Gender: Female
AIM: duhxxnina
Member Since: December 28, 2010
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Last Update: September 21, 2013
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Okay, 20/f
My vagina stays wet ALL the time! There is no itching or burning or discomfort. There is a little odor, but not fishy. I don't know how to explain the odor. I've tried everything to get it to go away and it will for a brief period of time and then it'll come back. The odor started when I stopped wearing underwear. Then I read that, that could cause your PH balance to be messed up, so I quit. The gyno said there wasn't any type of infection.
How can I get rid of the odor? (I bathe normally) and why does my vagina always stay wet? (link)
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Your vagina could be wet because that is how it cleans itself. I mean clean yourself everyday when you shower to get rid of the odor. Try vagisol body wash...it's meant to get rid of vaginal odors and clean the vagina.
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Is it okay to date older man 12 years difference
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It depends on the age of the youngest person. For instance...if your 12 it is very wrong. If your 18 it's pretty wrong. If your in your younger 20s it depends on circumstances.
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So I've been talking to/hooking up with this guy that I met about a month ago. We have good chemistry together and don't seem to ever run out of things to talk about so things are going well between us. The thing is that he's 33 and I'm 19.
We've already had sex once but we're making plans to have a sleepover together soon and I was just seeking some advice as to what older guys might like in bed.. I know everybody has their own preference, and we're comfortable with each other so I can ask questions (like "do you like when I do that/what do you want me to do"), but what may be something that could kind of 'wow' him from me?
Being younger, I definitely don't think I'm as experienced as he is. My sex life for the past 2 1/2 years has been with the same guy, my ex-boyfriend, so I'm a little nervous that what I'm used to may be a little boring.
Any tips would be appreciated.. thanks! (link)
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Ask him questions and just do what you can do best. And I'm sorry but I have to say this... He's 33 and single... Why can't he find someone his own age? Do you realize he's dropped down to a 19 year old? Who just graduated high school and is going to college when he should have a career be financially stable and done with Hookups and such and be with a family? Please think out of the box with this one. Maybe there's something h don't know about him to why he's single. And I'm sure your an attractive girl... So honestly if he has opportunity to get with it... He's going to because men don't think. (no offense to the men that do !!) but I'm sure there is a male on here that could back up what I'm saying and its only for your own protection. Think...why won't people his own age date him? 19 year olds are children going Ito the real world... He's been in the real world to quite some time now.
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17/f
I have the urge to have sex but I don't want to lose my v-card. IDK, I'm pretty desperate for it and I kind of hate how I'm always fantasizing. (link)
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I understand what you mean. I'm 17 years old as well but my bf and I have been together for a year and a half. I would say buy a dildo of some sort. Now.. I know how awkward it is.. Trust me I do. But no one has to know and you can keep it hidden. You can also redeem yourself of your urge to have sex without losing your virginity. I hope this helps
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I really don't know what's wrong with my mom. She won't let me shave because she said that "you can barely see it on my skin" which all my friends tell me they do. And I want to shave so I can wear skirts and strapless tops!
Also my mom won't let me wear makeup! EVERYONE at school does! She said that " I don't need it, plus I'm in 7th grade" but I know I'm pretty and don't need it but I dont even want as much makeup as everyone. I just want colored lipgloss and eyeliner because my eyelashes are already long. How can I convince my mom to let me wear makeup. (my dad already approves) (link)
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Eyeliner is a very defined makeup. I've worn makeup since 6th grade and I've learned eyeliner can be harsh. Unless used in a gray or brown shade. Or use black on your bottom lid not your top because your mother will deffinitly say no to that. (this is coming from a 17 year old) but to help ease your mom into it maybe try it on one day. If anything mascara will do the trick . I know you said you have long eyelashes but mascara will define them and make them look thicker and you'll look different in a feminine cute way... And try soft lip glosses. My cousin is in 10th grade and isn't aloud to wear eyeliner because it's a harsh defining makeup. My suggestion... Take small steps into the makeup world with soft colors so it doesn't take away from your natural beauty. Explain it to your mom you just want simple makeup nothing harsh. And to the shaving... Your in 7th grade you should be able to shave. Ask her to show you how .. That's what my mother did. Tell her you feel self conscience about the hair and you want to feel confident wearing a skirt not embarrassed. I hope some of this works for you. Best of luck!
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My boyfriend is a prince, pure perfection, any woman's dream. He caters to my every need. He opens doors for me, calls me beautiful constantly, cooks for me, and gives me so much happiness- without all that materialistic stuff. We have been through thick and thin together. There is never me without him, or him without me. We're not known to be without each other. Ever.
He works down the street from my house, so I see him often. We've been having more romantic date nights and stay-ins watching movies more than we used to. Our relationship has improved tenfold. I stopped abusing him the way I used to, he stopped walking away during arguments, and we've matured a lot. I'm going into college, and he's supporting me every step. I couldn't be any more happier.
