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Hey I'm Meg, I think I'm pretty good at giving advice and just talking too. I relate 2 ppl pretty easily and I alwyas tell the truth becuase i hate being lied to. If You need help with anythign just ask me and I'll do my best 2 help =)
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Hey, i'm 13 years old. When i wake up...my breasts hurt......is this normal for me? i read somewhere that maybe it's cuz i'm gettin ready to start my period, which i am.....but still...i need advice or whatever...from a girl plez tho......ASAP
your breasts may hurt when u are going 2 habe ur period, but about a year ago my breasts hurt me for a few weeks and it was because theyw ere growing, so that could b it 2. hope i helped plz rate thx =)
hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?
nah, its normal especiaslly if u jus started having ur period
ok i have 2 questions
1. my ex-boyfriends when we broke up he said 4 me to promise to call him everyday still (we dont go to the same school) what does this mean??
2.we or he still says "i love you" and is always askin me out but then after he says sumthin he'll tell about this girl at his school how he walks her to class and holds her hand and it makes me sooo SAD that im not that girl....is he trying to make me jealous???...cz its workin!!
3. how can i tell him that i still care 4 him and why he keeps makin me jealous and that its hurtin me ...bad...too!??
ok well i was in sum similar situations as you grl. if ur boy isnt a player nd hes sayin he loves you but tlkaing baout other grls im pretty sure hes tryinna get you jealous, and if he still wanst u 2 call and talkj evryday he still wants 2 hold onto u and he still likes you. now as 4 the waitin 4 him 2 call...dont! sounds harsh but u cant let it upset you either, guys say they wil clal but sumtimes nevr do..u jus gotta not let it btoher you. wen iw as going out wiht ym ex tha was sumthign tha bothered me sooo much he used 2 say he'd clal me "2morro" well 2morro would come and go with me sititng by my phone and waiting ya no, it boroke my heart and after we broke up it was like i got upset over that?
definately explain 2 him exactly how you feel, iff you cant do it in peron or on the phone rite i letter, its always easier 2 get ur feelings out on apaper. plz rate-hope i helped =)
anyone have idea`s when there stressed.. or shitty mood and feel blahh how to cheer up.
any thing im out of ideas..
when i get stressed or i havea fite or usmthignw ith my family i grab my cd player dn favorite music, (if im upset tis usually liek fighter by christina auguilara or independent women or survivor by destinys child) and take a walk that usualyl makes me feel better. or take kickboxing classes or sumthign of that nature 2 take your stress out once a week or sumthing liek that ya no. hope i helped-plz rate =)
hi. i am very sad and i cannot stop crying because both of my parents refuse to get me braces. i really need them and i hate smiling because my teeth are So crooked, and everyone stares. i would feel so much better if i had them and i would stop crying everyday. i know that writing this isnt gonna help me; hence i feel helpless. "we cant afford it", they say. but when it comes to buying something expensive for themselves my parents suddenly can. i'm not going to get into my family because i really dont wanna talk about my neglegence and abuse. anywho..i just dont know what to do. i hate looking at all my happy friends with their braces. i really dont want to get a reply such as "dont care about what they think," or "theres people out there that have less then you." because frankly, i dont really care.
im not going 2 tell you 2 not care what ne one thinks bout u, bcuz i no how u feel, its not about other ppl its about how you're feeling. totally tlak2 ur parents nd tell them hwo u feel but if u do nd they still dont listen or sumthign go tell another adult you trust whats going on...neglect and abuse is sumthing no one shoudl ahve 2 endure. plz rate hope i helped =)
this kid ik whos a yr younger than me and lives in my bfs neighborhood told me that this grl my bf went out with a few times before was talkin about me to him (to my friend..not my bf) and said that she hated me or something. iv never met her..iv met a few of my bfs friends and im confsued becuz i talked to this girl that was one of his friends on the phone one time and i guess it was her but i thot it was someone else and this prob sounds weird and everything but i just feel confused cuz 1. i didnt say anything 2. i feel like he could still like her or she likes him or something and i guess i get too jealous but i still dunno my friend couldve been wrong and this sint even a prob i just keep reminding myself about it
hmm..i got a lil confused but i think mayb the grl is sayin stuff about you bcuz ur goin out with her ex mayb shes jealous
Ok well me and this guy have been best friends since the 6th grade… im in the 10th now… We used to be so close… Everything we did was with each other and talked about everything… Well one day I get a letter from him (we used t write each other like every class) saying I think Im starting to like u again… I was like woah what do u mean again and I was so confused… Well we talked and he asked me out and I said yes… But going out with him was like umm dating a brother… And I broke up with him… He was so heart broken… But after that it was never the same… We never ended up being the same and it got worse and worse… We practically only say hi and bye now… Bu one day I was going through his folder and I found my pictures in the back flap of his folder and a four page letter saying how hurt he was and everything was about me… But its one of those notes that ur pretty much writing to ur self… And I was reading it and I was crying… But the other day I saw a picture of him and it brought every feeling I have ever felt for him back.. And its like haunting me… Everything I do reminds me of him and like in 8th grade I did like him a lot but I never told him and all this stuff is bugging me so much… And I found out he had a girlfriend I was so freakin jealous!! What should I do?
definately tell him how u feel. you guys sound like your in love! if u cnat find time 2 tlka 2 him, jus write a note 2 him explaining evything and tell him how everyhtign u felt 4 him came bak and you made a mistake nd want another chance, im sure it'll b ok and owrk out. plz rate and lemem no how it goes hope i helped =)
im really confused. I like the girly look, but i also like the punk-rock look. I listen to both kinds of music. i dont know what i should dress like this year. what do you think?
