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Hi! I'm having a love crisis here that I need a little advice on. There's a guy that I like and I'm pretty sure that he likes me. He's pretty cute, hilarious, an amazing artist, and a decent writer. The problem is, he's not smart. He gets straight C's at best and he's just over all not super intellectual. I wouldn't mind him not being naturally academic if he would just TRY. I've worked with him in groups and partners and he doesn't try to hide the fact that he doesn't care about school at all. I've been an above average hard working honors student my whole life so you can see why his lack of effort turns me off. Am I being shallow? I really like him, but I'm not going to even think about asking him out if he doesn't put in a little effort. (link)
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Maybe you just don't see it yet. Grades don't define how smart you are, grades just show how well you followed someone else's curriculum. A lot of smart guys are getting lower grades now. A lot of it has to do with social pressures and issues. In high school a lot of people told me I was really smart and shouldn't be failing. I learned what was taught and did well on tests yet I still had bad grades. So it kind of implies that we're not really in school to learn. So I'd get discouraged a lot. It can't be that I was lazy. I used to spend hours after school with the robotics/engineering team, where it's actually hands on and everything actually applies and we weren't graded in that. Now I'm working while a lot of my friends are in college. I'm making more than the average college graduate yet I have no degree. I also beat about 130 employees in performance and attendance. I'm 19 and I bring home more than both my parents. And I have plenty of plans I'm working on. Unfortunately I'm sacrificing a lot of fun and girls will turn me down because I dropped out of college or because I'm short and quiet. But I'm getting closer to the future I want everyday. Much faster than a lot of people my age. And sometimes I just feel like quitting and hopping on the wagon because if I did, I know more people would like me. But the way I see it is I'd rather work really hard while I'm young so I could actually live rather than work my entire life- which is what school trains us to do, so grades don't mean anything. Maybe he realizes that the school system treats us as manufactured employees and doesn't want to be a part of it.
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I graduated college in 2010 with a medical related diploma. I have been struggling to find a entry level job related to my major. Every job I apply to I don't receive an answer or when I finally get the interview employers never pick me. "You're not what we are looking for", they tell me. I started to lose confidence in myself. It's been four years and the only solid job I had was because the other girl decided she didn't want it at the last minute. I was their third or forth choice. I quit after the company developed problems and had to downsize.
I went back to college to start fresh, changed my major, do something completely different, and reinvent myself. But a part of me is still stuck with the notion of not being good enough. I've become pessimist and mean towards others. I'm not that type of person but I can't stop myself. How can I stop this? (link)
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This is why I dropped out my 1st semester. You have to know someone. My friends at uni will probably make less than I do now when they graduate. Sucks 'cause they'll be in debt looking for jobs and I won't....4 years early. I thought I'd be nothing without college. I'm actually glad I never went. You might have to look for something unrelated to your majors or jobs that don't require a degree. There's tons of places and fields. My job only required 3 days of training. Look for jobs where you can take a class or a certification course. Depending on where you live, some jobs require certain licences that you can get easier and faster than college. If I go to college, it has to be guaranteed 6 figure job. But there's no guarantee. I'm straight out of high school and I made more than my parents with degrees. And I'm already looking at more fields in my same company that only require a class or two, just to do less work and get a raise.
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Female, 18. I have a few friends here and there. One of the guy friends I have is always pestering me about how I never have time to hang out with him and such. It feels bad, thinking like this, we're in college though and I would expect him to be more mature about these type of things. He makes up rules about friendship, saying how I never text him first and how he thinks sometimes we aren't even friends. I have too much stuff to do, and my own problems, but I don't want to be mean to my friends either. He's one of the few of my friends that has given me a hard time - I know I'm not the most attached person ever, but I have my reasons. I've been called naive, gullible and trusting, which has not gone well for me, so I tend to distance myself from people sometimes. I know its not necessarily right to do, but I dont do it that much. Just... what the heck is his problem? Because I'm THIS close to just telling him: Fuck yourself and leave me alone. Sorry about the language, my temper is usually very low but like I said, lots of things going on, makes the water in the glass spill over, if you know what I mean. (link)
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You guys are friends and he's acting this way? That's not good. I'd stay away from him. You have every right to tell him to F*k off. You're not obligated to hang out with him. I've been in his position before, but I learn from my mistakes. I ruined a good friendship for being selfish and desperate. I wish I could go back in time and stop being a d*k. Just tell him you can't hang out, don't promise anything, that's what happened to me. We made plans to hang out and have some fun and we were getting close, but then she said she was too busy with school. 6 hours of Netflix all the time doesn't sound like school work though. So I got pissed. But she had every right to cancel. I should have just said alrighty no problem I understand. You're friend needs to do that and leave you alone.
