Hey people sorry if i havent answered anyones question for a lil while. I have just been busy with other things. Sorry
*Zoe*
Gender: Female
Location: Somewhere in the USA (not telling exactly where)
Age: 14
AIM: ZelloGirl
Yahoo: xxsmileychickxx
Member Since: June 29, 2004
Answers: 41
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
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Tell your mom. This is a serious matter, I think you should also tell an authority figure and prosicute your dad. This is something to tell someone about, you cant keep this a secret. And I don't think your dad ment he will hurt you because they just say that so they won't get caught and in trouble for what they have done. So tell someone before your dad does it again.
*Zoe*
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is this a good poem:
Surrounded by friends, but she has none of her own, shes in a crowded room, but feels so alone.
Late one night she was lying in her bed, tear drops falling, thoughts running through her head.
Her hopes and dreams and she cried until she could no more.
Home she could no longer stay, so she ran far away, she left her quiet home that night, she went down the street and out of sight.
She didnt see the car until it was too late. she felt all emotions at once. Pain. Love. Hate.
Now shes somewhere where everyone cares and the streets are paved with gold. She looks down from heaven, shining her light upon the young and old.
So if you have a friendship that is strong and true, then guard it with your life, unlike the girl who spread her wings and flew.
did you like it?
i need advice. (link)
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Wow that is awesome. It's kind of sad though. But it has a meaning to it. I love it. Its wonderful. Keep writting poems youre good at it.
*Zoe*
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i want to go on a diet but i dont no how to go about it. please could some one help me
thanx for ya help (link)
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Well if your having problems in figuring out how to go on a diet I think you should consult with your doctor. Your doctor should be able to help you go about on a diet.
*Zoe*
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I never told anyone this but I've been bulimic for 2 years. I know you may say that I should top but I can't. It's so hard, and I don't know what to do and I do not want to see a doctor. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!
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Okay do you know u can die from bulimia. I think you should go to a doctor even though you dont want to. And go see a counselor. This is a serious problem that you need help with. Please get help from a doctor.
*Zoe*
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Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much! (link)
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Ok you are way too young to be doing sexual stuff with your b/f. I say you should wait till your older because you have your whole life ahead of you to be doing sexual things with your b/f. I think the most appropriate time is when your older about 17-18 because 14-16 is way too young to be doing sexual things.
*Zoe*
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Hey..
me and my friend are together in a babysitting job and we love children so much and we just already let out flyers one,last year and once just recently the next year..on the 1st year flyer given out..no1 responded..the 2nd year one responded..liked our job..gave us $20 each for 1 1/2 hours...i know.. alot..o well..lol..back to the subject..ever since that day..no1 has responded..what should we do? send out more flyers or keep waiting or quit caring..what should we do??
thanks if u help.. (link)
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Don't quit if it is something you enjoy doing. Make the flyers more colorful, and stuff. And make prices a bit lower. The prices should be at least 3-5 dollars an hour, or 20 dollars for the whole night. So just wait and send out more flyers. Best Of Luck.
*Zoe*
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when u clear history on ur computer, doz that mean that like no1 can fid the sites u were on, like if i cleared my history, my dad wouldn't see that i was on advicenators or sumthin
i kno it's a dumb Q, but i was JW (link)
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Yes, when you delete the history on your computer no one can see the sites you have been on.
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ok, i need help quick, i put my clothes in the washer and then the dryer and then i went to get them out and there was a penny in there and that was all...no clothes! do you think there is some kind of clothes killer on the loose??? (link)
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Have you ever thought that maybe someone took them out for you and put them away. I dont think there is a clothes killer.
*Zoe*
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I wish I could change I wish I could
I wish I were not the person I am today
I wish I never did the things that I did
I wish I could just be with you right now
I wish You could see how hard I am trying
To be the perfect person you want me to be... (link)
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That is a great poem. Do you have anymore? If you do send them to me in my inbox. I really like it. But maybe you could start off the sentence with a different word, because I and wish over and over again get pretty boring. But anyway it is a good poem.
*Zoe*
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how can you find out who rated you and what they rated you as?
xo_always-Kerri (link)
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Well you can go to your advice column and click "view feedback" and then click on the numbers that you were rated as and it will show you the question that you had answered and had been rated on. But you do not exactly know who the person is who rated you.
*Zoe*
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Im 16/f and i think im addicted to alcohol...whenever i see it i must have one...its really bad....ive been drinking for abotu two years now...and im always safe about it..i just ALWAYS want it...like if my rents go out for 15 minutes im in the cabinet taking out vodka...i really dont know what to do... (link)
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Well if you think you are addicted to alcohol then go to AA(Alcoholic Anonamous). My mom went there and she has been sober for 9months now. So I think you should look for some AA meetings that are near by you.
