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I think you are entitled to your opinion, but you dont know!
I would laugh if I could. You are 12 years old and you think you are qualified to give advice as to the right and wrong of suicide? Have you lived through a decade of serious pain? Have your family, wife, and friends walked away from you when you lost your six figure salary? No matter what you pray for: Strength, help, someone to talk to, one day of peace. I get nothing. I don't whine about it. I've withstood years of it and I do not want to be here anymore. You think the other side is like a painful sensation. How do you know there is a god to begin with, let alone you try to scare people out of suicide with a campfire. You have a lot to learn little 12 year old. If you knew anything about someone who has lived a painful life, and I'm sure to you that means something hurts like you got a paper cut. Let me tell you, I have been in enough physical pain to pass out many times. It is awful but can't even compare to the mental pain this world can dish out. Your "hand burn" and video game "Zombie" notions are rediculous. I'm a 39 year old male and have been tortured in one way or another for 37 of them. enough is enough. Grow up. To some of us, it does not get any worse than it is right now. I'll take my chances on the other side if there is one. Why don't you quit trying to talk about things you know nothing about, at least until you're a big high school student! You don't know what real pain even is But I can tell I could easily drive nails through my hands more easily than I can think about spending another year on this planet.
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I'm 16 in case you're wondering.
You said that you have pain that a 12 year old probably doesn't understand and you're right. I admit that I don't understand what your going through. But everybody has pain. You can't possibly think that all teenagers live a happy life and the only things they worry about are video games. If my self-esteem was on the ground ever since I was born, then I probably would be suicidal. I was called fat all throughout elementary. My great grandmother passed away when I was young but I remember it. My grandmother who I was extremely close to died a few years ago to cancer. Not to mention she also had bronchitis. And I was talking to my dad a while ago and he told me that she would have survived if the doctors did an MRI and found it earlier. A few months ago, my dad went into ICU because a blood vessel had ruptured in his head and if the doctors hadn't caught in time, he probably wouldn't be here. Thankfully he has recovered and he has been back home for a while. I'm not trying to compare my problems to yours but I'm trying to let you know that if I was a easily depressed by every bad thing that happened in my life, I would be dead right now. But I'm not a quitter. I will never give up on my life and neither should you. Instead of being depressed, pick yourself up and keep moving on with your life. So what if friends and family left you. People are always going to leave you whether it be intentional or unintentional. There are people in the world that have it worse than you and I combined.
I don't mean to sound preachy, but God will not put us through something for no reason. Maybe he was trying to get all the fake people out of your life, or maybe he's putting you through your darkest days so you can be a blessing to someone in your brighter future. I know you said that you are having your doubts about God, but I'm just telling you what I know. And I'm not going to force you to believe me. But you need to reflect on what your going through and try to fix it. Go back to church if you have to. But don't sit there and give up. You can fix this and I have hope that your situation will turn around.
Sorry this was a bit long.
~Andrew~
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I'm not twelve. I'm seventeen. I didn't know much about this "true pain" then. And I still don't know much now. But, at a younger age than ten, I was introduced to some of the many evils of this world. I won't go too much into it. Basically I was forced to "do things" by an older male. If I had told my parents about it, that man would not be walking around right now. I was younger than ten when it happened. Around those years, I didn't get that disturbed by it, but in the past few years, it kills me. I get crazy thoughts, feelings of guilt, thoughts of violent, sick revenge. True, there are many of us who don't understand. Either way, children aren't as simple as they seem, or as we think. As for twelve year olds giving advice. They have access to the internet. We all have lots to learn. I've learned that the internet isn't the place for serious advice seeking. Knowing that anything or anyone could be behind a screen. There's people out there who do things like give you that advice in such a way, on purpose.
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The 12 year old that was trying to answer your question was simply trying to help. To you it seems like no one knows your exact pain and that's because its true. No one has been through the same things you have been but other have experienced pains that hurt turn just as much. Although you may not believe it at the moment if you decide to end tour life there will be people that miss you. All this pain you have felt and are feeling is stopping you from seeing that you matter in the world. I cant stop you from commuting suicide but I can tell you that there are other options. I've seen people hit rock bottom and get up and continue living. My mom sacrificed yet life in her home country for what? For the infamous better future in the United states. It gained her the death of her dad, cancer my grandma got,never seeing any family again,a minimum wage job, hoping to have ends meet every month,being abused by her husband and many more things. She didnt give up and Im begging you not to do so either. Your life may seem horrible but everyone has problems. I know you're probably going to dismiss everything I see because I "Don't know what Im talking about". I hope someone or something changes your mind before you make a decision that not only affects you but everyone around you.
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I don't remember answering your original question and you are correct a 12 year old cannot possibly know what it is like to feel as you have said. What I do know is her heart was in the right place trying to help you, trying to keep you from doing something that can't be reversed.
On the other hand I'm 66 years old tomorrow. For the last 9 years I have lived a life somewhat like you describe. I suffer chronic pain from an auto accident. A 3 car accident where I was the only innocent and the only injured. I too lost a high paying job as a resultof the disabilty resulting from the accident. As the innocent I received a nice settlement though it does not replace my income only augmented my disability income.
I adjusted with the help of professionals who helped me through the depression I suffered as a result of the accident. Caused by the pain and everything I had to deal with at the time.
As I do not remember answering your original question I'm not going to try and give you advice other than to say I will not give you permission to kill yourself. That is what I see you are looking for.
What I would like you to do is this. I would like you to reach out to some professionals I know how can help you. First is the National Suicide Prevention Hotline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you’ll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis counselor in your area, anytime 24/7. Second is a group called RAINN which stands for; Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network. They too operate a 24/7 hotline. that number is 1-800-656-HOPE.
I'm taking a shot in the dark here asking you to contact RAINN. Your saying that; "I'm a 39 year old male and have been tortured in one way or another for 37 of them. enough is enough," leads me to believe that something in your past may be something RAIN can help with.
The only advice I am offering is before you do something that you cannot reverse. That will forever hurt the ones you leave behind. Call these hot lines and ask for help. I may have been where you are now I can't say for sure. What I can say is I'm in a better place now because I sought help. You can get there too if you ask for help.
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I'm not going to interfere, but this is obviously feedback meant for a certain question. A normal question (like this) is for everyone to see and answer.
What you want to do is :
Your questions > Click on the question > Find the answer you want to leave feedback for > Click on the number you want to give (1 abusive, 5 excellent) > then there will be a text-box to enter any information, i.e. what you have written above.
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