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My fiancée is amazing or so i thought i fought him texting girls saying he wanted to fuck them and be with them but at the same time he said to them i love my woman tho ill never leave her what should i do we been together for three years hes talked to everyone with a vagina lol im sad lonely and wanna die i know he wont cheat but i cant get over the hurt he wont even admit to talking to anyone idk what to do i love him (link)
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Honestly, lots of us are like this. Me, I think about doing it with other women all the time. The difference being that I don't text them saying it, and I don't do it. It's very hard not to think about it. But it's better to think about it than to act it out. He probably can't control the urges, and telling the girls what he wants to do probably helps him release some of the tension. I'm 19, and a virgin, been with my girlfriend for a year and a half. The urge for me is real, but I don't bug my girlfriend about it. It's normal to think about F-ing other girls, but the telling them should go. He could get in trouble for harassment, OR, he could end up cheating.
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it really annoys me to think of such things i understand that teenagers seem to do whatever they can to follow their peers as in talk about stupid things listen to stupid music watch stupid tv shows stupid movies read stupid books and hang out in clubs and get drunk all the time and even obsess about facebook twitter and their iphones and people in their early 20s still act that way too which is pretty stupid and sad do people in their mid 20s act more mature then teenagers and early 20 people i hope so becuase im gonna be in my mid 20s next year (link)
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Everyone is different. Sure there are major similarities found everywhere. But not everyone around that age acts like that. I'm not even 20 yet. Even through high school I didn't watch TV, I didn't care about my phone, (it's an ancient artifact)I've never smoked, never gotten drunk etc. Though I have friends who do. I even went most of high school without a Facebook. I only made one because my band made me. I don't plan on doing any of that in my 20's. What I actually want to do is get a job, drop out of college, and save and invest in my real dreams that college can't provide.
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I have another technology query. I downloaded a pod-cast that was put on the Internet as a WMA file extension. For some reason once it was downloaded I could not open it into Itunes or drag it there. I wanted to listen to it on my IPOD.
What do I need to do to move it to Itunes so I can put it in my library to listen to freely when not in front of an actual computer? Hopefully, this makes sense to you and you will have an idea of what to do. No pressure-- but it's definitely something I wanted to listen to on a long bus ride Tuesday morning. (link)
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Ok, I think this might help.
Once it's in your iTunes library, select it, right click, and select "create ACC version" Then sync your iPod, the ACC version should copy to your iPod.
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I have an assignment on Music.
I have to sing a song.
I'm so confused on what should i sing! My voice cant reach a note to low. But i can reach a high note. Help me please. I want the song to be something about love. (link)
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Check out "Piñata" by Chevelle
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I think my boyfriend has been cheating on me. He has been acting very strange around me lately and he is very weird about me being around his phone he hurries and snatches it up as if im going to find something. (link)
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Suspicions. There are many possibilities why he's acting like this around you. But before jumping to conclusions, find factual evidence. He might just be hiding good or bad news. For example, a family member/friend might send him a text, and he wants to keep news private. It could be anything. But jumping to conclusions can mess things up. Don't "drop" him unless there's solid evidence. It would be messed up if he was only hiding something minor, and wasn't cheating. Ever read Shakespear's "Othello"?? He believes his wife is cheating without solid evidence, coincidences made it seem like she was when she wasn't. He ended up killing her and himself. Sad ending, but it happens all the time. Things might not be what they always seem. Just him acting weird & hiding his phone doesn't prove that he's cheating. Because it could be anything. Don't be like Othello and let false suspicions ruin you, once there's real proof, then you leave him if you choose.
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I am from Canada. English is my first language.
What do you think about the argument that religion is a blight on humanity?
Consider that there are good people, who mean no harm to others whatsoever, who think those who believe in scripture have caused unnecessary suffering to others who don't subscribe one man's interpretation of the bible...who want to live without other people without scorn...?
Yet, you people, who profess to follow a movement of love, spew so much hate at people who don't believe in vampires, leprechauns, fairies, and gods (which are all the same thing....man-made attempts at scaring humans into obeying)???
