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I've been asking my mom for an email,but she keeps on saying no.How can I convince her to let me have one? (link)
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tell her what you would use it for, sometimes to receive emails from teachers, or friends, sometimes from colleges. anything that you would use it for if not......(make one secretly) but yea tell her honestly.
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So my friend and I weren't getting along at first but then we made up. Still things werent the same! Then we made up again and she told me about her party and said I'm on the list! But then all of sudden she said I'm not invited, and i dont even know what I did! What should i do?! (link)
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talk with her and ask whats going on, sometimes it could be some confusion that might need to be cleared up. if not then maybe its time to find a new friend that won't be so bipolar, theres always someone out there thats willing to be your friend.
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ok so i've been having an on and off distance relationship with this guy for about a year, he was finally comming but recently he is always too busy to even answer my texts , he doesnt really show much interest on keeping speaking to me to be honest, BUT whenever i try to end it with him he doesnt want it to end he just says he has been so busy etc, i really like him alot and i am/ was in love with him as strange as it sounds cause obviously things werent this way before, they just have been for the past 2 months maybe, he has a very bad reaction sometimes when he is upset and he is extremly jealous, i can tell he cares cause he knows the situation isnt ideal and yet he wants us to stay together and for me to wait for him...
in that time i was ok with waiting i never really cared about other guys other than him and whenever i met a new guy i never agree on going out with him or anything cause to me it didnt feel right
so now i met a new guy....i dont know if its something about him, or maybe the fact my boyfriend has been neglecting me lately and not exactly the best...or maybe all together ...but i agree to go out with him we have been dating for about 2 weeks..and we've been to the point like right before having sex, i cant tell if he wants a relationship cause he is only here for a semester, but a part of me is telling me to go for it to have sex with him and see what happens, (im a virgin) if we stay together at least for the whole semester then at least i will enjoy it , and if it ends in him just being with other girls and then leaving then obviously id be heartbroken
i know it isnt ideal either of the situations, but my boyfriend isnt comming until in about 3 , 4 months ! and i feel that i just cant do it anymore i wanna be with him but i feeel that in the mean time im missing out on maybe meeting someone ! i wanna be with him so telling him that we should break until he comes is NOT an option, but also i wanna start seeing what happens with this new guy because its the first time i actually feel like whatever i dont care im gonna lose my virginity to him cause it feels right,,eventho in my mind is like..am i sure i want to do it with someone who might not get to be my boyfriend? whats going on in my head ! i dont understand where does this thoughts come from ! because i used to be like always strong about the ' i wont have sex with someone who isnt my boyfriend' idea and then this guy happens and im like i dont care at least i will enjoy while it lasts ....am i wrong for thinking this?
so waiting for my boyfriend doesnt guarantee anything, he has been mean to me recetnly , neglects me and never has time for me , but still i feel some emotional conection so its hard to just let go ...
being with this new guy feels right and eventho he has never told me he wants a relationship or anything i feel that at least id be doing this for me , not because he feels a certain way about me but because i like him and i wanna have sex with him...but im scared that im even thinking this way cause this is not like me !...
im very overly protective with my heart and feelings and i wasnt this way until my current boyfriend cause he has hurted me aloooot but still i cant let go ! ....so a part of me is telling me to just do what feels right and if it doesnt ends up right (in us having a relationship) then whatever im not gonna die or anything and even at this point i will be at least a bit hurt if he starts dating other girls ....so im like if im gonna get hurt anyway ! maybe one is gonna hurt more than the other ...then why not do what i want?...
i mean waiting for my boyfriend is :
currently worrying 24/7 where he is cause he lies to me and he is ALWAYS out , he never has time to speak to me but when i try to leave him he doesnt let me do it and to be honest i really dont want to i just want him to care !
being with the new guy:
*i could have sex with him and we could become boyfriend girlfirend (since i kinda told him i didnt wanted to have something that casual but to have exclusivity) but he wasnt very clear about his thoughts about it he was kinda confusing like gave me the idea that he isnt dating anyone else and that he could tell people hes with me etc...and then i ruined it by being too negative about it so i would have to bring the subject up..
*if i have sex with him and it doesnt work out well i will be hurt aloot
*if i dont have sex with him and still it doesnt work out i will be hurt still cause i do care about him and like him alot
*if we end up being together he will leave anyway at the end of semester cause staying is not an option he is from a different country
so i dont know i know im not clear about this but i just need someone to tell me an opinion :( !!!! my head's so messed up !
im 21 by the way, im at university, foreign guy is 22, and my boyfriend is 23 (link)
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what you need to do is stop thinking about when your going to have sex cause its not the end of the world if you don't get any. its always nice when its with someone you truly care about, and when you're ready it will just happen don't plan it! second yea it sucks when your boyfriend neglects you from time to time but thats the problem with distance relationships it will happen. if you want him to pay more attention tell him honestly whats going on in your mind and whats going to happen if things don't get better. now about this other guy i think for the time being just be friends with the guy until you figure whats really going to happen instead of just going for it only cause its seems like a good idea at the moment. its not think about what you really want then plan from there. hope this helps!
