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hurting someone
Ok well me and this guy have been best friends since the 6th grade… im in the 10th now… We used to be so close… Everything we did was with each other and talked about everything… Well one day I get a letter from him (we used t write each other like every class) saying I think Im starting to like u again… I was like woah what do u mean again and I was so confused… Well we talked and he asked me out and I said yes… But going out with him was like umm dating a brother… And I broke up with him… He was so heart broken… But after that it was never the same… We never ended up being the same and it got worse and worse… We practically only say hi and bye now… Bu one day I was going through his folder and I found my pictures in the back flap of his folder and a four page letter saying how hurt he was and everything was about me… But its one of those notes that ur pretty much writing to ur self… And I was reading it and I was crying… But the other day I saw a picture of him and it brought every feeling I have ever felt for him back.. And its like haunting me… Everything I do reminds me of him and like in 8th grade I did like him a lot but I never told him and all this stuff is bugging me so much… And I found out he had a girlfriend I was so freakin jealous!! What should I do?
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Dear "Confused,"
You really have to talk to him. In person not over the phone. You should really tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him why you broke up with him in the first place. As for the note of his that you read you should tell him that you read it. Even if you think he'll get upset. Honesty is really the best way to go in this situation. Also, since you were jealous about him having a girlfriend then you probably really do like him. Tell him that too. Tell him that you would like to have your friendship back with him and maybe even go back out with him again.
Good Luck :)
**Latina Gurl**
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TElL hIM hoW you FeEl-yaLl boThe hAve FeelIngs for eachother and tell him whyy you broke up w. him and everything- havin a boyfriend thats close to you is a good thing
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definately tell him how u feel. you guys sound like your in love! if u cnat find time 2 tlka 2 him, jus write a note 2 him explaining evything and tell him how everyhtign u felt 4 him came bak and you made a mistake nd want another chance, im sure it'll b ok and owrk out. plz rate and lemem no how it goes hope i helped =)
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if your jealous of his new girlfriend you probably do have strong feelings for him again..and everything you said there tell him. he needs to hear how you feel about him. xo hope i was some help
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Hey..if hes single now maybe talk to him about it..but to be honest..he might be afraid of getting hurt again. If your positive about your feelings..go for him and let him know how you feel.
best of luck!
-melissa
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