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I think religion is somewhat bad too. But it is the people who make it so bad. It has caused so many problems. I think most places don't need it. You can't get rid of it either, and if it did die out, it would eventually come back. The whole fairy thing is man made, but it also depends on the interpretation, which usually seems like complete bull. I'm no longer religious, but I still wonder about it sometimes, you can't prove that there is a god, and you can't prove that there isn't. I don't believe in the bearded guy in the clouds. But when I wonder about what goes on after death, I think we still exist in a different state. Mostly because of the way we (and everything) is made. All the things that make everything, all the energy & matter, supposedly cannot be destroyed. So the way I see it is that there was no beginning, and there won't be an end, and God isn't some guy, we are God, not HE, but IT, everything, no heaven, no hell, just eternal existence. But that's just the way I see it. Could be wrong.
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Hi, I'm 20/f and my fiance is 20/m. We have been together for almost 2 1/2 years.
My fiance recently admitted that he has an addiction to porn. Porn bothers me a lot, and I'm not sure why. I'm very thankful that he doesn't go out and get it from other women, but I can't help how upset it makes me feel, if I could, I wouldn't be having this issue. I guess I just feel like if I was enough, he shouldn't be looking at other women.
I've done a lot of researching on the internet, and I have realized a lot about this. I understand men are visual people, and I understand that majority of mean don't do it to hurt their spouse, it just makes masturbation more pleasurable.
BUT...
It hurts me, and my fiance is well aware of that. I have busted him watching porn 4 times in the past, and all those time he has lied to me; (he said to protect from hurting me) He said that he feels guilty after each viewing of a video, but the guilt is obviously not enough to stop. I caught him doing it about 2 months ago, and he told me that he wouldn't lie to me about it anymore. If I asked him, he would come clean so I woldn't have to bust him. He told me that he DOESN'T want to watch it anymore, he just doesn't know how to stop.
Well Thursday, I didn't catch him watching porn, but I did catch him watching videos on youtube of females shaking their asses; I was hurt, but not like I am when its legit porn. I asked him, he denied it. We had a heart to heart conversation about it last night and he told me that he was going to try to control it. He said that it feels like something is controlling him that he can't control. He wants to have control because he knows if he doesn't he will end up losing me. He told me that if he doesn't think he can control it, he is going to make himself leave me so he can't hurt me anymore; but if he slips up and tells me the truth, than he sees that as a step of controlling it and he will stay; so basically our relationship is on the line and i do NOT want to lose him, but he's determined to stop not matter what! :/
I've tried to help him all I can. I've locked the computer, I've gave him more sex, I've tried it all. We were going to do therapy when the incident two months ago happened, but I honestly didnt' feel like it was an addiction.
I feel like it isn't an addiction because he will go 2-3 maybe more months WITHOUT it, and than he will have a 'slip' up. When he was watching it, it was for 4 months, and maybe 4 times a week, once a day. He doesn't let it affect our sex life, and it doesn't affect his well being ( work, friends, our sex life, his sleep, ect) thats why I don't think its an addiction.
I guess my concern is this:
He told me that when he masturbates, he thinks about HIM HAVE INTERCOURSE WITH OTHER WOMEN. I asked him why would he care to think about sex with other women when he has me, and he said because he doesn't know what its like to have sex with any female except me (I'm the only girl he's only been with,)and he is curious.
I'm afraid that if he is curious about sex with other women, that the urges he has with porn will end up not being enough to meet his 'high' and he will go out and find it from other women. He says he would never cheat on me, BUT when you have an addiction its hard to say? Curiousity killed the cat, right?
Btw, we live together. We have an amazing relationship, minus this. I want to work it out and help him because he told me he wants my help in stopping this 'addiction'.
Do you have any advice on what steps we could take? Do you think that if this porn doesn't get under control that it could lead to him cheating on me? Do you believe that therapy really helps?? He is willing to try anything, we don't know where to start because we have never delt with anything like this.
Thank you so much!
