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well, my best friend is a guy. here's the deal. you see, i liked him for a while and he knew it. so he kind of led me on because he knows me well enough that i'm willing to do anything for love. (yes, i'm very dumb...) he also has a girlfriend and for a long time, he tried to make her jealous by also hanging out with me. of course, i found out everything that he was doing (a little late). and i was really mad at myself for letting him do that because all he was doing was using me to get her to want him. so now they're madly in love and i've moved on. i even put in my two weeks notice at my job because they both work there. but here's the problem...lately, i've been getting along better with my other guy friends and he has a problem with it. he keeps telling me he doesn't care and it's my life, not his, but i can tell it bothers him. what should i do? it's like he uses me as a back-up "girlfriend" just in case he loses her. what do i do?
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Sorry I am getting back to you so late. Well anyway what you should do is forget what he thinks about you hanging out with those other guys. Because your right. It does seem hes using you as his back up girl friend. He seems like he sort of likes you the way hes getting jelous. Otherwise if he wasnt getting jelous he would have no problem with you hanging out with any other guys. If you ask me you should keep hanging out with your guy friends. And forget what this guy says. Its your life. You can talk to anyone you want to. And he did sort of hurt you. So follow your heart and do what you think is best. And if I were you I would just keep going with my life talking to my friends. Hope I helped <3
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well you should say "yeah your right its my life not yours and ask him if it bothers him". he used you and now he's mad at you because your hanging out with your other guy friends. if he don't except you, he's not a good friend. tell him "you be with your girlfriend and i'm with my friends. what's wrong with me hanging out with my friends."
tell him "your always going to be my friend but i also have other friends." please rate. hoped i helped. write back(wb).
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well now you no never to go back to him. it wasn't your fault though about him with his other girlfriend you didnt no so whatever you do dont blame yourself. um i hope you really didnt like your job if your going to give it up all because of him but if you did really like it then dont leave because of him because then hell no he can make you do anything. hope i helped if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010 thanks buh bye
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definately move on..be strong. i mean this guy is using you! and he has this gf he "loves" but is mad at you for talking to other guys? this guy wants to have it so your obsessed with him..even though he isnt going to be with you.
move on and dont look back
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hey! well i would tell him that you know what he was trying to do, use you, and enough is enough. tell him that you will not hang out with him if that's his plan. and also, keep hanging out with your other guy friends and tell him that he shouldnt be mad at you for that b/c your not using anyone
xoxo hope i helped helpachick
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I think you should tell the guy who uses you as a "back-up girlfriend" to go, excuse mi language, F**k himself, he shouldne use you like that tell him that if he wants to be with you fine but he cannot use you as a back up! As for the other go for it!
Hope I helped!
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Sorry for the language!
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