BOTH! y not? rite lol if u liek both u dont hafta chose, create ur own look thas wha i say lol. mayb wear a punk outfit but wear girly accessories or vice versa, it'll give u a look no one else has-hope i helped-plz rate! =)
OK well I used to be the happiest person.. at least it felt like that. I was kinda popular, and I actually felt kinda pretty. Its not like I'm ugly or anything its just that Ive never had the greatest self esteem. Well then I went to high school and my life kind of went downhill. I wasnt very popular, I dont have like any friends it feels like, and ive been crying myself to sleep some nights. Its not like I like doing this! I hate it! I feel like my life sucks... and everyone knows me as the ALWAYS HAPPY girl and stuff... but really I'm not like that! I want my old life back and the friends I used to have. I want to feel as happy as everyone thinks I am. Its not fun being miserable or anything... I dont know what to do. Im hating my life. and I cant run away from it. Help...
nope u shouldnt run away from ur life it only would make thigns worse. i was liek that 2. iw ent from beins o happy and wen i was in 9th grade-last year- evrythign was horrible, bad relationshiops, bad grades, ppl tlkain, family problems, it sucked, you need 2 make sort of a fresh start. ok so 4get about the apst, you cnat get ur old life bak but u can make yourself a nmew one-sort of. dont change yourself jus elt others allwo 2 c more of who u reelie are. theres times in everyones life where things seem bad but u can maek them better. b mroe outgoing get involved ins chool, jus talk2 ppl, have ur friends introduce u 2 mroe of their friends, join teams, clubs anything. hope i helped plz rate =)
I'm a very quiet girl with social anxiety disorder...and I am going into the 9th grade...only two of my friends from middle school are going to the same high school as me...and Im even shy around them. I've known them for two years and I hate this...what do I do to make more friends easily..I know only a few other people from my middle school thatare going too but I was never really friends with them...I just don't know what to do and I'm starting school this Wednesday (It's Saturday now) and the nerves are really starting to get to me...
Not just as far as making friends go...but I also really really hate presenting projects or reports in front of the class and I'm just so scared. I can't help it at all...
And what do I need for high school? Not just socially, but what do teachers look for and stuff...
TY so much..
I appreciate it..
wel i no what you're going through as far as nerves and presenting projetcs and stuff, my hands used 2 shake i was so nervous. im going 2 ba sophmore this year nd 9th grade definately chaged me. i went from a graduating class of about 38-40 kids 2 like 800 pl in my school and i realized tha there r so many differnt people you odnt have 2 try 2 b anyone ur not. jus b yourself, im not exactly sure what the effects of social anxiety disorder are, but you jus need 2 calm down. in my classes i used 2 get in trouble 4 tlkaing but the teachers loved me bcuz i used 2 ba good student nd 4 usm reason i jus felt mroe comfortable in my classes bcuz i would tlak 2 evryone,nd tha made me not nervous in front of my class 4 presentations. its all aa matter of confidence. go up 2 people and introduce yourself. mayb tlak 2 the person whos lockler is next 2 yours go in the cafateria find one or 2 peopel u recognize, and tell them your nervous about high school bcuz evryone is nd u'll realize how juhc evryone else is going through the same thign. i really hope i helped plz rate! if u need ne more help jus leme no! =)
im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....
so what? one yr doesnt make a difference at all, it doesnt matetr whos older, u may hear usm ppl says tuff liek the guy shuld b older but thats jus a stupid stereotype and u shoudlnt listen2 ppl like that. if u liek him totally go 4 it!
There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice?
start fresh. start over. a new begining sort of thing, it sounds liek u did have it pretty rough after tha getin kicked out of your moms hosue, but you shouldnt dwell on the bad things, let ti b in the past, also mayb get involved ins tuff liek in your Church or sumthign ya no let people see what a good person you are. hope i helped-plz rate =)
okay well i really like this guy lets call him joe, well everytime i look at joe i catch him looking at me and he blushes and his whole face turns red it is really cute anyway well my friend said she would ask him if he was going to the dance and if he would go with me [we are having a dance] i also found out he likes me too. so she asked him and he said no to both questions. what does that mean??