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Hi, I've been addicted to porn for years :( I'm only seventeen, I've been doing it since middle school. Only recently have I been making progress, it's extremely difficult, and VERY depressing, but it can go away. It's true, It's like I'm not the one controlling it. I've tried many things and right now is my longest run without porn. One major thing I'm doing is keeping myself busy, that's really important and I never thought it would work. I have to make sure I stay out of the house as long as possible and that I'm not home alone doing nothing. It's important to stop the addiction as soon as possible, or else, like you said, it will escalate. It's exactly what happened to me, just that the type of porn escalated, it got more intense and weirder. One of the problems I'm having with recovery is something like mood swings, one day I'll feel all pumped up and confident, then I'm all depressed and low. I learned alot from a internet thing called "Your Brain On Porn" shorted as YBOP. A lo of people my age tell me that there's nothing wrong about it, but I disagree. I try to avoid it at all costs, from what I've experienced, it has some type of desensitizing side affect. Don't let him get pulled into it. And don't be too harsh to him, I usually would watch it when feeling like crap. Usually teachers or family would say stuff to me that would do it. Just remember, it can be really difficult to quit. He can stop the addiction. It's hard to do it alone, that's how I've been doing it. It is possible. Hopefully this helped, good luck,this CAN be done.
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I have an unreadable micro sd card which had personal details like passport and pan card scanned copies. Now before giving it back to store for replacement under warranty, I want to make sure that the data is not readable by the service guys using any recovery software. How to do it without any physical damage?
Will micro wave or soaking in water work? (link)
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I'd rather just destroy the thing physically. The only way to permanently delete things would probably be to destroy it physically, I don't know if that's the case with cards though. Not even the FBI can search deleted data if it's all ashes.
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Hey everyone!
I have been noticing something here on this website, and it's annoying me at an excessive level. How can people be like this?
I just saw a question about how there's a 24 year old woman who wanted to be with a 21 year old man, and the answers are all like "oh your age gap is not a problem"
But when there's a question about a 14 year old girl wanting to be with a 17 year old, the answers say "he's too old for you." -.- Really? It's the same thing! The age gap is the same size, yet people make such a big deal of it when the people are younger. >:(
Why does it have to be this way? Is there a specific reason why people don't think that an age difference matters at an older age, but when it happens with teenagers, people disapprove right away?
Can anyone PLEASE explain to me why? It just doesn't make sense to me. This angers me in ways I can't even understand.
Thank you to everyone who answers in advance, really. (link)
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Basically, one word, SOCIETY. And the laws & philosophy influenced by it. There is no natural age that makes you an adult. 18 being legal was decided on and made up, and can actually change. For example in NY, US, 21 is the legal drinking age. Yet there's countries that have it at 16, and some don't have age restriction. If someone was raised in a place where there were no made up "laws" they'd have no problem with age difference. But when someone is raised in a place with strict laws that are not natural, they're quick to judge, they automatically think "pedophile!" "Rape!" it is indeed unfair and age-ist. But the laws also protect people from being taken advantage of. If there were almost never any pedophiles in the past, and people were more mature, the legal age would be younger than 18. Same with other things, People might say a 13 year old shouldn't drive, but when cars were first made, they probably wouldn't have thought much of it until a law was introduced.
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Hi there,
You recently posted an angry rant at some specific female as a public question. I had to mark it deleted, as it wasn't a question, but I wanted to reach out and see if you are ok.
That seemed out of character for you, are you ok?
If you are having a problem with another user here, it is a good idea to direct things like that to their inbox rather than posting them for the world to see.
If you meant to make a question out of that, then please phrase it as such and post it again.
Thanks,
DN. (link)
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Sorry about that. Would you be able to close my account? I've been trying to get myself off the internet. I've deleted accounts from multiple sites already.
