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Q: I tried to access preppycafe.com, but when I hit go, all that came up was a blank page. Is it still being constructed or something? Anyone know when it will be done?
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I think that site closed down. I tried to access it last year, and the same thing happened. I'm pretty sure it's gone:(
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Q: Alrite, Well i have recently been talking to this guy in another state. (for about like 2 months now). so about a month ago he told me that he like realli had feelings for me and asked me to be his girlfriend and i agreed. well, i realli love him alot and it sounds like realli dumb but we have already talked about like,getting married and shit..well it sounds like a cute little fairy tale rite? WRONG! ok i was just talking to him like 10 min ago on MSN and i was like, "do your parents know about me" and hes like, "yea and they fully support me. do your parents know?" and im like, "not yet" and hes like, "well u know your going to have to tell them"
so my question is how do i tell my dad (i dont have a mom) that i fell in love with a guy i met on an on-line chat room? Oh Yea, Did I Mention I Am Only 14. So Yea, Im 14 in Love With a 16 year old i met online in a chat room that lives in another state.....how do i tell my dad?
Much Love,
Danigrl1621
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Okay, so how do you know you're in love with a 16 year old, how do you know it's not some 40 year old guy, or even woman. Chances are that you will deny this, but online relationships are not safe. Alot of sketchy people are out there on the web. I also do not understand how you can love somebody that you have never met, but hey, love's confusing right? So i think, if you truley are in love, you should start talking to him on the phone, getting to know him more personally, and making sure that he's not lying to you. Also if you have a webcam, try that and then you'll actually be able to see who you're talking to. Once you can be absolutly sre that he is real, tell you dad and have your dad speak to his parents. Then, meet him in a public place where there are a lot of people, like a popular restauraunt. Go with your father and his parents to make sure that everything is safe. I think that you could say this to your dad, tell him that you are completely in love, and hopefully he'll support you. good luck
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Q: im 14, 165 pounds and 5 foot 10. wats my BMI and if there is a way, how do i work it out myself?
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you can calculate your bmi and learn about it online. try seventeen.com, or you could google BMI and I'm sure you'd get results.
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Q: so what is a good (healthy & natural) way to lose about 7 pounds?
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The best way to loose weight is to eat right and stay active. Pay attention to the amount of calories that you take in every day. It syhould be about 2000 a day, but if you are dieting you can go a little bit lower. Read nutrition labels, and pay attention to the serving size that goes with it. For example, some types of light icecream have 120 calories per a serving, but a serving is only a half cup, which is not a lot. Go for frozen yogurt instead, which is about 60 calories per a half cup. when you are craving junk food remember this, a craving usually only lasts about 8-14 minutes so try to wait it out or go for something healthy, fruit or veggies or low fat yogurt or even some lowfat cereal such as special K opposed to junk food. Also, here is something very important, drink a lot of water! Water actually fills you up, just as food would, except it has NO calories. Try to keep a water bottle with you at all times. Eat three healthy meals a day, do not skip breakfast. Stay away from fried food and fast food.
Besides eating right, you should also try to exercize at least five days a week, for about 15-30 minutes each day. Go for a jog or a bike ride. I would also recomend doing crunches, and jump roping. You could also join a team, which is a fun, social way to get excersize. There are plenty of ways to stay active!
You will not see change over night, but this is a way to loose weight in a healthy way. Extreme dieting allows you to loose weight rapidly, but you will gain it back when you decide to eat again. If you eat right and stay active you can loose weight and keep it off, plus it will help you stay healthy and live longer. i hope this was helpful!
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Q: I put my ipod nano into my speakers to play. I went to turn the hold button off and while i was getting it the ipod went in and out of the speakers. When the ipod goes into the speakers it makes a little beep, but all of a sudden its like ringing loudly and now the hold button is off, but it's still on hold and it just keeps ringing. What do I do? Will it stop? Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!
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hey, i see that you have no answers, and i dont really know how to your problem, but id say that you should call apple and ask them, good luck! happy.advice
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Q: OK i need to download some good punk rock, emo, music
Will everyone give me 1 of your favorite song.. Just 1 please... your favorite one???????
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middle of nowhere by hothotheat
fade together and the fallen by franz ferdinand
precious by depeche mode
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Q: I need some new bands to get into, because my musical band "vocabulary" is not very large.
I love bands like U2, The Rolling Stones, Bob Dylan, Joni Mitchell, Aerosmith, Coldplay, Bruce Springteen, and Crosby., Stills & Nash.
Any suggestions of other bands I might like? I would really appreciate it.
Thanks.
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try out dave matthews band...i lovew them, but maybe that's just me! lol. btw, you've got some good music choices up there. you should check out the recent documentary on Dylan, its good.
