HEY MY NAME IS TERRI!!! WELL I MADE THIS THINGY TO HELP YOU ALL SO FEEL FREE TO ASK ME ANYTHING!!! LUV YALLZ!!! BUH BYE!!! P.S. PLZ RATE ME!!! THANKZ!!!
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ok to guys out there plese help, would it sound all clingy and stuff if i asked my boyfriend if he loves me more than he loved his ex?
please help
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um yeah sorry it would sound a little clingy and needy. maybe not if you guys have been togethor for like a year or more. but in my opinion i think you dont need to ask him this. it might sound like you cant trust him. hope i helped and plz rate me thanks ♥ terri!!!
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What I'm dealing with here is an 8-month relationship with a girl 6 years younger than me. I'm 26, she's 20... I treat her with a lot of respect and am always there when she needs me, and she is always there for me, too, up until this point. Prior to what happened, our relationship really seemed 50/50. Her mother, who is in bad health, has decided that I'm "controlling, possessive, insensitive, lacking all social manners" and has told this girl that if she ever thinks about marrying me, she will not approve, and if she gets pregnant by me, she'll be disowned.
I feel this is totally wrong. My parents would not do this to me, and I am at a loss to understand it. She and I are happy with each other, at least that's what she tells me. She says she loves me "more than you know," but cannot be torn anymore. She says she wants to be friends, and "maybe someday" things can be different. She says she doesn't want her mother to die resenting me, because that would make her resent me. She also says she "cannot function" without her family relationship and needs "space and time."
What's strange is her mother doesn't have a problem (or so she says) with us being friends and going to a movie now and then. I'm totally confused. What are your thoughts on the matter? (link)
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well being married is way different than being friends. i mean being married is being with someone you love and have a commitment to respect and honor them with love. friends is love but not that strong feeling of love. so yes i see why she wouldn't have a problem with you guys being friends. but it is pretty wrong for her mother to do that to her. her mother is suppost to be their for her and respect her decisions in life. after all she doesn't run the both of them. but yes it is true that you wouldn't want your mother to resent her and disown her. so if you really love her you will wait till when she is ready. maybe you should try and bond with her mother. then you guys could get married evetually. hope i helped and im very sorry about your situation and sad at the same tie because her mother should realize that you guys are in love and that you care for one another. ♥ terri!!! plz rate me thanks!!!
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mah friend used to like this kid named billy, she liked him forever but he never liked her back. Now she has a boyfriend and I like billy. She doesnt know, and she still likes billy also. I think that she cant have her cake and eat it too.. since she has a boy friend she should get over billy. what should i do? billy said that he likes me and might wanna go out with me, should i go out with him and for get about mah friend or what?
please i rate well!
Jackie (link)
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well i think even though she has a boyfriend you need to talk with her about it because it might come to a shock to her. she should be ok with it cuz she has a boyfriend but you should definetly talk to her aboyut it. hope i helped and good luck. ♥ terri!!! plz rate me thanks
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Is the 1st season of 7th heaven out on DVD yet? (link)
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yes it is!!! so now you can go buy it or whatever you want it for!! i hope you enjoy it!!!
♥ terri!!! plz rate me thanks
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well, my best friend is a guy. here's the deal. you see, i liked him for a while and he knew it. so he kind of led me on because he knows me well enough that i'm willing to do anything for love. (yes, i'm very dumb...) he also has a girlfriend and for a long time, he tried to make her jealous by also hanging out with me. of course, i found out everything that he was doing (a little late). and i was really mad at myself for letting him do that because all he was doing was using me to get her to want him. so now they're madly in love and i've moved on. i even put in my two weeks notice at my job because they both work there. but here's the problem...lately, i've been getting along better with my other guy friends and he has a problem with it. he keeps telling me he doesn't care and it's my life, not his, but i can tell it bothers him. what should i do? it's like he uses me as a back-up "girlfriend" just in case he loses her. what do i do? (link)
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well now you no never to go back to him. it wasn't your fault though about him with his other girlfriend you didnt no so whatever you do dont blame yourself. um i hope you really didnt like your job if your going to give it up all because of him but if you did really like it then dont leave because of him because then hell no he can make you do anything. hope i helped if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010 thanks buh bye
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every year our school's 7th graders throw a formal dance for the 8th graders. i am totally against going because i hate dresses and can't dance. all of my friends that were totally against it are suddenly going and renting a limo and everything. they are even having a sleepover and a whole day to get ready for it. i don't want to go but they are pressuring me so much to go. what should i do??? the guy i really like will be there but i am 100% against stuff like this. should i give in? can you give me some tips on how to stay strong under pressure?? thanks...i'll rate high! (link)
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hey you should go and just hang out with your friends and try and have a really fun time. and if the guy you like is going to be there you can hang wit him too. just dont wear a dress wear some dress pants with a nice cute shirt. who cares if you cant dance its not a dance competition.lol. but just go try it out and try having some fun. hope i helped and plz rate thanks ♥ terri!!!
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Can anyone tell me what the song "she" by greenday is about? (link)
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This song is about a girl and trying to find out who she really is. She wants to be herself but her parents and society don't let her be that person. hope i helped plz rate thankz!!! ♥ terri!!!
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I have a sort-of sweating problem. I've tried secret, ban, and I think a few other deodorants...but none seem to work. Do you know what kind of deodorants might help me? thanks. (link)
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try degree ive seen some comercials and no people whyo use it so im pretty sure that it will work if not though maybe you should see a doctor about it. hope i helped and plz rate thanks!!! ♥ terri!!!
