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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?

p.s. she has a boy-friend now

well your a fxcking asshole. you dont EVER dump a girl because shes not "attractive" thats gay. YOUR FAULT.

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Okay this is all very confusing, I'm sorry and I hope it doesn't make ya'lls head spin but here is my problem.

I made out with a guy totally unaware that he had a girlfriend.
Well recently, I got in contact with his brother, and she was over there. I mentioned something to his brother about us making out, in jest. She got on and immediatly asked me if whatI say is true.

I said, yes. It was. I wasn't gonna lie.

She told me that they'd been dating for three years straight, and she thought she might be prengnat. HE told me nothing of the sort, that she was just a friend.

After much hassle, she called me and told me she'd confront him about it. She did, and he denied it, and she told me "I don't believe you, I trust him."

Things are blowing up, random friends of hers are IMing me like crazy, and his brother is sort of half and half beleving me, yet feeling dedication towards his brother.

Of course the whole attention thing is on them..its oh "Krista* made a big deal about it.." "OH krista is trying to ruin a relationship" when that totally wasn't my view or anything.

How can I help what she saw? I think its been hurting me more then it has them. What do I do?

I want a logical way to get back at them, or to show them that I don't give two dead rats.

I want the girlfriend to know that it IS true no matter how much he denies it, though it doesnt matter much to me if we messed around or not.

HELP!

xxthanksxx

get a camera. get him drunk, then make out with him and get someone to take a picture of it. then she will see.

ps. shes a fuckfag.

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WeLL!Every guy that I get close too ends up hurting me in the end, so I have a major trusting issue with ppl. I dont even trust some of my best friends anymore just bc they have hurt me and talked about me behind my back. I am not sure who to trust. I go to school with my ex bf who hates me but he is one of the very few ppl I trust still. he has hurt me in the past but I have always been able to trust him. I cant talk to him bc he hates me but I really need to talk to him. What do I do?

if he has aim, then tell him that you trust him and hes one of the people you trust and you REALLY need to talk to him! why does he hate you?

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im thirteen and i was datin this fifteen yr old until i found out what an ass he was...he always tried to go down my pants and kiss me...so about two weeks ago i broke up wit him...i still went to his house and we r really good friends...after i broke up wit him i met his uncle who is 19...and i found that he likes me....then he called me and asked me out afta we got to kno each otha...(IM NOT GONNA DO ANYTHING WIT HIM BECAUSE I KNO THATS RAPE!!) i said yea so eva since we have been goin out...i luv him a wicked lot and he luvs me to but all my friends say i should dump him...i dont want to but my friend kayla gives the best advice and shes the main one who makes me feel like i should


>should i dump him or not?
thanx a bunch

are you on crack? your only 13 and your dating someone who is WAY older then you OMG YOUR A HOE!

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Ok,
I like this guy and he knows I like him. We have never talked before, it's just kind of a crush. Since he knows I like him, its really weird because I always see him looking at me. I thought it was in my imagination so I asked my friends to check if he was indeed looking at me. They said he was and it wasn't my imagination. Sometimes he walks by me for no reason, and my friends and I have even caught him checking me out a few times. Why won't he come up to me and talk to me? Is he afraid? I'm not scary, lol. And I thought about it and...why would he stare at me, check me out, and walk by me for no reason if he DIDN'T like me? He has to like me just a little....or maybe he thinks I'm a freak. :-( ....I sure hope not. HELP! What should I do? I really want him to talk to me, and I don't have the guts to do it myself!

Chloe*

sometimes guys think that when you like them they like to see if they like you back, so they check you out and talk to their friends and stuff. he MIGHT like you but then he might not!
hope i helped RATE ME!

Casia.

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sorry, this is gonna be kinda long...ok, this guy i am with, and love with all my heart, lets call him...Bob...now, Bob, has been making certain, well, comments, that makes me think that he wants to be with me for ever. like, one day i was talking about how whenever i get married my mom is not gonna like the guy, so i was gonna get a friend (lets call her Sally) to do what the mother does in a wedding...and he goes "don't let Sally do anythign special" so i was like "she'll prolly be a bridesmaid" and then i discussed soem dumb ideas a freind of mine had...lets call her Sandy...and i told him we wanted to do a double wedding in a cowboy theme. and he goes "i am not dressing up like a cowboy"
does that mean that he wants to marry me, or is planning to or what? it has stuck in my head and i just want to know if there could be a further meaning behind it.

maybe he thought that you brought that up because you wanted him to be the groom... or maybe he said that because he was thinking about it too and he DOES wanna be your groom. you should ask him about it and see if it meant anything special.

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Ok, I like the whole “crimp” style, but when I crimp my hair it goes all poofy. Is there any way I can still crimp my hair w/o it going poof on me? Thnx everyone!

well maybe you should put like sheen on it or something to make it more alive...

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how can u get a guy to notice you?

well when you walk past him flip your hair or like do a little flirty smile. or just talk to him and stuff.

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ok i went out wit this one kid for 32 days and we were really close and i just broke up wit him 2 weeks ago and he has rally hot friends and i hang out wit them but the guy i went out wit isnt there wen i am and his friend tom always flirts wit me like he always sits by me or tells someone to move cause he wants to sit there he winks at me n he like does silly stuff like joke around like oh ur sexi but i dunno r these realy signs?? i sort of wanna kick it wit him and hes going to homecoming alone and i want to go wit him becuase i htink it will be fun and his bday is on homecoming day should i ask him or wait til he asks me i got the hots for this ki it means a lot to me please help me out oh and his ex gf is kinda my friend and she still likes him alil but he dont like her at all he said sorry this is long but i want u to kno exactly wats goin on thnx 4 readin

i think hes hinting and i think you should ask him because, he will more then likly say yes if yall are friends then dont be scared to ask him!! be nice and cute about it! tell me if he says yes or if you ask him leave it in my inbox!! RATE ME PLEASE!

cas

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im 11 and ive had my period and im pregnant what should i do

ARE YOU FUCKING CRAZY??? WHY THE HELL DID YOU HAVE SEX TELL YOUR FUCKING PARENTS OMG HOW MORE STUPID CAN YOU BE?