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Q: hi i want shoes dress and casual type i guess. black or any color that have a low heel they are closed in front and are usually a leathery type of matieral they are the type of shoes you picture top womean firm owners to be wearing...
help if you can give me like websites or stores or even the brand of your if you don;t remember from where you got them .... thanxx a bunch
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hey!! take a look at this link, it's to macys.com, i thought they had some cute shoes here. I assumed that you didnt want them to be too pricy. But if you're splurging, try saks, neimen marcus, bloomingdales or something! If you need more help, want my personal opinion or any other fashion advice, im here!! id love to help:-) happy.advice
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/index.ognc?CategoryID=13617&AdID=25268&LinkType=SiteAd&LinkLoc=13247&PageID=13617*1*12*-1*-1&cm_re=29.9-_-SHOESUBADSTOP-_-ADVERTISEMENT%20--%2025268%20--%2013617%3APumps
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Q: During winter, my face gets a little bit of dry skin on my forehead and near my eyebrows. Is there any way to deal with this without making my skin oily? Thx
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hey, i use neutrogena's healthy defense mosturizer. its great because i get really dry skin, and it helps. its tinted a little bit, and i actually saw it in a magazine recomended by micsha barton! i hope this helped!! happy.advice
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Q: i'm 13.
i have a perfect body eveyone says but i'm hiding my fat stomach and i want and execise fast lose it because it's my aunty's wedding and i'm the bridemaid but my stomach gets in the way PLEASE! Give me a good advise SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
the wedding is in a month.
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i feel horrible, i never answered your question, because i have the exact same problem as you. i hate it!!! and everyone tells me that i have a great body. well its too late, but id sugjest crunches and sit up, and the best way to lose wieght is to eat healthy, ask your mom or dad to start buying healthier food, and ask them to stash the junk where you cant find it. If you dont know where it is, you wont eat it. also, just a tip, try to spend your free time out of the kitchen, this works for me, if im near food, i eat it even if im not hungary. sorry, but if you get this i hope it helps
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Q: I have always been worried about how i look in a bathing suit. This December i am going on a cruise and i really would like to look great in a 2 piece. Does anyone know any good work outs or diets i could go on just to shed some pounds in time for it so i dont look weird. (Most of the problem is my stomach and my legs) PLEASE HELP!
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I have the same problem as you. I hate my stomachand legs. Anyways, this is about you. I think you should run and do sit ups/crunches. running is for your legs, the other is for your stomach. Also eat healthy. Don't eat lots of candy, cookies and other junk food. A lot of foods like that will not only make youi fat but theyll give you zits. Eat saleds and sandwiches. When you make sandwiches make them in a wrap, not with bread. Ask your mom about what you should eat to lose weight. Just don't stop eating, You would look too skinny. Good luck!!!!
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Q: ok, there's this guy that I like...and he (for sure) likes me...and it seems like he is dropping hints on asking me out...like (this is kinda long) he asked me how I acted with the guys at my school (he's in 9th i'm in 8th)I don't rub up all over them and that they grab my butt etc...and then the other night on the fone (he calls me normally on a daily basis) he suddenly forgot wut he was going to say and he was like "it could have been about me and u..."and then another time he was like ' know for sure now that stuff is going to happen between us and I was like stuff??? sooo...does this mean he wants to ask me out...or...wut???
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i think it sounds like he wants to ask you out. Ask him,i bet he'd be really happy to tell you whats going on!
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Q: I have liked this guy (we will call him george) for awhile. I never told anyoen so he ended up going out with one of my friends (we will call her katie). So they went out for awhile and for about the last week george has been flirting with me a lot since we were in a play together and we had a lot of rehearsals. Well, katie started to notice that he was flirting with me and then he wouldnt with her. So a few days ago George broke up with katie, katie seemed all excited about it. Then the next day she came up to me and told me i should go out with him. Do you think she is jealous? Or if she really wanted to let go and be set free? i dont want to go out with the guy if its really going to hurt her :-/
~Signed, Friend or Foe?
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i think that if your best firend is telling you thqt you shpould go out with a guy, go for it., she won't be mad at you because she told you to do it. I don't think she jelous, she probab;y jrealized that her are george weren't good together and that you and george would be better
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Q: Okay!Well a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend who I am madly in love with. He is in love with me too but it is a long distance relationship, so I thought that he and I being friends would be the best thing for now. Yeah I couldnt see him whenever I wanted but just being able to talk to him made me happy. Our relationship was made up of trust and love. He is so in love with me. I miss him so much. He is now dating a gurl who he loves as a friend not a gf. we havent talked since we broke up bc it is so hard too. I had my friend call him and I grabbed the phone when he picked it up and hung up. Then she called back and talking to him. He wanted to talk to me but i couldnt bc it was too hard. I kno that no matter what he wants to be with me in the future but right now it is to hard. I also kno that no matter what he will never stop loving me. But what I am getting at is that I dont kno what to do without him .I feel so lost and empty. Like he always used to tell me that he loved me before I went to sleep and it was so conforting. I miss that so much. What should I do? he and I have been through so much in the past and its stuff that is unforgettable. Do you think that he and I will be together in the future. BC he said he wants to me and I DO MORE THEN ANYTHING.Its like if u are in love with someone and it is meant to be then it will happpen right? i hope so!
