'allo!! My name is Helen and i'd very mucho love to answer your questions. chances are i don't really know the answer, but i like to pretend i do. just drop a question in my inbox and i'll answer it whatever it is. i have the unfortunate and unpleasureable duty to inform you that... nevermind.
about me??? oh..k
i'm 14, 5"7, hazel eyes, stawberry blond hair, errr...
i love the strokes (julian v. v. v. hot...
wouldn't you agree? too bad he's getting married...sigh), weezer, coldplay, maroon 5 (kind of), switchfoot's pretty good, reading, and writing.
(oh, and i'm a level 1 moderator)
"Be content with what you are, and wish not change; nor dread your last day, nor long for it"
~Marcus Valerius Martailis
"I believe in imagination. What i cannot see is infinately more important than what i can see."
~adreane rich
"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and to be loved in return" -the moulin rouge
"But that's not how it works, is it? And maybe its better that way. Because some things are never meant to be anything more than a moment."
~Lucas, by kevin brooks
"A friend will overlook your broken down gate and admire your flowers in the window box."
~unknown
"People don't like it when they don't know what you are. They don't like things that don't fit. It frightens the,. They'd rather have a monster they know, than a mystery they don't."
~Lucas, by Kevin Brooks
"Because he's my friend. Because I know where he stands, and where I stand with him. Because I think he'd die for me, and- and i think i'd die for him." ~allana, by tamora pierce
"The difference between possible and impossible lies with the person's determination"
~ Tommy LaShond
"Being different, being against the grain of society is the greatest thing in the world."
~ Elijah Wood
"A truth that's told with bad intent beats all the lies you could invent."
~ William Blake
"Never let your feet run faster than your shoes." ~ Scotish proverb
(does anyone know how i can get that effing picture out of here? my brother put it there and i can't get it off!)
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Ok, say your friend with the coolest most cool girl in the entire world, and her name is...um...for the heck of it, let's say Olivia. Say she invites you to join the most cool thing in the entire world and it's called....hum....let's say TBC. Say you really really really want to join it, so you do. So say you get to your first competition, and you totally blank out, what do you do? i was thinking dance like a chicken, but i don't know if that would work?!! (link)
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you just sit there and let all the other people answer the questions. if you don't know the answers, don't pretend you do. just sit back, relax, and let leah do all the work. you'll still get first place. with her and jordan together (i'm just choosing random names of people to represent folks on your team) you'll be ahead of everyone else. heck, you might even get 4th place overall after your team only having started after the first 2 competitions. let me know how it goes.
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I have a friend...let's call her "Megan". Megan and I are pretty cool. We hang out at school, between classes and after school on occasions. I have no problem going places with her, spending the night at her place...stuff like that. We're pretty good friends. She just has this really annoying habit of always trying to ruin someone else's good time.
Like, in an argument, when she's wrong and you're right, she'll scramble for any possible reason to say you're still wrong. Or if something good happens to you, she'll always say something to make you feel terrible about it. I hope that makes sense. It bothers me a lot and I've tried telling her it's annoying, but she still does it.
I don't want to stop being friends with her. She's cool most of the time. This is just starting to get to me. Why can't she let anyone else have a little sunshine sometimes? :( (link)
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megan sounds cool. hang out with her more. be nice. don't ruin HER time.
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When i burn my music to a CD-RW, my computer closes the cd, there for making it a cd-r. how can i stop it from closing the cd? (link)
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that sucks. live with it.
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I have a problem with not eating right. im afraid that in the future i may gain a lot of wait. I need to go on a small healthy diet. Not to lose weight, but just to eat right. Does anyone have any helpful suggestions on how i should go about this? (link)
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make sure you don't eat too much junk food. I know everybody says that, but hey, its true. whenver you want to buy a snickers at school, RESIST! your body doesn't need it!! make sure to excersize regularly, eat lots of vegetables and fruits, and some meat but not a lot. make sure you drink milk too.
