Hi yaall! I'm Hallie. I have experienced many problems myself and I would like to help you with yours. I'm in school and surrounded by lots of drama, I've experienced family problems all of my life, and much much more. All of my friends and family come to advice from me so maybe I can help you to!! Ask me a question!!
Website: Ask Hallie
E-mail: westhallcheer2011@yahoo.com
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Member Since: June 17, 2007
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I feel kind of ridiculous asking this, but it's really bothering me. Today I was wearing a denim skirt and the zipper fly was stuck for some reason. I was wearing a long top with the skirt. Since the zipper fly was stuck and unzipped, it was kinda sticking out, forming a little bump in my shirt in that area. Hopefully I explained that so it made sense. But yeah, anyway... what would you think if you saw someone with that happening to them... I just hope I didn't look like a complete idiot. (link)
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Dear Wardrobe Malfunction,
Dont worry about it! I bet no one even noticed.. if anyone does notice then im sure they wont get the wrond idea or anything..
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i really like to run, i'm short so i can run fast, in fall when i play soccer myt endurence is good but i can't run far without huffing and puffing. i want to be able to run the mile run for our school fitness test in a good timev(ive past it the last 3 years but not like i would like to) any tips? also what are symptyoms of athsma? cause i might possiably have it (link)
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Dear Runner,
hmm.. well you can check on WebMD for asthma but if you dont.. well not to be rude.. you dont have good endurance. just run as much as possible and try to shorten your time a little bit everytime you run.
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Hey, Im 15 year old girl and very athletic. This past year my metabolism has slowed and ive gained atleast 10 pounds. Im not fat or anything, but you can tell Ive gained weight, and Im very self-consious about that. Is there any regiment that I can follow to lose at least 5 pounds fast? (link)
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Dear Lose Five,
hold up.. are you sure you need to lose weight? check online and find out what your BMI is before losing any weight then after your done contact me.
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kay, well i like a boy. and was on my bus this year. we got close. but now schools over idk how to ask him out. i know where he lives. and his#
12/f
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15/f. I've never had a boyfriend before. And looking around me, I see people who have boyfriends. And it kind of tears me apart. I want to have a relationship like that with someone. I want to be close with someone. But I don't know how to go about doing that...getting one. I'm sometimes even embarrassed at the fact that there are 13 and 12 year olds who have had boyfriends, and those who've changed them many times. Do I care if he's older? No. I just really want one. Going on 16 and entering the 10th grade, I feel as though I will never get one. Is being smart a turn off? :( I wouldn't consider myself ugly either. But my self-confidence isn't that high. I don't have many real friends....which is why I want a boyfriend. Any help and advice would be very appreciated. =] Sorry for making it so long. (link)
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Dear Needs a Boyfriend,
even though im younger than you i can def. relate. all of my friends had b/fs and i felt like a 3rd wheel around them. i felt the same way you do about myself and i got to know a guy over a couple days in DC on an out-of-town school field trip. we both liked eachother and decided to go out.. and trust me.. it wasnt all that it was cracked up to be.. but if you want to see what it is like i have found a good way to find one.. GET TO KNOW OTHER GUYS! you might even realize in the "flirting process" that you 1) would rather be single and like to flirt 2)find someone you really like or 3) find some more out about yourself and learn a lesson on how to gain confidence.. good luck with finding a boy toy..;)
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Ok here's the deal...all of my friends are busy this summer so I have no one to hang out with...I'm really bored and have nothing to do and nowhere to go...I can't drive yet...so there's nowhere to go...does anyone have any ideas on how to make this summer the best one ever? (link)
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Dear Sucking Summer,
find out when one of your friends isnt busy and hang out. you can also go visit family members somewhere else for a mini-vaca.. besides, for those who arent busy, you def. have it made..
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I have this thing on my forehead. I don't know what it is. It hurts when I touch it. It's up my my hair line. It's small, but VERY red. Any ideas? (link)
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Dear Forehead, umm.. hello!! maybe youre getting acne... check on WebMD or something like that to confirm this explanation..
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There's a 4-h camp in riverhead, ny, that my friends go to
I might go next year
If anyones gone to it, did you like it? What was it like?
Also, are the guys there cute at all?