However, there is a catch. I'm always wanting more. Not from him, but from other guys. I talk to maybe one or two particular guys on an app I have. I lie and say I'm single. I crave their attention. I don't smile or feel pretty when my boyfriend tells me- even when he describes every small particle and thread that makes me beautiful to him. He is a romeo, a charmer, yet I do not feel any excitement, butterflies, or sexiness when he tells me these things. SO why do I feel it when other guys tell me? Why do I crave the attention of other guys? Why do I desire to be swooned from them? Truth is, I secretly wish I didn't have my boyfriend around, but I guess I am keeping him around because I know none of these guys could EVER give me what my boyfriend gives me. I've been neglecting my boyfriend, become sneaky jerk. I lock my phone, computer, and my heart. He pries and pries, yet I simply tell him I am just stressed and I don't want everyone going through my stuff- particularly my family. For example, we went on a date last night, and I couldn't wait for it to be over so I could talk to another guy. I am such a horrible girlfriend. I neglect him, secretly want him gone... and I even told him this, but he stayed. He told me he would help me through this and support me, but honestly, I don't think I will ever be able to stop. I don't know what our relationship is lacking, I don't know why I act this way. Why? I have everything I want, so why do I desire others? I don't want to be this way, I want to love him unconditionally like he loves me. I keep trying to contain myself, to stop myself from texting other guys, but I can't. I don't know how this started or why.
I don't want to keep hurting him. Help me... (link)
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It seems to me that maybe your relationship is to "perfect" that it makes you wonder if other men still find you attractive· Many people become like this in relationships ...long relationships. Maybe you need a day to yourself and think. Do you want to see someone else or stay with this guy. Your having a desire for attention and if it doesn't get fixed now it may just get worse and worse until he won't want to be with you anymore and than it will be to late for you to make a decision.talk to him and tell him you need the relationship to have spice. Not the gentle care of the perfect gentleman but something you can prove. Instead of him cooking...you cook. You open the door for him and joke. give your relationship spice and sexy. And if nothing works...well than I think the answer is move on. I hope this this helps you. Good luck.
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So I like this guy who is 6 years older than me, the only thing that keeps me hopeful is that my parent are 8 years apart. We're ok friends I guess but I'm pretty good friends with his sister, but he doesn't know that. I've tried texting him but he ignored it, but then every so often he'll start teasing me and flirting and crap and its just really confusing, I don't know if I should try to go farther or not. Please help..oh and I'm a girl and I'm 12, he turns 18 in December, and I know I'm young yes, but idk y, but I have a really strong feeling like I've never been so sure of something before, I need advice (link)
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Hi there... Okay considering your only 12 years old you have no idea what you want. You don't even know who you are. I am 17 years old and I found myself in high school but I still don't know who I am exactly. I have so many more people to meet and activities to do. This guy your talking to is a man... H is considered an adult... Your not even a teenager yet. You are a child...a big kid. still in middle school. This man may be a pedafile... Do not continue speaking to him for your own safety! If anyone found out about him speaking to you he could be arrested and put into prison for a long time.
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I'm 13 now but this started 3 years ago. I thought everyone was mean for avoiding her so I became friends with her and immediately everyone started ignoring me. Then she hit and kicked me everyday I didn't know what to do so I kept it a secret. Then she kept telling me that I have no dad ( I do and he lives with me mom and my brother too) I hated it so much I ran away from home once or twice and I had suicidal thoughts. But now some people know and I'm not talking to her again. But we're going to secondary school in a few months and she's going to the same one! How can I avoid her? (link)
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I am 17 years old and if I were in your position I would talk to my parents and set up a conference with the principal of your school and let her/him know you want to avoid contact with her.
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I think this guy that works at Starbucks is just so gorgeous, and I want to talk to him when I see him again, and I'm just so shy when it comes to guys that I think are cute.
how can I get over this, and be more confident and not so shy? (link)
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Well you could try jus going in there a little more frequently And try to make eye contact and when you do give a polite cute smile. It's hard to engage in conversation sometimes... Especially at Starbucks. Or you could be really brave and write your name and number down and hand it to him when he rings you up. On the note say that you thought he was cute and wanted to get to know him. I've done this before on a dare and it worked.. He called me. I'm sorry this may not be helpful but you'll figure out how to do it :)
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Male
So I have never smoked cigs before, my friend had an ecig and one day i was playing with it and enjoyed it. I use to smoke weed so smoking was nothing new, I have not used weed in a year and a half though. Please do not tell me using an ecig is unhealthy I already know this.
3 weeks ago I bought my own and used it and felt fine and stuff. Then 2 weeks ago I started to wake up before my alarm went off and felt my stomach to bubble and not feel good. Later in the morning about an hour later I would have diarrhea.