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I would laugh if I could. You are 12 years old and you think you are qualified to give advice as to the right and wrong of suicide? Have you lived through a decade of serious pain? Have your family, wife, and friends walked away from you when you lost your six figure salary? No matter what you pray for: Strength, help, someone to talk to, one day of peace. I get nothing. I don't whine about it. I've withstood years of it and I do not want to be here anymore. You think the other side is like a painful sensation. How do you know there is a god to begin with, let alone you try to scare people out of suicide with a campfire. You have a lot to learn little 12 year old. If you knew anything about someone who has lived a painful life, and I'm sure to you that means something hurts like you got a paper cut. Let me tell you, I have been in enough physical pain to pass out many times. It is awful but can't even compare to the mental pain this world can dish out. Your "hand burn" and video game "Zombie" notions are rediculous. I'm a 39 year old male and have been tortured in one way or another for 37 of them. enough is enough. Grow up. To some of us, it does not get any worse than it is right now. I'll take my chances on the other side if there is one. Why don't you quit trying to talk about things you know nothing about, at least until you're a big high school student! You don't know what real pain even is But I can tell I could easily drive nails through my hands more easily than I can think about spending another year on this planet. (link)
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I'm not twelve. I'm seventeen. I didn't know much about this "true pain" then. And I still don't know much now. But, at a younger age than ten, I was introduced to some of the many evils of this world. I won't go too much into it. Basically I was forced to "do things" by an older male. If I had told my parents about it, that man would not be walking around right now. I was younger than ten when it happened. Around those years, I didn't get that disturbed by it, but in the past few years, it kills me. I get crazy thoughts, feelings of guilt, thoughts of violent, sick revenge. True, there are many of us who don't understand. Either way, children aren't as simple as they seem, or as we think. As for twelve year olds giving advice. They have access to the internet. We all have lots to learn. I've learned that the internet isn't the place for serious advice seeking. Knowing that anything or anyone could be behind a screen. There's people out there who do things like give you that advice in such a way, on purpose.
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Okay. I'm a freshman,
Female.
And I run cross country and may run track.
My classes are :
Theater, Spanish 2, physical science, English, introduction to visual arts, enriched geometry, & American history.
Can you give me some advice,
Personal stories, relationship advice, experiences to not miss out on , and some standard school tips.
PLEASE AND THANK YOU :) (link)
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Ah, I loved freshman year. It was my best. Sophmore year was depressing, Junior year was okay. So, freshman year. I met a lot of new friends. I loved the new environment. But the thing for me was that once sophmore year came, a lot of my friends "changed" and it wasn't the same. I myself changed too. Some of my friends started doing & selling drugs, some dropped out, some moved, they all went in different directions. There was this girl that I really started to like in freshman year. We no longer talk. It's like she wasn't the same person. IDK...Anyway, I grew A LOT, and I learned A LOT. I'm going to be a senior this september. Well. Good luck. And be very careful with the decisions you make. Some things didn't go my way, but I'm glad I am where I'm at right now. I could've easily been a dealer, a pothead, or a daddy by now, but I'm not. Some of my old friends are there already. It's easy to get distracted in HS. As for relationships, I think I should wait 'till I'm done with HS.
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What can I do so it won't be dark after I shave? The skin is darker than the rest of my body. I tried lotion and when I was shaving I used a new clean razor, so why is it so dark around my bikini area? (link)
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It either has to do with tanning or genetics. Similar to me, although I'm male. My "bikini" area is the darkest part of my body, it's ironic because it's the least exposed-to-sun part of my body, you'd expect the face and arms to be darkest.
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Im not your average guy. I get attached easily, but I hide it well. All I want to do is care for a girl and treat her like the queen she is without being crushed. I want a commitment. I want to be nice, but nice guys always finish last. :(
I go through this cycle maybe twice a month. And my results are making myself more handsome or working out. But nothing works. (link)
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I'm waiting too. But one thing is the way I think. The "average guy" and "nice guys last" thing is not valid. First off, it's titling individuals in an opinionated way, second, society makes it seem valid. Look past titles and don't let them control your thought. It will help a lot.
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Okay, please don't be too skeptical in responses.
I know without doubt my eyes saw a UFO. I have seen one 4-5 times in my life. 4-5 times this past year.
One was really close in my sight. It was an aircraft, not at all like an airplane. The whole thing reflected bright white light. It was shaped like maybe a rocket ship and it passed from one side of the sky to the other at great speed. It wasn't that high up. Maybe the distance as close to the earth as a helicopter.
Three were very high up in the sky, all different times. They were each bright white dots but they passed the sky too fast to be an airplane. One passed the sky as if it fly as a line segment. For example, it was here | then it was here |
Like it appeared out of nowhere and disappeared into nowhere.
One I saw as a bright white dot passing the sky but there was more weirdness going on that night. I was locked out of my house so I slept in my family's van. I saw the what I saw but later after that I started hearing a loud hovering noise over the van and my house. I was afraid to go out. Afterwards I started feeling a strong sense of fear, more fear than I have ever felt in my life. I had three cats but I never before heard them hissing and making screeching noises before. They were really, really loud. I was so scared I decided to sleep. In the morning, I asked my family if they heard the cats last night and they told me they didn't hear anything. I'll admit, this doesn't really have enough concrete evidence towards a theory of a UFO visit.