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im 10 and i weigh 110 pounds that normal rit? and say yes or no. dont say if ur happy then its normal

no. im sorry but thats kind of over weight for a 10 year old

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I really love to play guitar.Its my favorite thing.But now that i play guitar i wanna start writing lyrics and songs.But the thing is ive got nothing.What should i do?

you should get some ideas from the things around you not like a seat or a table like life or love something like that or listen to some songs and get some ideas from the songs

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ok...ive gone on three dates that were awesome, i thought so and so did my date. i got my first kiss onthe third date and i thought everything was going awesome. but she got out of a 2 yr relationship 3 months ago and still considers her ex her best friend along w/ another guy as her best friend. me and her were messin around and she like gave me a nipple twister when she was layin on me so i flicked her boob and it freaked her out...she like made this wierd face and i said sorry cuz she didnt like it...we kissed l8r that night. then the next day she showed up at my work with the guy that she considers her best friend, not her ex though, and she was like in a bad mood that i l8r found out was cuz i flicked her boob and she wanted to make me feel bad about it. she waited for me outside the front door so when i would get off work we could make up...but i park inteh back for work so i didnt know till she called askin where i was and i didnt wanna talk to her neways cuz she was bein mean to me. we got over it l8r on, and the next day she wanted to come up to c me, but she said that she spent the day w/ her ex, so i got pissed and jealous and told her that she shouldnt come and c me. then she said i was an ass to her, so today i apoligized by surprising her with roses. am i in trouble here likin this gurl with her havin her ex and another guy as her best friends? i dont really want to think that i wasted my first kiss on a gurl that doesnt care about me, cuz she used to say taht i was so awesome and so unlike her ex bf and taht taht was a good thing. plz help, thx.

well she seems like she doesnt like you no offense thats just how it seems and also i think that you guys should be friends not like boyfriend and gurlfriend if shes gonna keep doing this crap its okay for her to have her ex and her friend as best friends but still she seems like shes using you

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ok..my BF and I have been together for 10 months TODAY! and like in these 10 months hes told me he loved me 2 times...and the first time he told me was on the fone and i go..are u sure...and he was like yeah..and i go oh..and he goes ur not gonna say nothin back? and i go i dont think u know what ur talkin bout..cuz we had only been goin out for 2 months then! and then like when it got to us bein together for 7 months..he told me again..i was sitting by him and we were cuddling..and like he jus looked at me..and said..my name and said i love you..and i juss smiled..and he said it again..both times i never replied..cuz i was scared..im scared to say if i love him or not..how do i know? and how do i know this is the forreal way he feels? Well i want him to tell me it again..cuz i wanna tell him i do too..

DUDE ARE YOU THAT GAY?!? when you have been with your boyfriend for 10 months [thats almost a year just tellin you retard]and he says he loves you then that means he loves you geez ya retard HE LOVES YOU SO THEN YOU SAY IT BACK BECAUSE YALL HAVE BEEN TOGTHER FOR 10 MONTHS SO HE HAS NOTHING ELSE TO DO BUT LOVE YOU

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I dunno what to wear the first day of school. I know u dunno what i've got- but maybe if u could tell me some cool shopping stores or o ya- i was wonderin' should i wear a skirt or shorts or capris cuz it is WAY to hot to wear jeans in TeJaS!!! thankyou

well im wearing a skirt dont wear anything too dressy tahts a very good choice [ive had experiance] but ur should wear like a skirt some flip flops and a cute top

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Hi my name is Casey(girl) and im 14 years old.I try really hard for guys to like me but i never seem to attract that many. How do i get guys to like me??

you cant get a guy to like you guys like girls who are pretty and are confident and have a good personality you cant just go up to a guy and say "HEY I WANT YOU TO LIKE ME SO DO IT" start flirting with some guys who are cute or nice that always works

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i need help, i feel like i am fat.. i am 13 years old and weigh about 140lbs.. all of my friends are skinny and i`m not satisfied with my weight and my appearance.. does anyone have any ways i can loose weight and ways i can loose 10-15 pounds within a month or so?

you can like eat stuff that doesnt make you fat or workout alot

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ok my boyfriend is 14 and we have been going out for 11 and a half months. what do i get him for our 1 year anniversary?? anyone got any ideas? xoxo please help! im desperate!! loves ya!!!

what do you think he likes? maybe something like a card that says i love you are something boys are so hard...

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hey i have a friend that was on her period and had sex 3 times day after day and he came every time she keeps calling me trying to say srry for what she did but i dont anwser....... its not the 1st time she has done somthing this dumm. nut this time i dont think i should except her apology. should i or should i not? need help plzs

signed FEED UP!!!!!!!!!!

if she had sex why are u so mad at her?

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i went out wiht this kid for ova a year and he cheated on me 8 times. i have a huge issue with trusting poeple becuz i am constantly afraid of gettin hurt. . i am way over him now, but i like my bestfriend =( he went out with my bestfriend[a girl] and she still likes him too. But, a few weeks ago i met this guy, he is truely amazing. he is everythin i need from a guy, he is sweet, romantic, trusting and he cares about me. now i have a big problem with trust and so does he bc he has also been hurt in the past. should i give up on my best guy friend and let my best girl friend have him, [bc i dont wanna fight wiht her] or should i go for the new guy? Help please!!

go out with the new guy! if you like him alot and he has trust problems like you, you both can learn to trust eachother

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