Girlfriend?"...i said "yea!"....he told me "dancing is dancing". So i don't know if its going to be wrong to freak with him while he has a girlfriend?...also i can't stop flirting with him because he flirts with me....What should i do???

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