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hey my names jody, im 15, i live in Beloit, Wisconsin and i go to Turner, im a freshman(supposed to be a sophomore) im not a mean person even tho i can be sometimes, im not a person whos known to fight a bunch of people, but i have gotten in a few...and havent lost ANY so im not really a weak person if you think about it...i dunno how good my advice is...but i try to give the best advice i can!

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how do you give good head.. my boyfriend really likes head but he knows im not going to do it for awhile and hes perfectly fine with that but i really want to do it really good for him cuase he deserves it cause he doesnt pressure me at all or anything and i love himm soooo much also i want to swallow cause i think spitting is kind of pussy but my friend told me u will probably throw up if you swallow the first time. help please!!! also please dont delete this ? i really really want to know. thank youuuu

x3

usually the first time the guy helps you out with it

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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait?

do what you think is best....if he loved you hed wait...and if he doesnt wait...hes NOT NOT NOT worth it...but its still your choice

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im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin?

lol...no no no...guys will be guys...that includes beating off to naked girls, but then again that person could also be lying...

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How long does it take for a symtom of an STD to show up? I just gave my boyfriend a blow job last night for the first time and now i have a sore in my mouth. Could it be an STD and should i be worried? Thanks so much.

i gave head for the first time a little over a month ago...i had a sore in my mouth to...if it doesnt go away in a few days then go see a doctor

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I went out with this guy name josh for 3 months then we broke up. When he got a new girlfriend, we hated each other. We didnt even know each other, but just the fact that she went out with him i hated her adn she hated me because i used to go out with him. Well 2 weeks ago me adn cheyenne(his girlfriend) started talkin and became good friends. Well she wants me to go to the movies with her next weekend, but josh is gonna be there too. I still have feelings for him and me adn him dont talk that much anymore. So i think it would be really weird and uncomfortable going. She really wants me to go though. I do wanna go .. but when they start kissing i am gonna get sad and my face might get red or something. Should i still go? What all should i do?

who knows....she might be trying to make you jealous, bring another guy along...and if you cant find another guy jus tell her maybe some other time

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how do you get over a broken heart?

you wont completely get over it, you will forget about it sometime, it will take a while, but you will,

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ok im thinkin of having my boyfriend and 2 other friends who are also a couple, come over to watch a movie or 2 tomorrow. i think we wanna do a comedy and then romance. any ideas? 14/f

horrors good to...cuz then you get to act like you're scared and you're bf will act like hes protecting you...lol...thas what i always do ~hope i helped p.s. if you are gonna go with scary make sure its something REALLY scary...the grudge is good (only if you havent see it)

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My legs are slim, Its just ma stomach stickes out any way i could slim it down and tone it?

crunches and sit ups 3 times a day worked for me...and dont eat a lot of fast food like mcdonalds or a lot of sugar things...you can still eat them but dont eat them like once a week or anything cuz otherwise sit ups and crunches wont help

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Since last night I have had a pain in my chest. It hurts just as and after I swallow, and whenever I take deep breaths. Sometimes I just feel the pain when I change posture or even move. It feels as though there is something there. The pain comes from right in the centre of my chest.
Does anybody have any idea what this could be?
If it helps I'm 14 and female!
All help appreciated!

well i dunno what it is but you might wanna see a doctor cuz it could be something really serious..but it could also be that you swallowed something really big and its just trying to digest (lol)...but yeh you might want to see a doctor right away ~hope i helped

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I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help

this sounds REALLY fermiliar...this happend to me before...ill have to tell you the story later maybe you can im me sometime on aim xoxbabiiphatx69

~hope i helped
~jody!

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Has anyone ever humped their dog?

oh yeah every day!...no im just kidding...have you? feedback is greatly appreciated..but still...i think you might wanna stick to your own kind...hope i helped!~xoxoJody

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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne

umm first of all...that girls got problems....and she could get in SERIOUS trouble for that....talk to both of them...and if you feel you need to..press charges against her
hope i helped

~jody

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I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks!

well when i did it the first time...i moaned A LOT at the beginning...but then towards the end it didnt hurt as bad...i dunno if this is the type of advice you wanted to hear....but if you need anymore advice about this...feedback is greatly appreciated

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does stretching help you grow taller?

no

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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

well...from a lot of the guys ive been with...all they do want is sex..or a blow job or hand job....if thats not what you want...then you gotta prove to girls that you dont...

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my and this guy are just friends now. hes really nice and sweet and i like him a lot. the other day, i spent all of my class time talking to him. not romanticly, we were talking about what was going on that day. we didnt say anything about us well i didnt. he talked about his mom a little and we talked just talked like friends. i do like him a lot becuz he seems like a nice guy. so what should i do. becuz if he doesnt like me in that way, i dont want to screw up our friendship and i dont want him to break my heart

wait a little bit...cuz if yall is good friends...then that might be all you'll ever be...wait a little bit until you know FOR SURE...cuz otherwise it prolly will screw up your friendship

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ok, so there is this boy that i have liked for a while now. he goes to a different school, but we talk everyday and get to hang out a lot. he broke up with his girlfriend about 2 monthes ago, and i figured that i would wait until now to tell him how i felt, so he could heel. well, i told him, and he really likes me too. he tells me that i'm really pretty and funny and all that good stuff. but when i asked him if he wanted to start dating in the near future he started acting weird to me. so i left it alone a couple days before i talked to him about that, to see what was up, now he won't talk to me. i'm wondering if maybe he's not over his girlfriend yet, or if he was just leading me on. please help, i'm totally falling in love here, and i need to know what to do before i cry again. thanks to anyone who will help.
Sincerely,
Lost and confused.

have someone talk to him for you....thats what i would do...it will help a lot...maybe hes scared to tell you himself...have someone talk to him for you and then find out what he said...once you do ...try talking to him yourself

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How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas?

tanning salon....it doesnt work the first few times...well it does but it doesnt show...but you have to be at least 16 to go to one...but you could buy one of your own...they just cost a lot..but yeah try a tanning salon

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I'm taking the advice of those who answered my last question; I went through alot of stress dealing with problems wth one guy and a relationship that was almost official but flopped over and blew up in my face. Besides I'd like to have a boy friend.
Thing is there aren't lots of choices. I don't like asking guys straight up front to be with me, I'd rather pull them on gradually. Is this the right way to do it? And is it better to seek someone in your own social group, people you all ready know? I don't like any one romantically right now, but what kind of traits make a guy dateable, and how can you tell he might be made to like you over time?

yes it is the right way..thas what i do anyway

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If a guy touches your arm a lot as hes talking to you, is this a good sign?

yes

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