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I wanted to find some good love quotes and stuff and wanted to know if anyone could help me out. thanx a bunch! and i will rate you. (link)
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go to www.wisdomquotes.com that should help
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Hey guys im a 15 f. At nite it takes me like 45 mins to fall asleep. i have no clue why but its SO frustrating. Neways.... i was just wonderin if u guys had any tricks to fallin asleep (besides counting sheep) that could help me. Thanks so much! (link)
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yeah me too... it usually takes me longer than tha, though. one way that works a lot is trying to be really active during the day so you're tired at night. another is to try breathing really deeply for a while, it makes your body think you're ready for a rest. hope i helped!!!
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Where can I find lyrics to songs at. I tried www.dapslyrics.com but it wont let me in. Thanks. (link)
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lyrics.com
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Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous? (link)
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i know what you mean. you've never really been romantically interested in him... but then, you've always ben the only girl in his life, even if h wasn't going out with you. he's got a new best friend that's a girl, and you feel jealous cause you're not the only one anymore (I KNOW you don't like him like that... but that's really just how it works). You're probably happy for them, but then you know that he spends more time with her than he does with you.
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Imagination plays an incredible role in my life. As much as i try not to, i have imaginary lives and friends and problems. is this norml for a 14yr old? if not, ho can i get them to... leave, i guess?
thanks for your help, Helen (link)
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its perfectly normal. myself had imaginary lives and people and problems for years. my writing tutor that helps me with my to-be-published stuff says that comes a lot to people who love to read and especcially write fantasy and fiction stuff. imagination is still one of the most precious things to me, and i try not to take it for granted. it helps me with my writing and sometimes straightens out the life i'm really living.
hope i helped!
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I am a week into my freshman year at college. I am so stressed out as to how I am going to get all of my work done and still have time to relax. All of my professors have been saying to come up with a daily schedule and when I did, I don't know if I will be able to fit my homework in just four hours. What do I do? Any advice will be appreciated as to what to do and how to deal with it. My major is Music Education. Thanks!!
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is your name... bethany, by chance? nvm...
okay, i don't know WHEN your classes start in the morning, but that's a good time to do it (NOT on the day it's due, though). try to do a little during class while they're teaching about the subject you're doing your work on. when you're done for the day, take it in half hour little schedauls. do it for a half hour, rest for a half hour, then do it again, but increase your work time each time.
this is just an idea, your best guess is to ask someone who's a sophmore or junior about how they survived freshman year.
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how do u delete questions u have asked like old questions?!?! (link)
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you don't. they're there forever. unless the admin deletes them, of course.
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how do you tell when contact lenses are expired? (link)
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actually, you should only wear them for 2 weeks. (if they're not glass). before they expire. when thye strat to expire they begin to irritate your eye a lot more.=, they can also rip more easily and they lose some of they're magnifying power stuff.
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hey my name is sami and im 14. i really like my guy friend. he used to like me too at the begininng of summer but now that school has started i dont know anymore. i try hinting that i like him in my AIM profile and stuff and then he trys to guess who it is. and when he guesses himself i just say no. im too embarassed to say yes cause i dont wanna make our friendship too akward if he doesnt like me too.. ive asked my friends and they dont think i should tell him. i dont know im crazy about him but what should i do? thanks in advance. -sami- (link)
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sorry, but the only way he's gonna know if you like him is if you tell him, or have someone else tell him you like him. one of the best ways to let him know is to have one of HIS friends tell him.
another good way is just to treat is as a joke for a little bit. give him a hug at the end of the school day with a 'see you tomorrow'... and if you're close enough friends, you can say 'love ya' like a FRIEND! no offense or anything, but guys get the point from smaller things sometimes more than other things. i mean, give him a candy wrapper tomorrow. it might sound stupid, but it works. you gotta stop lying to him though. he'll get confused by that when he finally figures out you like him. he'll say 'then why did you say you didn't like me on IM' or something. keep dropping little hints. go out to a movie with some of your friends and some of his friends, and invite him too. go as a group. if you still need help, just IM me
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okay, i am a 17 yr old girl, and i have only ever ahd oen alcoholic drink in my life. Mike's Hard Lemonade . but ever sicne i had it, i have wanted more like all the time. and i have wnated to try many other types of alcoholic drinks. i have never been drunk or high in my life, but i really wnat to at least once. is that a bad thign and when are you supossed to draw the line and say "i've had enough" and when does that turn into an addiction? (link)
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well... i think that what it is is that you've tried the hard lemonade and you liked what it did. or your mind liked what it did and it wants to try more.
nearly everyone gets drunk AT LEAST once in their lives. i wouldn't look forward to it though... it'll most likely happen someday (no offense or anything) so just let it. if you don;t want it to become an addiction, stay away from alchohol for the most part... but it takes a bit for it to become an addiction.