The very first sighting I listed above was the most real-like experience because I could see it closely.
My question is what are these UFOs? Are they some sort of aircraft made in this world that hasn't yet been introduced to the whole world to know about? Some private agency hiding their inventions from public view? Are they holograms by the HAARP or whatever? Are they the aliens from the sky that the Bible mentions? Are they demons? Whatever it is, it is by someone, something intelligent. (link)
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I've seen the fast white dots before. I've also seen a triangular red one. The fast white dots were the most realistic for me. There were people around and they saw it too. So I wasn't seeing things. The possibilities I consider are:
Aliens
Military/Government testing
Companies that make crafts
And maybe some genius inventor
Whatever it is it's a UFO no matter what's behind it. As long as it's unidentified, it's a UFO.
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Alright, I dont know if something wrong with me or what. But i know that i have the beauty lol and im very sweet and innocent. 23 old. Every guys i met, which i meet guys all the time and so fast. But Every guys i met, we only last one day, one night. There was never a second or third date. It does hurt though. They never text and say whats going on. I asked a bunch of question but they never reply. Why every guy i met are being like that? I dont know what they dont like about me. But all i know is im so nice. It make me curious why guys just ditch me so fast without saying anything. Anyone think why? Is it because most guys dont like nice girls? I asked every guy i dated the same question:"what is it about me that you dont like?" Not a single guy answer. So, idk should i be naughty? (link)
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That's weird. I'm a guy and I feel the same way about girls I meet. They never text back and ignore a lot. Maybe I annoy them? It's been happening with a few girls lately too. It pisses me off. But what can I do but wait eh? I can't explain how sad and pissed I get after so many times. Either there's something wrong with me, or just coincidence like five times in a row.
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Hi, I'm 19/f
my whole life, I have been to maybe 5 different churches, and for some reason, I just feel as if church isn't for me. I find it very boring.
I believe in God to the fullest, but sometimes I have my questions, and of course, everyone's answers are going to be different depending on their beliefs.
But within the 5 churches I have been too, I have got many different answers regarding the following question:
DO YOU HAVE TO BE BAPTISED TO GO TO HEAVEN?
I have heard, Yes, you do; and I have heard no you don't, as long as you believe you have a right into God's Kingdom.
Personally, I believe that IF God is as mightly and loving as others make him out to be, than shouldn't he know who believes in him, and who doesn't? Why does baptism give you the pass to Heaven? Why can't believing just be enough??
I have never been baptised, but I have been saved. I pray to God; not just when I want something, but to let him know that I appreciate the things he has given me, and letting me live another day.
Everyone tells me to 'read the bible' but personally, I don't want too. How did God write the bible when he didn't have anything to use? Idk where it came from, who really wrote it, or even if it is true.
Is it wrong for me to have all these questions and these doubts? Does that make me a non believer?
My father told me to talk to a priest, but honestly, I won't get a solid answer, and I feel as if I'll be wasting my time. No one knows the REAL truth about any of it.
Sometimes I question if there is a Heaven or a Hell. How do we really know if they are real; has anyone died and came back and said, 'Man, Heaven is amazing; or Hell is hot as fire!"
I feel so guilty questioning this- but I'm just curious.
SOrry for the length. (link)
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There's nothing wrong with having questions at all. We wonder about things all the time. I used to go to church, I had similar questions too. Now I no longer affiliate with any religion anymore. I still believe in a God, but it's a MUCH different God than the religious God I was basically raised to believe in. As for Heaven and Hell, I don't believe in them. I do believe we still exist in a different form after death though. We cannot really know weather this Heaven and Hell are real. I'm an Agnostic theist, I have a weird God philosophy, but I always argue with my Atheist friends and even some religious ones. The reason I'm not Atheist or religious is because there is no point in claiming something and devoting lots of time to them when they can never be proven (For the Atheist and the Theist), no side will reach a solid answer. So instead of saying a God is impossible, or saying that there definitely is a God, I consider a God as a possibility, this leads me to try and come up with my own God ideas, and those are the ones that I believe in. As for the after death thing, I believe we exist in an abstract form after death. The reason behind this is simple. If energy and matter cannot be destroyed, and that is what we are made of, AND it allows this consciousness, then we are technically eternal. What makes up our body, our being, has existed long before the Earth even formed. And any scientist could agree with that.
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