ive got this friend...well actually, realy not my friend anymore, but shes really getting on my nerves, and she always wanted to do EVERYTHING with me and it felt like i was losing all of my other friends because of her. she ALWAYS called me and never left me alone. i tried to tell her that i need time to myself, but she got reeeeally emotional (and hurt herself?) and at first i felt aweful because i knew it was my fault, but then again, i think it was jsut for attention. well she was gonna go to a different school so i thought i could get away from her and have my room, but then she said that she might go to my school. i couldnt take it, so i told her how i was feeling, and i think she finally got the point, but i think shes still considering coming to my school. and i think that i wud hurt her even more than i already did if she did, and it wud drive me crazy!!
so i dunno what to docuz i dont want her to get hurt necessarily, but i NEED to get rid of her somehow, so what can i do?!?!!?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? RaChY79 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:47 pm: You say that you don't want to hurt her, but no matter what i think she's going to be hurt. So try to explain to her that you need your space, and you don't want to hurt her feelings, but you think the break in you friendship is necessary. If she doesn't get it just be straight up and be like, I'm sorry but I don't want to be friends with you, you get on mah nerves mann! lol jp, but just make sure she gets the point.
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