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paranoia, is she a cheater? am i wasting my time?
so my girlfriend, 4th time being my girlfriend. shes cheating on me like its nothing. i think shes using me. im suicidal and would like help. any advice? im 16 and male. shes 15
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Dump her with no second thoughts. She's probably the reason why you are suicidal. Honestly, why do you let her use you? You're probably some awesome guy and she's too much of a dumb slut to realize it. You're so young, there are gonna be so many girls out there that will respect you enough not to cheat on you or use you.
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honestly dump her! shes not worth keeping around!! you have plenty of time to find a girl that wants to be with you. if your feeling suicidal talk with someones you REALLY trust and just open up to them about what your feeling, but killing yourself over something like this is not worth it, what you need is something to vent your emotions out on. like you could do something fun like going partying with your friends and letting loose. but seriously don't be suicidal that would be an injustice to yourself. i hope this helps!!!!! >_<
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Absolutely wasting your time. The best woman on earth isn't worth killing yourself over, and this isn't the best one.
Anyone who cheats like that is only using you for something she isn't getting someplace else. Reforming a serial cheater is something you can NOT do. They have to hit rock bottom and realize they have ruined their life before they will change.
Trust me on this one: You do NOT want to be waiting around for that day to come. There is always another excuse, another lie, and another guy. Always.
There is a free hotline you can call and talk to someone when you are feeling suicidal:
1-800-273-8255
... please don't hurt yourself. Nobody is worth hurting yourself over.
Get away from her now, while you still might not have the diseases she is out busy collecting.
I am sorry she did this to you. You are not alone. It does get better. The hurt does go away, just hang in there.
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You are young. Boyfriend and girlfriends come and go. You can find another girlfiend one day trying with your relationship 4 times and you are only 16 is crazy and not worth it. You have friends spend some time with them and focus on your school work. If you are feeling suicidal, call a theripist and schedule an appt. I know its a stranger but sometimes a stranger can see something that you cant and it helps to talk to them. good luck hun.
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