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Hey Rachel~~~
...yeah im 15 and a guy right, ok yeah and um i want a boyfriend (yes rachel you know who this is{remember fourth grade})anyway what should i do do you have any ideas, suggestions, friends maybe? hahahaha but seriously got anything for me? by the way you better not say my name haha

HA! i knoww who you are! wow i have not spoken to you in F-O-R-E-V-E-R !* ummm ideas.. lemme think... GO TO A PREP MIXER !* your sure to find SOMEONE there !* i am not sure if i have gay friends ... some dress metrosexual and kind of act like it but I*m not going to go up to them and be like ARE YOU GAYY !?! lol... if they ever do tell me then I*ll be sure to mention you !* nice hearing from you ummmm.... FREDDY BOY !* lol x0x

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rach
omg ok... so homecoming was this weekend and this bitch had on my dress! i mean seriously... who buys the same dress as me?!?! i mean gosh... she even changed it. she took off one of the straps... ug... she just wants to be totally like me in every way. it sort of annoys me at times. i have known her like all my life and she is always trying to size up to me. i mean when we were little she used to follow me around. she would constantly wanna hang out with me and my friends. she didnt even go to my school then. what do you think i should do about this girl? i mean i dont wanna be mean. but SHE WORE MY DRESS! i know i looked better so its ok. i think i should have riped it off her... would that have been wrong?

thanks,
teh girl next door

hahahaha... woww Nicole you crack me up !* but wtf are you talking about? IT SO LOOKED BETTER ON ME!! so just die... and i think you are mistaken she only hung out with you because she had no one else to hang out with but this dorky little girl you speak of... it totally sucks... but NOWW shes like so cool and like is way more popular than this girl!! lol jp Nicole you know i so sweat your invisible balls!!lol ~P.S. YOUR A DRESS STEALER!! grrrrr lol xOx

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hey ive never had a boyfriend, or danced at a dance... im 13 and considered pretty popular... im outgoing and stuff... but no one seems to like me... anything wrong with me ?!*

no nothing is wrong with you... my firsty REAL boyfriend wasn*t until 8th grade, and maybe you need to make the first move they may just be overwhelmed with your beautifulness !* lol seriously, don*t worry about it !* all the guys will come around... you*ll see.

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i like this girl and shes new to my school and i relly feel a bond between us but she doesnt like my friends and i think that some of her friends are dorks. I really like this girl and stuff, but i think the friendship difference might be a problem. Also im not to sure if she likes me. im kinda shy and i told her i liked her but i dun wanna ask her how she feels. well thanks a bunch buddy

okay yeaa... let*s try to not be so obvious. and seriously this girl thinks your a cool kid it*s just that the friend thing isn*t gunna work, and let*s not call her friends dorks, she has her friends for a reason and that reason being that because they are down to earth and so freaking nice and she doesn*t want to get involved with a guy who doesn*t realize how much she*s been through with friends and how grateful she is to have her friends now. and to help you out she thinks your cool and all but she doesn*t want to be more than friends, nor does she want to lead you on.
hope i helped !* :o)

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My boobs are so big its not even funny.I'm a 36b and im 13. YEa it realy bothers me too cus ppl are so weird about it and guys are ESPECIALLLY wierd about it...any advice?

my sis has the same problem. try wearing a sports bra as often as you can. and wear like loose shirts that down play you boobs. it could help. you may hate the attention for your boobs but alot of other people could die for it. lol hope i helped :O)

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Im pregnant, Im 15 I HAD a steady b/f for 2 weeks but then that just didnt work (got pregnant.) Help me, what do I do?
p.s I'm 2 months along.

xoxo Alison

ummm... well if your parents don't already know i would tell them. and i'm guessing that your previous boyfriend wasn't the father. do you know who it is?? there is nothing i can really say that will help you because i have never been in a situation like that. but no matter what i would keep the kidd... even if your parents don't want you to!

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Have you ever had sex?

haha no

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I have never been asked to dance @ a school dance and i never have had a boyfriend..is there something wrong with me

xox

There's nothing wrong with you! It's just you need to be more outgoing, if you were more guys will like you and want to be around you! Don't be afraid to be yourself! Believe me I always make an ass out of myself! lol... Hope I helped!

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im going out with someone but i think i like someone else. im afraid if i dump my boyfriend ill regret it and want him back. ive been thinking about this for a long time and i dont know what to do! do you have any advice?
- confused girlfriend

Well, if your not quite sure than ask your boyfriend if you can take a break, and then you can see if you have feelings for this other guy or not. but, make sure your boyfriend doesn't see with you with him if he does, he might not want to get back together (( but thats only if you do )). Hope I helped. Need anything else leave one in the box.