I had this for about a week. At this time I was on antibiotics so I figured the mixture of those and nicotine was making me feel that way. Then I quit using my ecig to see what happened. I still was having upset stomachs but eventually it went away so I started to use it again since I finished my antibiotics and the first 2 days nothing happened.
1 week ago the stomach aches kind of came back. I would wake up and feel bad but nothing ever happened. Then yesterday I used it alot and now this morning I woke up with a bad stomach ache but nothing happened, probably cause i took pepto bismol then went back to bed.
Is it my ecig that is causing this? It is only 16mg of nicotine in the juice in my tank. I was thinking of getting a lower dosage of mg of it but I am not 18 so i would have to ask my friend as i'm 17 but I hate asking him. Could it be what I am eating ? The time I do it before i go to bed? Sometimes i don't use it for 3 hours then go to bed then other nights i use it 30 minutes before I sleep. I'm just wondering what it could be. If it truly is the ecig i'll probably get rid of since it makes me feel this way.
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I am 17 as well and I had actually bought my first e cig yesterday and an e cig is to smoke when u get a craving not to be smoked the same a cigarette. But I was excited about it so I smokes it like a normal cigarette and it gave me a stomach ache made my throat hurt and gave me a headache. So now I'm only going to use it when I get a craving. If u would like to continue using it take a puff every now and than but not constant. I hope this helped.
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Hi! I am going to a school trip overnight this week on friday, I can't wait to go!
I wonder and wanted to know of what should I bring?
The bus is going to be very cold.
I might get on water rides or just rides. So any clothes of what should I bring? and etc.
Should I bring snacks like chips, candy and etc..?
It's going from 5:30am to 12:00am
Any suggestions? Thanks. (: (Please answer) (link)
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I would brig comfortable shorts and a tee shirt/ sweatshirt. Money,bathing suit, towel, if you are a girl a bra and underwear. If the bus is going to be cold a blanket to keep on th bus assuming you are taking the same bus to and from the studios. Snacks are always acceptable but noting that will make u sick or bloated I'd you plan on going on crazy coasters. Maybe a pair of light sweat pants to I case the blanket is not warm enough. Keep it all in a small easy sports bag and leave nothing valuable inside of it!! Again if you are a lady I suggest a small pocketbook that goes diagnly across your chest for valuables (phone camera money etc) hope this is helpful
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I'm 19 years old, turning 20 in a few months.
I feel as though as my father is extremely controlling and is having a negative impact on me.
For reference, he has been diagnosed with depression for a while now.
Basically, I am an adult now and I'm still treated like a child. My Dad gives little importance to my opinions and feelings, and is always pushing his beliefs and his opinions on me.
He is also always trying to control EVERY THING I do. For example, today is Good Friday, and the day is absolutely gorgeous outside.
I want to go outside by the lake, take a walk(It's about a 15 minute walk), read a good book, sit, relax and even meditate but my Dad says I can't. It's not like we have plans for today, we aren't seeing family and we don't celebrate Good Friday.
I`m just extremely fed up with my Dad trying to control me for no reason. I'm doing my best to try and be as respectful as I can given the circumstances so I don't necessarily rebel when he says no or whatever.
But like.. when does it cross the line? And how do I deal with this situation in the best possible manner and respectfully?
I'm entitled to my independence and my right to do what I want. I'm not doing ANYTHING wrong.
I basically have no life, and I don't do much all day. Everything I do is a problem for my Dad. He's just such a negative and draining person, it's hard to be around him.
If I want to go outside? That's a problem, because ''life isn't about having fun.''
If I want to bake? ''Stop doing stupid things. It's expensive.''
If I want to cook? ''Too expensive. Just eat whatever we have.''
If I want to go outside with friends? ''You don't need friends. They're not going to get you anywhere, and you can't trust anyone. Life isn't about having fun.''
If I want to decor the house. ''It's too expensive.''
If I do nothing but sit on the computer all day. ''You're not doing anything with your life.''
Like seriously, what the hell. I can't even DO anything because he always has something to say about everything. Everything he says is SO SO SO negative, that I'm actually frightened that it's going to rub off on me.
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I think scared that your growing up. Have a sit down talk with him or ask him to go for a walk with you by the lake. Try bonding with him. And tell him you want to bond with him because that may show him a light of happiness. And than ask if you can do what you want to do. Try to brighten his day so he can brighten yours. I wish you luck and hope this helps
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i am a 20 yr girl,i love him very much but he dnt,he always ignore me,abuse,ambaressed me...we also had physical relation,i knw him from past 6 years,what shud i do,i want to forget him. (link)
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Well it's obviously going to be hard getting over him I'm sorry to say, and I know you know that. But it'll definitely be beneficial for you. There's many many people on this planet, and someone is out there who will love you unconditionally as you will love them back. Love is a partnership and love is equal.