And please please please don't answer if you don't have firsthand information about this camp. like i know there are other 4hs in different places but i dont care about them. also dont send me to websites with information (link)
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Dear Riverhead 4H,
umm.. not to be rude or anything but why dont you just ask your friends.. i mean if theyre the reason you want to go they might be able to help you, not someone who doesnt know you firsthand.. :/
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ok ` so my brother . he`s 28 , got 2 kids & a new born bbabyy . hes obese & my uncLe died of a heart attack because he was obese . & he is Like that greatest brother ever ` he works ALL the time & trys to take care of the boyz to . & his wife Kerry doesnt do shit around the house or anything . so its Like aLL on him ..... i wanna teLL him he needs to do sumthnig but i heard you cant heLp someone to do sumthing unLess they also put effort in to it . i just dont know wat to say to him , im scared he`LL take it the wrong way . or just get pissy with me ''// i Love him so much , yaLL just dont know ` & i dont wanna Lose another Loved one for sumthin that can be done
so PeoPle PLEASE help me . think of sumthing to say to him with out just plain out comin on strong .
Thanks . (link)
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Dear Love My Brother,
i understand how you feel. my aunt was obese and she went to the doctor and they told her if she didnt get a gastric bypass then she would die.. :(
if him or your parents mention anything then why dont you say that youre worried about him and you love him very much.. maybe you can get him to join a support group or talk to a doctor about a gastric bypass also.. idk if a gastric bypass would be the best for your brother but just incase i warn you that post-surgery can be dangerous.. good luck with your brother and i am so sorry about your uncle..
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what are some love songs that are recent?? i would like it if there was a message that goes something like, i didn't know i would fall for you but now that i am, i'll never let you go or something along that line. if there's no new love songs like that, love songs in general would be good, too.
thanks. (link)
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hmm.. well.. theres that song **Beautiful Girl(Suicidal)** or that song **You're Beautiful**.. if that doesnt help why dont you go to google and look for lyric sites and try to search under whatever youre looking for as keywords..
do you mind if i ask what this is for??
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*i didn't know what castagory this was*
i can't remember...
is a french kiss the same as making out with a guy?
thnx =] (link)
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Dear Frenchie,
I think that pretty much any kind of kiss for a long time is like making out.. ??
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Okay, so i used to go out with this guy, but then I broke up with him. Anyways, now i REALLY like him again. So heres the deal, tomorrow is the last day of school and I really want to make a move. Like it would make my LIFE if I kissed him. (14/f) also Im kinda shy, so I would never just like walk up to him and be like "you wanna walk with me" or w/e. Thanks! % ;-) (link)
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Dear Last Day,
wow. thats a pretty back comeback! why dont you just tell him that you still have feelings for him and say " we should hang out this summer " or whatever and then you can have your moment. you know everyone dreams about a summer love...;)
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My best friend and I are extremely close, we can talk about anything. our friendship is alot deeper than most friends. but anyways, her mom has breast cancer and she just found out. she talks about it to me alot, but most of the time i just say "im sorry" or something vague like that. usually we help out eachother through tough times like tht but this is so major, i have no clue wat to say when i talk to her abotu it. wat things are good to say that will make her feel better but not make her cry. thank u :) (link)
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Dear Cancer,
wow. that must be tough. i'm sure if i was your bff i would want y friend to be supportive and comfort me through it all. why dont you just say everything will be fine. help her through it. if she cries, cry with her. if you have any other questions then contact me. my mom had breast cancer also, so i know pretty much all you need too. i'll pray for her..
Hallie
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I met this guy and he and i have been flirting ever since we met. we hit each other with pillows etc,. i definitely feel something with him.. i don't know how to approach it. i was talking to him the other day.. and was about to tell him i liked him... when i froze.. then like an idiot i texted me and told him i liked him then. next day we talked only a couple of seconds online.. but he said nothing. i don't know what to do or say or act. i'm now in a really bad mood and don't know what to do!
i really like him... he is very shy and he won't even tell his friends about it.. he says he's "shy". HELP! What should I do without being to pushy? (link)
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wow. he seems like a really nice guy. since you had enough courage telling him that you like him, why dont you ask him how he feels about you? you should just say "look.. you know that i like you and i was wondering how you feel about me too..." and so on.. If he doesnt then just say well we can just be friends, but if he does.. well that's up to you..
good luck!! :)...
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but what r some other things or way to get his attention (link)
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hmm.. do you talk with any of his friends?
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my "best friend" is a huge bitch and she lives far away from me so we only talk online and stuff.
We don't get along ever, she's such an annoying bitch and we're practically polar opposites. She's always happy and uppity no matter what, i'm always sad and mad and monotonous. She's shallow and materialistic, I'm the deepest person ever.
She has this boy who she's only seen a few times in her life and they talk online and stuff and she thinks she's his girlfriend just because they've been talking online and on the phone and he calls her his "girlfriend". They haven't even had a date.
I talk to him(or used to) sometimes because we used to think we were going to hook up, and recently when I talked to him he said "ellen doesn't want me to talking to you anymore, so bye bye." and then he just blocked me! i was so offended and it made me cry.
