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How do I get confidence
I think this guy that works at Starbucks is just so gorgeous, and I want to talk to him when I see him again, and I'm just so shy when it comes to guys that I think are cute.
how can I get over this, and be more confident and not so shy?
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I have had a lot of friends that have been in this situation and i have also been in this situation. The best way to get over a fear s to embrace it and face it. Don't let your shyness set you back in life, because he way be the one for you...you never know. Talking to a guy you really like can be super scary but once you get it over with you'll feel so much better. I say just go with it and throw away the shyness before its too late! Just remember to be you and if he doesn't like you that's his loss and it just wasn't meant to be...i mean that's the worst that can happen. GOOD LUCK :)
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Just pretend that he's gay.
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You should start slow. Start with smiling, then saying hi, and eventually you'll be able to have a short conversation.
If you keep working at it, you'll become more comfortable with it.
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Well you could try jus going in there a little more frequently And try to make eye contact and when you do give a polite cute smile. It's hard to engage in conversation sometimes... Especially at Starbucks. Or you could be really brave and write your name and number down and hand it to him when he rings you up. On the note say that you thought he was cute and wanted to get to know him. I've done this before on a dare and it worked.. He called me. I'm sorry this may not be helpful but you'll figure out how to do it :)
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