Question Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 7:02 pm
this kid ik whos a yr younger than me and lives in my bfs neighborhood told me that this grl my bf went out with a few times before was talkin about me to him (to my friend..not my bf) and said that she hated me or something. iv never met her..iv met a few of my bfs friends and im confsued becuz i talked to this girl that was one of his friends on the phone one time and i guess it was her but i thot it was someone else and this prob sounds weird and everything but i just feel confused cuz 1. i didnt say anything 2. i feel like he could still like her or she likes him or something and i guess i get too jealous but i still dunno my friend couldve been wrong and this sint even a prob i just keep reminding myself about it
SammyPie answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 10:25 pm: Hmm... Ok, I got a little confused by what you wrote, but I will try to take a stab and give you advice from what I understood. I have this firm belief that most girls are REALLY petty. I've come to this conclusion because I've witnessed girls fighting over guys, and stopping friendships because one girl goes out with the other girls crush... And they throw around the word hate so easily. It seems alot easier for girls to go behind each others backs and talk trash about everyone, and I've witnessed that too. This is what seems to be the case with your situation. Unfortunately, this girl will probably always remain inconsiderate to you, so I suggest that you just ignore what is going on. She isn't worth your time. Her words may make you angry since she doesn't know you, but ignoring them is better than causing the situation to be larger than it needs to be.
Hang in there. Don't stoop down to her level. And remember, jealousy is a normal emotion, and it will attack at any time, so don't fight it. lol. I hope I helped in some way. Feel free to drop me a message if you need to. [ SammyPie's advice column | Ask SammyPie A Question ]
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