hmm, i think it means hes nervous, i emna think about ti put yourself in his position, if u were nervous and blushed verytime your crush looked at you, would u go tell his friends you like him and want 2 go t2 the dance 2gether? probably not, and i think thats what happend with this guy. he sounds pretty shy, dont let this get you down, just tlka him more, and mayb he'll f eel more comfortable and ask you 2 the dance. plz rate-hope i helped =)
I just started school, and I'm a sophmore. Last year I had a boyfriend all year and I was with him every day during lunch and when we changed classes. Now we're broken up and I feel so out of place. I mean I still have my friends and stuff...just bieng with them makes me feel so out of place and I don't know how to act. I know I should just be myself...but I don't know. I feel so uncomfortable, what should I do?
ouch, breakups r alwyas rough, especially when the relationship lasted for a long time. a year is definately a long time 2 go out wiht usmone. breakups always take time, and i went out with my ex 4 2 monthes and things were weird after we broke up 2, u just need 2 get bka 2 doing the things u like 2 do, go join clubs, play sports, og 2 the movies, have sleepovers all tha stuff tha makes beina girl so much fun! you were with him last year which was your freshman year so i think mayb now the adjustment of high school is finally cathcing up 2 u bcuz you arent wiht him anymore, so go into your classes as a new confident you, makenew friends, tlka 2 different people and ims ure everyhting will b okay. hope i helped plz rate =)
hi i got my carltidge peirced like a little over a month ago and its kinda sore and theres a bump over the hole. is that normal?
hmm i had my cartilage pierced nd it got infected and i got it repierced but it turns out i cant have my cartialge pierced, sum ppl juts cant it gets infected. just ahve it checke dout and clean your ear with rubbing alcohol and try not 2 touch it that much. hope i helped =) plz rate
ok, i really like this guy. he is always at the pool and we always flirt. i started to really like him, alot. and i thought 4 sure he liked me. my friend always goes to the pool wit me. so 2day when i was doin a lap, my bro's friend came up to my BF and said, Chris wants to no if youll accompony him at the movies. chris is the boy i like. my friend said no. it turns out chris has been likin my friend 4 a while. i still like him but did my friend say no cuz she nos i like him? how can i steal him back?
hmm well your friend sed no eihter cuz she doesnt like him or bcuz she nos you do. -soudns lieks ehs a pretty good friend tho nd lettin a guy btween a friendship is not a good idea at all. i dont think you have 2 steal him bak exactly just tlka 2 ur friend-ask if she does liek him or not, but either way she nos you do, mayb she mite even help you win his heart. hope i helped rate plz =)
Ok, I am 15 and so is my boyfreind and we have been going out for a month and I trust him but I always have the fact that he's known as a player in the back of my mind. I really like him don't get me wrong, and he's as sweet as can be even with his freinds around and everything, which makes me happy and he does make me happy, but lately it just seems like he might be cheating on me. This weekend for instance, I talked to him friday night n he told me 2 call him saturday after I got home from shopping and I called and he didn't call back until tonight when I called him. I told him I called yesterday and he said " Yeah I was busy..doing something... Oh but I forgot what it was, but I was doing something." When he said that I just started thinking something might be up. What do you think?...
mhmm i been there b4, my ex was a player but if ele 4 him. he was reelie sweet nd just idk i cared about him so much, and thigns were great but then he would stop callin or nto clal bak wen he would say he would sutff like that. and i did eventually find out he did cheat on me. your b/f may b but he may not b ya no, its a matter of trust, you should tlka 2 him about it and just l;et him no it worries you and stuff and you want the truth. hopeful ythings will work out, if you need ne more help jus lemme no. hope i helped-plz rate =)
my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him?
hMm, well you 2 have got 2 tlka eventually, i've been in situatyions similar 2 yours, i dont understand y guys think ignoring the situation makes things go away. but ne ways, i think you should clal him dn jus say how your gettin the feeling that its ont exactly working and you hope you 2 can b friends, hope evrything works out-plz rate =)
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In like two weeks im going to be a freshman in high school.. what can i do to stay organized.. ive never open a locker lock before and i was in the same school for 9 years before this.. can u help me and give me some tips on how to stay organized??
heyy, arite well i cna def. relate 2 this, i go 2 private school nd have my whjole life so my elemntry schools were so small-my 8th grade graduating class had 38 kids. i am in my second year of high school and its so much fun! i was nervous about the locker locks and evrythign 2. they are actualyl pretty easy 2 get used 2, it takes a few tries but you'llg et it. get a binder 4 eachj class with a notebook and a folder 4 loose papers that way tis easy 2 keep track of evrythign. then get a small notebook 4 your homework and leave pencils and pens in each binder so your always prepared. plz rate-hope i helped
I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
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well girly, you just need 2 let people get 2 no you. looks aren't evrythign and if thats all that matters 2 sum peopel then thye arent relie worth getin 2 no now are they. but if you are unhappy mayb go get a makeover, its always fun 2 go 2 a spa or have yuor hair and makle up done. get a new look, mayb get your nails done feel good about yourself! dont let the opinions of others waver your self confidence. you'll meet tha special guy dont worry!-plz rate-hope i helped =)