*Zoe*
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well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl (link)
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You are 15 so you are still young. I think you should wait because you have your whole life ahead of you to lose your virginity. I believe you should wait until you are ready, but you should wait till you get a bit older. And dont listen to people who are teasing you about it because you are doing the right thing by waiting for the right time and for the right guy. So I think you should wait to lose your virginity and I think you shouldnt listen to your friends when they tease you. Just ignore them.
*Zoe*
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this aint a love life question...but here it goes ~~~>everytime i try to burn a cd....it melts...i tryed couple of times but it dont work...keeps on melting...wtf am i doing wrong??!?! also...in another ocasion my computer told me to press "any key" to continue...but i cant find the "any key" to press so acidently i pressed something n KABOOM...i dunno wut happend but i'm scared my computer is gonna blow...oh n one more question b4 my computer blows on my face...i watched southpark and theres this episode where they said its healthy to stick food in yr ass and shit it outta yr mouth.. so u tried it and it didnt work so then...i tried hangin upside down and it still didnt work...wut can i do?
HELP PLZ PLZ ASAP!!! (link)
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Please tell me you are joking about this. Okay anyway, burning a CD is when you download music from another CD onto a blank CD. You do not actually burn it in a fire. And there is no key on the keyboard that says "Any Key". When it says to "Press Any Key" it means to press any of the keys on the keyboard. And South Park is just a mess up animated show that has no meaning what so ever. If you need any more advice and need questions answered just leave them in my inbox.
*Zoe*
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Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!
Signed
A cry for help (link)
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Well when you dont eat at all its called anorexia, and when you throw up after you eat its called belimia, and yes you do have an eating disorder. You should go to counseling for this. These disorders can cause serious problems with your health. You shouldnt worry about gaining weight if you have a healthy diet and exercise daily. I think you should stop what your doing and get help with the eating disorder you have. So I think you should get help from counseling.
*Zoe*
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i am gettin braces and i heard u heard em do they hurt (link)
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Oh I have had braces before. The only time they hurt was when they tighten them. The rest of the time they didnt hurt.
*Zoe*
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i bite my nails all the time. somtimes i bet them some much or so hard, they bleed. it really hurts but i cant stop especially when im nervous. what do i do to stop?? (link)
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I use to have that problem, what I did was put something on it that has a taste you wont like on everyone of my fingers, like hot sauce, or nail polish remover, or vinigar. Something of that statis. Vinigar will work well because it will leave a taste in your mouth which will help you learn not to bite your nail or you will get that taste if you do bite them.
*Zoe*
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I know this probably sounds dumb, but what is the diffrence between a handjob and a blowjob.. im only 12.. and ive heard alot of people talk about it- and i guess i dont understand or havent asked anybody what it is. thanks (link)
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Okay, umm I dont like answering these sort of questions but I do anyways, a blow job is when you suck on the male reproductive system, or penis, and a hand job is when you mess around, play, with the male reproductive system.
*Zoe*
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mi best friend just told me that hes gay... and that is rally weird fir me.. i mean.. i should have known.. he is always the one who picks out mi clothes when where at the mall.. but i dont know how to deal with it.. im the only person hes told.. and i know he likes one of his friends.. should i tell his friend? should i act the same around him? (link)
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Don't go off and tell his friend, let him tell his friend himself, its not your job to do it for him because he will tell his friend when he is ready. And yes still act the same around him. He is still the same person. Don't treat him differently because of his sexuality. You should treat him the same because he is your friend and it shouldnt matter what he is.
*Zoe*
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My Situation is that I am different. I have a small webbing on my left foot. Its not like an ugly one or anything it's just different. And that is one of the things that I dont like... being different. I'm someone who wants to be perfect. I wish every day that i didnt have it. But wishing wont do anything. I've gone to a surgery place to see what they could do about it but they said that a standard proceedure like that will cost $5,000 and I dont have that much money. At school I cover it up by taping band-aids around it. Then when people ask what happened I tell them that its none of their business. But this gets very old. Am I stupid for feeling this way? (link)
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You shouldnt feel bad about your appearence, everyone is different in their own way. And nobody is perfect. Well all of us are perfect in different ways. But dont let your toes put you down. Everyone has something different with their appereances that makes them different and unique. So your toes make you different and they also make you unique. So dont let that get you down.
*Zoe*
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This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/ (link)
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I do not shave down there, but some people do. It really depends if you want to or not. Its okay to shave down there but it might cause some irritation like razor rash or something.
*Zoe*
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