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i need some help...
in 7th grade my best friend started being so mean to me. she would insult me , my family, and all my other friends. she would get mad at me if i didnt call her every night and if i didnt IM her right when she got on. me and my other friend decided that we couldnt be friends with her anymore.. so one day at school we told her that we werent her friend for now, but when she got back to her normal self we were ready to be her friend. well she never did change, and she got mad at us for not wanting to be her friend. so to get back at us she started harsh rumors that werent true about us. (i dont want to write them in here.. :-/)she told practically the whole school, and most people believed her. in 8th grade most people forgot about the rumor and saw that it wasnt true and it was just a stupid rumor. im scared that when i go to high school people from the other school going there are going to find out about the rumor, and i wont make any new friends. i dont want this rumor to go on in high school. it hurt me badly.people would leave me emails, call my house, and IM me saying the meanest things because of the rumor she spread. i even thought about commiting suicide because i couldnt take the abuse from anyone. i even lost some friends from it because they believed what she said. they dont even matter to me anymore though cuz i realized that they let some untrue rumor get in the way of our friendship. do you have any advice for something i could do to make sure my new friends in high school dont hear about it? im afraid if i tell them right away they will think im saying it cuz its true... ill write back in here if you give me some advice.. thanks a bunch rachel
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Hey hun !* Oh my god... that girl angers me. But, when you do go to high school, and if people say something about it just be straight up and say yo that isn't true, and just explain what happened between you two. People will understand, and some people probably won't want to be friends with her after that. And if your friends ditched you because of that than they aren't good friends and I'm proud of you to have realized that. If you ever need someone to stand up for you or ANYTHING I'm here. Believe me ask my friends, even if I barely know them I always stand up for them, I can't take people being brought down for like no reason. Hope I helped and if you need anything else just leave one in the box :) !*
x0x <33 RaCheL*
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