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Okay I am seriously about to go crazy! I posted a question about my moms b/f being a jerk before so this kind of continous sort of. But My moms b/f is name dale and he has a 13 yr old son. well his son and friend went to this club for 13-20 yr olds and i felt like sleeping in the basement tonight. I wake up at 2am and find these 2 chicks sleeping in my room! He let his son bring in 2 girls from the club! im about to go nuts cuz i dunno what they are going through in my room! Dale is only doing this cuz he knows im pissed! im freaking 16 yrs old and i have no say about who can sleep in my own freaking room! Do you think im overreacting (link)
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ouch... that sucks. one way to make sure that they never do it again is to
1)sleep there yourself
2)get a lock
you can yell at people all you want, but it can't change that they've already slept there. but you can make sure it doesn't happen again. tell your mum about it, but make sure you hit the source... your mum's boyfriend and his son. his son is probably more important. when you tell him he may just brush it off... but at least he heard you. and make SURE make SURE make SURE you tell dale or whatever his name is.
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i want to loose weight i know i need to and i want a boyfriend and ive never had one!!! ive tryed to do stuff to loose weight and ill be going strong and then ill like lash out and go food crazy!! but i weigh 235 and im only 16 and im 5'6 & 1/4 please help me i want a boyfriend soo bad i have lots of guyfriends but never a boyfriend! (link)
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okay, remember you can't go off on food entirely, but you can cut down. me, i'm not athletic at all. not one bit even if i try it just... doesn't work, so i don't get all that much excersize(but i get enough apparently). whenever you get a craving for snacks, drink something. drink a whole big glass of water. it makes your stomach full so you won't want anything. get invovled with extra activites, then you're not home eating all the time. and if you really do need to eat, have some carrots. or grapes, some fruit that you LIKE to eat. deposit all your money in the bank so you won't be tempted to spend it on snacks. but mostly, just always be doing something. it takes your mind off of eating.
hope i helped!
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for a 7 year-old kid who's nice and who would listen to me (easy babysitting) how much shopuld i charge? (link)
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i'd have to say between 3.50 and 4 dollars. 3.50 is kinda low, but if he's a good kid i think that's okay.
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i always feel lonely even though my friends and family always say im preety i mean there nothing wrong with me its just thati feel lonely. (link)
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join the club. i probably hve a totally different situation than you do though. okay, this is gonna sound incredibly teenager-ish, but it's true. no one understands me. my favorite thing in the world is music. especcially choral and classical. but no one understands. how could a TEENAGER lik choral music? and why? no one i know really likes it either so i can't talk to anyone about it and it just kinda sits there. my family doesn't get it (my mom took all my classical cds once and almost threw them away) and all my friends like rock...
you're not the only one whose lonely. and if you're lonely because you don't think you're pretty, that's what you said, right? let me share this quote with you then,
"Be content with what you are, and wish not change; nor dread your last day nor long for it." -Marcus Valerius Martialis
just be happy with who you are. If you're good enough for yourself, you're good enough for everyone else.
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okay i have a dumb quesion? is this site free? lol i didnt even question it cuz i was too excited about helping other people haha but i was reading something and it said something about fee's? unless its too late at night and im just tierd hahha sorry for my dumbness! (link)
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yes, this site is free. i hve no idea where you saw something that says 'fees' .... wtvr.
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It's allergy season and my nose won't stop running, and I can't stop sneezing! I am thinking of getting a nose spray, but have never used one because I am always scared it might hurt. Can anyone recommend something? (link)
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the allergy medicene i use is CVS loratidine... it's expensive, but it works for a really long time.
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