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What style of sunglasses are in style right now? I've googled and nothing came up. Are big square frames or aviators better for a petite brunetter? Black or white? Thanks so much!! (link)
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i like the big ones. they are so0o0o cute!!! basically any color will do but i prefer dark colored ones it just depends what looks better on you. hope i helped plz rate me and thanks!!! ♥ terri!!!
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i have a really random question: as long as your overage, its not illegal to get drunk as long as you don't drive, right? lol i know its a really weird question but please answer thx! (link)
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lol!!! yeah as long as your old enough you can drink but NOT drink while driving. but remember if your drinking then be responsible for your actions and be careful. plz rate me and thanks!!! ♥ terri!!!
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Hey guys,
I know it's a little early to be asking about christmas gifts, but I was hoping someone could help me decide what to get for my really good friend and his mom. They live in a different state, but I'm really close to them. Their so nice! They plan on coming to visit me soon. Well anyways, my friend Dan is fourteen, and his mom is in her forties. I already plan on making both of them a christmas card and sending it to them, but I really want to get them each a gift. Has anyone here ever given their friends mom a christmas gift? I don't really know what types of things his mom likes, and I don't wanna ask her because then she'll know I'm getting her something. I already asked her son, but he's not sure what she would like. I also want to know what I should get Dan. I'm only asking this early, because I have to save up money before I can actually go out to buy the gifts. If someone can, please help me out! I really want them to love their gifts! Thanks in advance! (link)
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hey no its not to early to be shopping for christmas presents everybody goes earlier to beat the crowds-or @ least mii family does-lol!!
well im sure before like they moved you have been to their house. for like the mom does she collect anything like candles, vases, plants because those are some things my mom likes and she is also in her forties. for dan is their any cd he really likes or a dvd? or maybe when like they plan on coming up to visit you could take him to the movies or plan like a really fun day doing something he enjoys. like a paintball fight or whatever those things are called. im sorrii i really cant think of anything else but remember its the thought that count. hope i helped buh bye!!!plz rate me and thanks ♥ terri!!!
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There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him. (link)
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well just call him and write him. or even talk to him online. then maybe you might even get to go visit him if he donjt live that far away on like the weekends. but if you know youll never see eachotha or talk then i think your gonna have to do of what you fear-brake up-which will of course be hard but stay togethor i think and in the end if it dont work then say your goodbyes. afterall youll never know what its like till you give it a try. hope i hellped buh bye &hearts terri!!! plz rate me high thanks!!!
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Well as usual.. Me n this guy like each other... AlOT!!! like alot alot! && well me n him are really into each other but we go to 2 diff. high schools. We talk alott butt I have been grounded nhaven't been able to. I know he still really cares for me, but how can we make this work until I get ungrounded?! Please help! Give me any other advice as you want. (link)
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well like your doing rite now talk to him online until your ungrounded. or you could secretly call him when your parents arent home. or if you have a cell phone call him on that and say your going out with some friends. hope i helped and plz rate me thanks buh bye &hearts terri!!!
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Are contacts hard to take out? I'm thinking about getting them. Any advice on what to do lol? (link)
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no i dont think they are. well good luck on them if you do get em and plz rate me high thanks!!! buh bye ♥ terri!!!
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i need help FAST!!
how does this quote from alguna beach go?
u have a __________ way of making me cry yet a ________ way of making me smile
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"You have that amazing way of making me laugh, and yet a beautiful way of making me cry." i love that show too bad its the last one tomorrow.
hope i helped plz rate high thankz!!! buh bye ♥ terri!!!
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I have been dating my boyfriend for alittle over a month and we are starting to fall for eachother alot. Last night he told me that he was scared because I have so much power over him and that he was scared that I might lead him somewhere wrong. What does this mean? I really don't understand! (link)
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well i think it means that he is scared to love you because he doesnt want to get hurt. this could have happened to him in the past or to someone he knew well. he thinks your to good to be true. hope i helped plz rate me high thanks!!! ♥ terri!!!
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wow i have this problem my boyfriends thinks i been cheating on him and i swear i havent and is there any song out there that has to do something like my problem. I feel better if i hear songs that sound like my life?? (link)
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well before i want to give you some advice, you should tell him that you need him to trust you and that you havent been cheating on him make him believe you or even plan a romantic evening to show him that he means the world to u. well a song is because of you by kelly clarkson hope i helped!!! buh bye an plz rate me thanks!!! ♥ terri!!!
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Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal? (link)
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well shirts and sweaters are, everybody wears them so yeah thats okay but like pants and their shorts are so0o00o weird which i dont think you where those!lol! hope i helped plz rate buh bye!!! ♥ terri!!!
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I just got powerchains put on the front of my braces..and they are a really bright color. Is there anyway that I could make the color fade.. maybe by brushing my teeth a lot or drinking a lot of water or something? Because I wont be able to get the color changed for another 2 months. Thanks (link)
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no im sorry i dont think youll be able to fade the color fast. dont try brushing your teeth a lot because youll take the enamel off which is bad. maybe you could try drinking alot of water it might work but not that fast. hope i helped! plz rate thanks!!! ♥ terri!!!
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theres this boy called Aaron i feel alot for him but he doesnt like me and hes going out with one of my best friends i dont no what to do because i want him to like me and i want him to be mine!
thankyou Natalie x (link)
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well if he doesnt like you there is nothing to do you should just be happy that you guys are friends even though you want so much more for you two. you should try and take your mind off of him by hanging out with some other friends. after all you dont want to hurt your best friend by dating this guy. so just keep your eyes out for someone thats single and that you really like. hope i helped and plz rate me!!! ♥ terri!!!
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