My question is this: does this bitch have the right to tell this boy that he can't talk to me?
What should I do I hate her so much and she makes me feel SO much worse about myself, she doesn't understand basic social graces and she thinks she knows everything and she's only 13! i'm more than a year older than her and all she can talk about is HERSELF and just OMFG I HATE HER SO FUCKING MUCH!
so any advice would be appreciated. thanks. (link)
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Dear Best Friend,
Wow. That's harsh! I really dont thing that she is someone you would even want to call a bff. Why dont you try to find new friends who will have more common interests wih you?? And I dont think that someone has the right to tell someone else what to do. I think that she's just puling your strings. Honestly-- she's probably just jealous or feels like that is the way she has to act to be your friend or as "mature" as you, when she's just making a fool out of herself. Why don't you say to her in a nice way that the way she is acting is immature and she needs to think about others, or else she wont have any real friends...
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theres this guy i like and i want to know some ways i could "accidenly" bump into him or talk to him his popular and into sports im middle on the pop scale and im very into sports what r some good ways to get his interest in detaill plz!!! thx (link)
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Dear Boy Language,
If you see him playing sports one day, why dont you join him? You might either: be turned off, which I advise to forget him and move on.. or find some more common interests. Besides, he might even fall for you if you do it right... ;)
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Okay.
So me and this guy, we'll call him john.
me and john dated on and off for almost 3 full years.
i actually felt that i loved him, and i felt love FROM him. to make things short, he cheated on me, i took him back, like and idiot, and things just didnt work out.
we're still friends, but no matter how hard i try, i can't let go of the feelings i have for him. like i just can't stop loving him.
he has hurt me , yeah, but more times than not, he was an amazing boyfriend.
i can't get over him, and i want to, desperately, and i know i need to.
any suggestions on how i can without being depressed about it?
thanks (link)
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Dear Can't Get Over Him,
hmm... thats a tough one. All I can say is someone who treats you bad is not worth it. I got out of a relationship too and he played me like a game of poker. Everyone was saying "Hallie, dont worry about it. All of his next girlfriends are going to realize the same thing.." Soon after, everyone despised him because of his conceited and playful ways. The trick is to keep your mind busy on someone else. Look for other guys to fall over that are actually worth it. Who knows-- you might even find your soul mate..
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i seriously hate my body. everyone tells me i'm really thin but i always find something wrong with myself..and i hate my boobs. they're a size C (sometimes D) and people always talk about them and i HATE the attention and always feeling insecure in a bathingsuit because of them..my friends tell me that if they had boobs like me theyd show them off and be happy but i hate them and have seriously considered a breast reduction. i just want to be able to fit into bathingsuits and shirts like everyone else can.
i just need a way to feel better about my body. can anyone help me? (link)
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Dear Body,
It's safe to say that you're not the only one. I'm just going into high school this year and well.. lets just say I have major curves. I AM a D, have a small waist and wide hips. It's not always easy for me to wear clothes that I want to wear and everyone talks about my body too, which makes me unocmfortable since I dont feel the same way as them.
About the bathingsuits, I am used to wearing bikinis but earlier this summer I went shopping and none of them fit. I thought I was going to be the only one of my friends in a one piece. It turns out that I actually found some cute one-pieces that had a cut out back. MY friends actually got some too! Just use your problems to an advantage..
For the clothes its the same thing. Look online for clothes that would flatter your bodyshape and try to base your wardrobe around that with slight tweeks in each piece..
For the confidence, well just remember that everyone is beautiful in their own way. If everyone talks about your body type than they must be jealous. Besides, people get plastic surgery to look like us!!
Remember to be yourself no matter what and if you can survive until your 18 and still feel the same way for a breast reduction, then go for it...
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my boobs really just started growing last year and this year and i'm a 34 b now. i have these redish purpleish lines on them that are all over them. i hate it cause i can't wear a bathing suit top that revels a little or wear a low cut shirt cause they are seen. any ideas on what they are, will they go away and how long will they be there? (link)
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Dear Boobs,
I understand how you feel. I am the same way and I'm now a 34D at a young age!! I have those too. From my experience its safe to say that they are just stretch marks and they go away over time. If you are a teen like me and larger breasts runs in the family then you will experience the same things that I'm going through right now. For example, earlier this summer I went bathing suit shopping. I usually where the bikinis with the thick strap underneath like all of my friends, who all act jealous, but all were too small!! I was very upset then I remembered how I'm not the only one who is like that and I can find another style that I like that was even cuter. Now my friends are wearing those too! So making a long story short, don't worry about it because over time it will get better and once you go through the same event I did, just remember that others have the same problems and you can make the problem the best you want to.
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