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ive got this friend...well actually, realy not my friend anymore, but shes really getting on my nerves, and she always wanted to do EVERYTHING with me and it felt like i was losing all of my other friends because of her. she ALWAYS called me and never left me alone. i tried to tell her that i need time to myself, but she got reeeeally emotional (and hurt herself?) and at first i felt aweful because i knew it was my fault, but then again, i think it was jsut for attention. well she was gonna go to a different school so i thought i could get away from her and have my room, but then she said that she might go to my school. i couldnt take it, so i told her how i was feeling, and i think she finally got the point, but i think shes still considering coming to my school. and i think that i wud hurt her even more than i already did if she did, and it wud drive me crazy!!
so i dunno what to docuz i dont want her to get hurt necessarily, but i NEED to get rid of her somehow, so what can i do?!?!!?

please write back

You say that you don't want to hurt her, but no matter what i think she's going to be hurt. So try to explain to her that you need your space, and you don't want to hurt her feelings, but you think the break in you friendship is necessary. If she doesn't get it just be straight up and be like, I'm sorry but I don't want to be friends with you, you get on mah nerves mann! lol jp, but just make sure she gets the point.


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I notice that people always write at the end of there entrys. well where do you go to see your overall ratings? not that i would have any lol i would just like to know thanks!!! yeah im a newbie at this sorry haha

lol... all you do is go to the top of your column and click view feedback and that's where all your ratings are !*

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Hi. Please answer. Right now my mom is going through divorce with my father. They were married 18 years and he can't find a job. My mom is paying him 1300 a month becuase he can't get a job. 'temporary living confindments' (she kept the house) is what its caused. This is making us have money problems. She travels for her job as well and I'm entering Highschool(Shes stressed) One day I was going to put something in my mom's glove compartement and I found a box of cigarettes. My grandparents were visiting and I told my grandma and so I confronted my mom. She promised not to smoke again. I took her cigarettes (we were together) and threw them out. Today I found a box of cigarettes in her glove compartement again. What should I DO?

PS I'm a 13 year old girl

Heyy !* Sorry to hear about the divorce. My parents also smoke, not only that but in the house. Well, that was until I yelled at them, I don't mind if they smoke just don't do it around me. But your situation is different, you don't want your mom smoking all together, and I understand. It's just my parents have been smoking for like 25 years and it's had to stop after this long. But, I'm guessing your mom just started smoking recently from all the stress, just explain to her how much you love her and no matter how stressed she is smoking will not comfort her, not only that but they will make her sick. And convince her to stop and if she can't convince her to get the nicotine patches ((sorry if i spelt it wrong)).
Hope I helped !* If you need anything else .... Leave one in the box !*

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do you know any good quotes about being in love or loving someone a lot? thanks.

Heyy !* Sorry it took so long to reply. But, here are some good ones.

Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was choice, but falling in love with you was completely out of my control.

Love Is When You Don't Want To Go To Sleep, Because Reality Is Better Than A Dream.

People say you only fall in love once, but when I hear your voice I fall in love all over again

Its Hard To Tell Your Mind To Stop Loving Someone When Your Heart Still Does

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; while loving someone deeply gives you courage

Hope I helped !* If you need more leave one in my box !*

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i have a boyfriend, but ive been catching myself thinking of another guy.. i dont really no the guy well.. and i dont have feelings for him.. and i duno why hes always on my mind. do you have any ideas?

Heyy !* Umm... I can't really distinguish what you trying to ask me. But, I have a pretty good idea. Just when your mind starts to wander and you begin to think about him, just try calling your boyfriend or look at a picture of your boyfriend. Just to remind yourself that he's your boyfriend and he's the one you love. Hope I helped !*

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i hardly ever get invited to any parties! im friends with the ppl that throw them, but they never invite me.. and when i do get invited i always end up playing 7 minutes in heaven or spin the bottle.. i just sit and watch but i always end up playing.. do you have any advice for me? i no its kinda confusing... thanks rachel

Heyy !* Well, I really didn't get enough information. But, do you enjoy going to these parties? Because it's sounds like when you do go you don't have any fun... but I may be wrong. And if your friends are excluding you, maybe you should find some new friends that treat you with respect. Hope I helped you :) !*
WiTh aN *X* .N. aN *O* i'M oUt LyKe WhOaa !*