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if you are so in love with this guy, call him up right now and tell him!! you have to because if you don't, something could happen, eliminating any chances of ever having a future together. If you don't talk for a few years, when you finally talk again so many things will have changed, and theres a chance that you will be so different from before that you won't want each other any more. I know you keep saying thaty he'll love you forever, but time moves so fast and you have no idea what will happen or who you'll meet in the future. This advice might have confused you but what im trying to say is that you guys should get back together.
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Q: I want to get rid of the hair on my upper lip. I don't want to get it professionally done, I want to do it myself. What should I try to remove it (I don't want to use a razor).
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get a electronic hair removal things. they are a about the size of a pencil. You can buy them at target, walmart,places like that. Look in the beauty departement. Or you can use wax but i don't know anything about that, you can probably find that at those places. Finally, there are a bunch of lotions you can use such as mair and veat. You can also find them at walmart, cvs, target....ect. My best friend uses both veat and nair and they really do work.
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Q: Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...
btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)
~Signed, Lost in Love
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oooo, thats so sad!!! I don't know exactly how you can win him back because i don't know what kind of person fred is. Just be yourself, be really nice to mary and fred. If you want to impress him, do something that you wouldn;t normally do, something nicefor another person or something. Most importantly, don't let him know that your jelous and frusterated with mary (assuming you are {i would be}) I really hope this helps!@!!!!
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Q: i met this guy the otehr nioght and we totally clicked. we're really into each other. only one problem i look older than i am so he though i was 19 and he looks younger than he is so i thought he was 18. turns out i'm 15 and hes 23. hes really cute and nice and funny and i know people are thinking omg hes a prev but the thing is i never fall for anyone. i havent met a erson in ages whose even made me look twice but i keep having all these dreams about him and i get butterflies everytime i think of him. it feels like this is the one time i could be happy and i feel like the only thing about me thats acutially 15 is my age the rest of me is older. what do i do?
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I think that if you really love him you shouldn't worry about your age or what anybody else thinks. Just make sure its okay with your parents and everything. You should really jjust follow your heart and do what you think is the best decision.
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Q: I have this Bad habit.
I like all my best friends~Tara's~ boyfriends.
Last year,she liked this boy named Davon.Then one day my friend Ilirida asks me if I like Davon. I said he's ok.If he likes mee as a girlfriend, I'll like him as a boyfriend. But Ilirida told him I said that so he said he liked me and tara now.Me and tara spent aboput 2 months fighting over him. Our friendship got really torn up cuz of a guy. Then, Davon stoppped liking tara and only liked me. That caused BIG problems. So Taraz mad. Reallly MAD. Me and davon wer like bf-gf 4 liike 3 months wen tara started likin him agen.He dumped me. I got REALLY mad at Tara.But wen he stoppped liking both of us, we X'd him oout of our lives. but now everything is happpening alll over again. What am I suppo
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okay you probably won't like tihis but..
i say forget about him. He's usless if he can't decide which one of you he wants. Don't ruin youir friend ship over a guy you'll most likely never see after high school.If you really really like him and you can't forget about him ((i know how that feels )) than talk to Tara and tell her your feelings, also talk to Davon. maybe, hopfully, you guys can work somthing out, you should all just be friends. Good louck i hope it works out
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Q: Okay so a few things happened and someway or another I ended up not spending enough time with my old friends and more time with my boyfriend and a new group of friends. It's come to a climax and now I have to choose. My best friends or my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend more than anything on this planet and he makes me the happiest alive. No amount of: friend's come first will change that. I don't know what to do.
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introduce your friends to your boyfirend, hopefully they'll like him and you guys can all hang out together. its funny because the same thing happened to one of my best friends. We all hate her now becuase she dumped us for her boyfreidn and some new friends. its not like we don't understand that she wants to be with her boyfriend, who doesn't? If she had tried to include us we could have all been friends. So don't make the same mistake she did. Try to include your other friends so you don't lose them.
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Q: What would be the best way to fix a motivation problem...or lack thereof. I am never fully motivated or try my best at anything. How would you fix that? If I was fully motivated I could be awesome at anything but I just dont have the urge to try.
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just focus on what you want to do, set goals for yourself and reward yourself for whatever you complete. it works for me
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: USA Occupation: High school Member Since: August 24, 2004 Answers: 60 Last Update: December 13, 2007 Visitors: 5254
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