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21/F
My boyfriend of 5 years off and on broke up with me last September but we would occasionally talk every now and then and try to make things work but they never did. Anyway we officially stopped talking 2 months ago when he pretty much told me "I would've been a great wife if the timining was right" and I guess that was his way of saying we were done for good. I was surprisingly okay I don't remember being that sad or breaking down like I had done before in the past when we broke up. But now I find myself thinking about him every day like something happens and I think of ways I could text him to tell him but I never do... I don't know why I miss him so much he never treated me the way I wanted him to so why now? And when will this feeling just go away? (link)
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Well 5 years is a long time. Your conscience is now accepting the fact that you may not ever get back together. And since your so used to talking to him and being with him it will just take some getting used to. There's plenty of fish in the sea... You'll find the perfect fish soon. No need to settle for one who doesn't love you the same
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Is it rude for my girl to call and text other guys in front of me? I tell her that its disrespectful an ask her not to do it an she gets all mad an defensive ahe says all they are is friends. I mean they get morr attention than I do. (link)
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It's definitely rude. I'm a girl and the only boys I ever text are boys that I've been friends with for 6+ years. I'm 17 years old and have been dating my bf for a year and we've actually talked about standards... Maybe you guys should do the same. And tell her that you feel like your not getting attention. Do NOT say "I think YOUR not giving me attention" or anything like that. It's called the "I factor" that u need to use. " I think we should come to an understanding with eachother, because I feel like their getting more attention than I am" when people use the word "you" it sometimes makes people feel defensive.
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I love my boyfriend of almost a year a lot. But I know it's not mutual. I have to nag him to say I love you to me but he always reminds me he does when I do. He always says he just doesn't say it alot. But he ignores me when I say it to him sometimes. He never wants to talk on the phone when we are seperated by college. I love him but I always feel like a stalker &a burden. I talked to him about it a lot. He says he'll change and after a few days he's back to his old self. What should I do? I really really really love him.
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This actually doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. That's necessarily fair to you. I mean if he doesn't love you... There's no changing that. But simply just tell him that you feel you love him more than he loves you. Because your not scared to express yourself and he seems. Embarrassed or not feeling the same way towards you. Good luck and I hope everything works it for you
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I dropped a bottle of red crackle fingernail polish on my tile floor and it also got on the wall (not tiled). Its been sitting there for about 2 months and i got off most of it, but how can I get rid of all of it? (link)
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Try the magic eraser. Try soap with it first... And if that doesn't work try the nailpolish remover. Really scrub at it... It has worked miracles for me. Or take a sponge let the sponge soak in warm water with soap and tape it to the wall to try to loosen the polish the wall and than it may scrub off easier
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Im 14 and my boyfriend and i got together in december. He's kissed me twice, but he wont talk to me. I sit next to him and his friends everyday at school because he saves me a seat, but when i save him a seat with my friends, he just walks past me. On the rare occasion that he does talk to me, he wont even look at me, even though when i stand up in class or he sees me in the hall, his eyes are glued to me. Texting is the same way. When he texts me, in the middle of our conversations he cuts it off saying he has to work out or go do chores or its family movie night. When i text him, he rarely ever replies. This happens every time. There has been some problems with his friends thinking im weird annoying and stupid, but he swears he doesnt think so. WHat do i do. Im scared to confront him because i dont know how and i dont want to ruin this relationship. (link)
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Well I just want you to know that you are still young. I am 17 years old... I remember when I was 14 liking boys... Dating boys... Breaking up with boys. I realize u want this relationship to last a little longer, confronting him is the right thing to do if you want to actually have a real relationship. Is it possible for a breakup? Of course. But you have 4-5 years left of school, if a real up did occur there is always a chance of getting back tOgether in high school when most people start maturing and an actual real relationship can happen
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I'm a teen and want to live life to the fullest. I'm too young to work, I have many chores to do everyday and I get bored very easily. It seems like my mom's favorite thing to do is start arguing and I'm not anywhere close to my dad. My brother, who is my best friend, is always out of the house with work and friends. My friends from school live very far away and don't have any friends in my neighborhood. These past couple of days have just been such a bore and I feel too lazy to go outside and play from it. I don't have my own bike but I just want to know, what's the secret to enjoying life? If there is one. If not, how can I spice up my life and enjoy it more? Thanks. :) (link)
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all you have to do are find the little things in life to laugh about, and think positively.
and by little things, i mean little things, for example im 16 years old, and once my cousin and i laughed very hard about a squirrel. think about things that make you happy. =]
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What's a good Middle name for Einda. pls help me. (link)
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if im pronouncing the name correctly how about
Ann
Jane
Lyn
Rose
or marie
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