ok, I have a guy friend who I'm pretty close with, and he's stopped jerking off as part of a little quest to see what he can do. I've only talked to him on the internet lately, but:
he's become overly aggressive and easily annoyed. it's good to talk to him, but not like this.
Any views on this? I can't narrow it down to a specific question, but I just want to get him in a state where I can talk to him where he isn't bouncing off the fuckin' walls. Thanks D:
If his attitude continued where he was nasty towards you and others I would ask him what's bothering you? He will likely tell you and things will soon be resolved.
If the topic of masturbation should ever come up again you should mention to him that it's natural and that nearly all men and boys as well as girls and women do it unless they have religious reasons not to. Point out it's safe and not a sin and that doctors have even said so.
I mean, why try to quit something that is completely natural and everyone does but doesn't talk about? Clearly he is ashamed of it or himself and need not be. If it comes up again just sk him why quit?
Find out his reasons and set him straight on the subject. The thing is unless he brings this up to you again it's his private business to deal with and should not be brought up by you as it may embarass him otherwise and get him angry for real for trying to discuss a private topic. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
aj6030 answered Monday February 19 2007, 10:11 am: He needs to start jerking off again.
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