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Uncomfortable
I just started school, and I'm a sophmore. Last year I had a boyfriend all year and I was with him every day during lunch and when we changed classes. Now we're broken up and I feel so out of place. I mean I still have my friends and stuff...just bieng with them makes me feel so out of place and I don't know how to act. I know I should just be myself...but I don't know. I feel so uncomfortable, what should I do?
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I know EXACTLY how you feel, I went out with a guy for a year, and we were always by each other in lunch and when we changed classes, during free time and everything...Then during the summer we broke up and it's like...Like you can't imagine life without them right? Like it's so weird to be sitting with your friends instead of your boyfriend.
What you have to try and do, is just forget and live on. You're not used to hanging out with just friends which is perfectly normal, but try it, laugh again with them and just be yourself, try and remember how you were BEFORE you guys started going out.
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why does being with your friends make you feel out of place? they are your friends. you have nothing to feel out of place about unless you were a snob to them when you were dating. you could always start hitting on guys and get a new boyfriend if you really want to.
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Find another boyfriend??? Or you could sit in the middle of the lunch room floor, and just eat lunch while everybody falls over you??? (That would be something I would do, don't listen to that, I'm just a wee bit insane) You could always just up to a random table and just sit down???
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ouch, breakups r alwyas rough, especially when the relationship lasted for a long time. a year is definately a long time 2 go out wiht usmone. breakups always take time, and i went out with my ex 4 2 monthes and things were weird after we broke up 2, u just need 2 get bka 2 doing the things u like 2 do, go join clubs, play sports, og 2 the movies, have sleepovers all tha stuff tha makes beina girl so much fun! you were with him last year which was your freshman year so i think mayb now the adjustment of high school is finally cathcing up 2 u bcuz you arent wiht him anymore, so go into your classes as a new confident you, makenew friends, tlka 2 different people and ims ure everyhting will b okay. hope i helped plz rate =)
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you will feel better, you just have to adapet to the change, change is hard, buit trust me it will get better
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hey, wow that is exactly how i feel too!! my bf broke up with me over the summer and i haven't started school yet, but when i am gonna be around him it is going to be very weird, but i guess if you still like him....then you should try to just keep up with being friends, and talk all the time and just stay close, thats what me and my ex are doing and we are just fine! it might be hard but you will be ok eventually!! good luck! lets see how both of us turn out!!
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