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so my girlfriend, 4th time being my girlfriend. shes cheating on me like its nothing. i think shes using me. im suicidal and would like help. any advice? im 16 and male. shes 15 (link)
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honestly dump her! shes not worth keeping around!! you have plenty of time to find a girl that wants to be with you. if your feeling suicidal talk with someones you REALLY trust and just open up to them about what your feeling, but killing yourself over something like this is not worth it, what you need is something to vent your emotions out on. like you could do something fun like going partying with your friends and letting loose. but seriously don't be suicidal that would be an injustice to yourself. i hope this helps!!!!! >_
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Hi I'm 15 and I wiegh 180 I feel very uncomfortable when people talk bought their wieght bc I feel like I'm way over I'm "5,7" so that makes it a little better that I'm taller right? Well anyways I want to lose 20 pounds kinda quick but not so quick that it can harm me I just want to be on a healthy diet but it's kinda hard for me but I do sometimes workout but I don't think I do enough please give me specifics on what I could an should eat and what types of workouts I could do ps. It's kinda cold here I live so it's hard to workout outside and idk what to do I've tried playing wii just dance for some time any suggestions on anything so it could help me( as long as it's healthy) (link)
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losing weight takes time but here are some tips that helped me :D....
1) smaller food portions enough to make feel satisfied not full
2) cutting out sweets like candy, soda, anything with sugar, you can still have them just not so often.
3) exercise-only you know your limit its good to push yourself, not enough to hurt yourself but enough to improve each time you exercise.
4) MOTIVATION: never feel bad about your weight, your still you no matter what size you are. its good to improve, but still feel good about yourself!
5) instead of staying inside, be a normal teenager and go with your friends and do anything that requires lots of movement!
good luck!
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My ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. He says he still loves me, he still kisses me, holds my hand, and everything. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone in a relationship at all, but he's doing it now. He wants me to do what's best for me, he wants me to move on and see someone else since his focus is school at the moment. He says he'll be interested in other girls, but not fall in love because he'll get distracted in school. He says even if he did get married, he'll probably love me for the rest of his life. Since I was his first love and first... Everything.
I don't want to pressure him into getting into a relationship with me when he's not ready. He just thinks that he's never going to be ready for a relationship, that's why he wants me to move on. He's someone that's very trustworthy, and he wouldn't lie to me. It took him a while to tell me that he didn't want me to wait because he knew it would hurt me a lot. He said it was hard to even stand in front of me, and if I asked if he loved me, he couldn't say "no" because he did.
I noticed that there are some things that I did in the past, before I even knew him and some other things such as I would have a New Year's kiss, he got upset about. But he said he didn't have the right to say anything since we weren't together anymore.
He didn't want to do anything that'll get my hopes up, but he said I could do whatever I want until I'm ready to be friends again. Why don't I want to move on? I love him too much. I originally just move on and forget about the person, but... He's different. I don't want to crush hope with my bare hands. I don't want to give up.
My sister knows that he still loves me, just seeing him the way he would act towards me. She thinks that he just needs time to get everything sorted out since he keeps going back and forth. She says just don't get him angry or stress him out since he's stressed out enough about school, and work, since he's trying to save up money for a car and an apartment. So I tried helping him as much as I can, help him clean his house, wash dishes, make dinner... Stuff like that. That I never did before until now. Maybe if I keep doing it, he'll fall back in love? I'm not sure.
What should I do?! I don't want to give up. But I am scared he might lose his feelings for me completely. It's getting hard for me knowing we're not together. I'm just confused. I want to stay and keep myself distracted because I love him so much and I want him to come back when he's ready. Do you even think he will come back? He says he honestly thinks he won't, but things don't go as planned... Please help me. I'm terribly confused. I need more than one advice/opinion! (link)
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Things are always hard after a break up, and they usually suck..a lot but, heres the thing if you care enough then you guys need space because usually after a break up, you don't act as if you're still going out...It doesn't work like that. You should show him that hey yeah i still like you a lot but, I'm willing to give you the time and support you need. Not only that but, you need to accept the possibility of moving on with or without him. I hope this helps.
good luck!
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Alright well I am 18 and a female. I dated this guy named collin for about three years and we ended up splitting because he cheated. I was in love with this guy and I couldn't stand being anywhere near him after that so I moved to another state where I had family. After about 5 months he breaks up with the girl and then comes running back to me. We talk again for a while but I don't trust him. I met this other guy and we start dating. I didn't want to get to much hope up on collin because afterall he did cheat. Well now they both want me to give the other up and idk what to do. It'll be hard to give up either. I love collin but I nknow this guy is loyal and will treat me good. Collin would be a chance. I'm not willing to give up either so I don't know what to do. (link)
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As much as you still love your ex, do you really love him after all you did move to a different state. I don't think its a good idea to give him a second chance. I mean if he truly loved you in the first place he wouldn't have broken your heart that way. Now if this new guy is the real deal then go for it, don't let something good pass you by. In the end its you choice, only you know whats good for you.
good luck!
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