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in 7th grade my best friend started being so mean to me. she would insult me , my family, and all my other friends. she would get mad at me if i didnt call her every night and if i didnt IM her right when she got on. me and my other friend decided that we couldnt be friends with her anymore.. so one day at school we told her that we werent her friend for now, but when she got back to her normal self we were ready to be her friend. well she never did change, and she got mad at us for not wanting to be her friend. so to get back at us she started harsh rumors that werent true about us. (i dont want to write them in here.. :-/)she told practically the whole school, and most people believed her. in 8th grade most people forgot about the rumor and saw that it wasnt true and it was just a stupid rumor. im scared that when i go to high school people from the other school going there are going to find out about the rumor, and i wont make any new friends. i dont want this rumor to go on in high school. it hurt me badly.people would leave me emails, call my house, and IM me saying the meanest things because of the rumor she spread. i even thought about commiting suicide because i couldnt take the abuse from anyone. i even lost some friends from it because they believed what she said. they dont even matter to me anymore though cuz i realized that they let some untrue rumor get in the way of our friendship. do you have any advice for something i could do to make sure my new friends in high school dont hear about it? im afraid if i tell them right away they will think im saying it cuz its true... ill write back in here if you give me some advice.. thanks a bunch rachel

Hey hun !* Oh my god... that girl angers me. But, when you do go to high school, and if people say something about it just be straight up and say yo that isn't true, and just explain what happened between you two. People will understand, and some people probably won't want to be friends with her after that. And if your friends ditched you because of that than they aren't good friends and I'm proud of you to have realized that. If you ever need someone to stand up for you or ANYTHING I'm here. Believe me ask my friends, even if I barely know them I always stand up for them, I can't take people being brought down for like no reason. Hope I helped and if you need anything else just leave one in the box :) !*

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okay rachel, i need some help! my friend farts SOOO mucharound me .... it really grosses me out! i tell her thats gross but she'll just laugh! sometimes she's even gross enough to fart on me! how do i get her to stop? w/o hurting her feelings? no joke .....i don't know how to tell her without hrting her feelings!

Next time she does, just be like "dude seriously you need to stop that it's really gross, I'm sorry if it hurts your feelings but it just grosses me out especially when you fart on me. Don't be mad at me I'm just trying to help."
lol... hope i helped :)

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OkAy...I wEnT tO tHe BeAcH fOr tWo WeeKs* We WeReN*t BoYfRiEnD aNd GiRlFrIeNd YeT bUt We BoTh LiKeD eAcHoThEr a LOT! wE mAde A PrOmIsE tHaT wE cOuLdN*t Go OuT wItH aNyOnE, MaKe oUt wItH aNyOnE, Or dO aNyThInG b/C wE bOtH lIkEd eAcHoThEr Too MuCh ((BaD PrOmIsE)) WeLL...i GeT bAcK aNd He TeLLs Me tHaT hE wEnT oUt WiTh aNoThEr gUrL wHiLe I wAs gOnE. ThAnKs FoR tHe HoNeStY bUt He bRoKe OuR pRoMiSe! I fOrGaVe hIm aNd aLL bUt hE sTiLL tHiNkS i*M MaD aT hIm ((WhIcK i Am..A lIttLe)) bUt i CaN*t RlY gEt OvEr hIm...I*ve TrIeD! hEs MoVeD oN tHo...He LiKeS oThEr PPl aNd sTuFF bUt He sTiLL tHiNkS i*m MaD aNd I cAn TeLL hEs MaD aT mE fOr BeInG mAd! I wAnTeD tO bE fRiEnDs...BuT rIgHt NoW wE aReNt TaLkInG oR aNyThInG. I dOnT wAnT tO bReAk Off tHe SpEcIaL rElAtIoNsHiP tHaT wE haD lIkE tHiS..iN a FiGhT bUt i DuNNo HoW tO tAlK tO hIm B/c EvErYtImE i TrY tO wE gET iNtO aNoThEr fIgHt! wHaT sHoUlD i Do?

sometimes the only reasonable thing you can do is walk away. it will cause less pain than putting yourself through that again. believe me i have had to walk away several times but in the end everything works out. hope i helped !!

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i really like this guy but he has no idea. we're close friends but i want it to be more. i feel like if i tell him it will hurt worse if he rejects me than if i just sit and watch him get hurt over and over by girls that are just playing with him. he likes this girl and she treats him like shit. she always plays with his mind and leads him on when in the end she doesnt even care about him. what do i do??

you could explain to him that you really care about him and that you don't want him to get hurt by these other girls. and there's always the chance that he won't reject you, but don't get your hopes up! hope i helped :0)

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im getting mixed messages from my boyfriend. we makes plans to go out and then he cancels them at the last minute, and he never calls me when he says he will. i know you are going to tell me to talk to him, but i cant. im scared it will ruin our relationship. in fact i no it will. i ask him why he always cancels plans and never calls me... i like him alot and i just dont know what to do.. do you have any ideas? thanks.

my question is would you rather go on like this or find someone else that can make time for you? i mean do you really want to be with someone who can't make time for you in his life? i don't know what else to tell you than talk to him about it, and if he wants to ruin your relationship over that than its his loss not yours.

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