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Q: i really need new clothes but i don't have a lot of money. what are some good clothing stores with websites and i can order from? i need some really cheap ones with cute clothes! also..are there any from other countries that ship in cheap? i want clothes that not everyone has so i can be different..but still in style and cute. tell me all you know!

btw im 15.
you shud go to forever 21 and aero and jc penny
look on the clearance racks..
plus filenes has good sales...the jeans can be on sale fer 15 dollars and stuff

Q: i have a ovalish-roundish face and dark brown hair, dark brown eyes and i dont know what color eyeshadow to wear.
gray nd light purple

Q: alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it?
giving head doesnt make you "half a virgin".. if you havt had sex then yer a virgin.. plus if yer school cares so much about 3rd base then you go to one prude school

Q: hi, well i have been very confused lately on my sexuality. i've always been dating guys and shit. but this year, i think i've been atracted to girls as well. i mean, im still atracted to guys, but i think i am to girls too. i've made out with alot of girls, but that was for like fun and shit. but now i really think im attracted to girls too. am i bisexual? and if you have rude comments, save them for your self.
date a girl and see how it feels

Q: hello im a 13 year old girl and my boyfriend is 15 and a half well ill be 14 soon but any ways.. he wants to have kids i want to but i still think im too young if i wasnt in school then i think im for it b ut i dont know i need some advice.
your WAY to young. hes REALLY pushy.. you should try having a lot of boyfriends, finish high school and college, get a job, get married then have kids.. plus dont you think he'll run out on you and the baby? even if he says he wont.. he prbably will..

Q: i like a kid, and like he is mean to me, and my friends asked him why he didnt like me, and he said cuz i'm stupid. but i'm not, i just say a lot of random stuff.but like everytime he talks to me hes all smiley, but the problem is that two other girls in my grade flirt with him. so i feel like i have a competition and then my other friend likes him, and she is closer with him, and i really want to go out with him.
invite him to go to the mall with you or the movies, then you could make out with him and do stuff so he'd probably want to go out with you. or wear a really cute outfit and straighten your hair and whatnot to get his attention. if you have a screen name get his and when its time to say bye dont just say see ya be like i love you

Q:
I want to buy a coach bag .. but there really exspensive is there anyway to get a real one cheaper ? ... but new (( not ebay)) thanks !
coach isnt that expensive.. i have a few and my newest one was only 70 and its the newest one.. but its just a handbag..

Q: My best friend is 16 now but she has been getting abused by her dad since she was old enough to walk. I saw him punch her in the face one time and bang her head against a wall. I am really scared for and her sister because I have seen him hit her too. She's asked me not to tell but Im scared that if I keep quiet that one day he might really hurt her. We tryed calling the police on him one time but they wanted to press charges against us and not him. I dont know what I should do and I dont know how I can help her.

go to a guidance counseler at school and bring a picture of a bruise youre friend has ..
or even if you dont have a picture go anyways and tell her .. i guarentee the guidance counseler will help

Q: I have found myself snapping at people calling them complete morons and other such insults. I do it when I am frustrated or even slightly annoyed. I have no patience for anyone it seems. Later on I regret saying such things. I've said these things to friends and family, and even my boyfriend ,whom I adore. But when the moment hits me it seems I can't prevent the waspish comments from bursting out. How do I explain to these people why I say such things? I've hurt their feeling and it really upsets me. I don't mean to be mean. It seems i just can't help it.


the same thing happenes to me its like not in control . .
drink less coffee
get more sleep and if thys doesnt work go see a therapist

Q: hey i asked earlier about possible duets for dating couples for the talent show..well today everyone was like saying my boyfriend is gay because hes a good singer, and they were like, guys dont sing. only a couple people said it though. and today we went and watched the seventh grade talent show and i sat next to him and all the little seventh graders were saying it to.. well some of them. it's getting really annoying, what should i do? i mean, im not gonna break up with him because i love him but i just wanna make them stop.

their just jealous

Q: so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges?

practice the routine over and over again ..
yell from your stomach
ive been cheering for so long ...
dont let the routine mess you up
dont let the judges scare you let them push you to be better ..
i once had to do a roundoff backtuck while my whole team was still so everyone was watching me .. all 7 judges and hundreds/thousands of people in the audience ..
i thougt about how much i wanted to look good and it worked

focus on wanting to do good and practice

Q: Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers.

dont worry hes just shy ...

he does like you dont worry

Q: im a thirteen year old responsible teenager the problem with me is that my parents are getting a divorce. i dont have a problem with dat because my dad treats my mum like shit he beats her up and all all that stuff. Now i really want a boyfreind but my mum says no she says you cant have one till im 21 when i asked her why she said because in her day the didnt have boyfreinds at that age. everytime i want 2 mke my own decisions she makes them for me like wat clubs to join wat freinds i should hve what clothes to wear and im getting sick of it (i always have been) please help i also have a problem confronting her with my problems because she dups all her problems on me like im her phycatrist or sth, i cry myself to sleep everyday plse help

tell her that her problems are really upsetting you ..
and about the bf thing .. how is she goinh to know that you have one?

Q: Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!!

get rid of the horse models and all the other kissish stuff then go to like walmarts or targets and get a bunch of posters.. make collages out of your old magazines..add tons of colored pillows and maybe like a cool blanket and put it over her beadspread if its kiddish.. take the pillowcases off if their ugly and just put on plain ones.. get a few ribbon buletin bords there only like 5 bucks and put tons of pics in them..
hope i helped

Q: I want to start going tanning at this major tanning salon near my house. Im having a problem with the lotions tho. The tanning salon has tons of lotions but theyr all expencive. They reccomend California Tan lotions but does anyone recomend others or like California Tan the best.

thanks.
i recomend drama queen tanning lotion its about 45 dollars a bottle but it smells great and the bottles an awesome hott piink

Q: Hey...
I was wondering how to get summer-ready when you know that you'll be around guys! I mean everything from the perfect bikini that's sexy but not slutty, the perfect exercises to make me tight and toned, and how to get invited to the best parties...most of my friends are having beach/pool/waterpark parties and I often see *really* hot friends fro school at the local pool, and I want summer love (lack thereof) or a fling or something that can boost my reputation and gain me some friends...aka get me into the popular circle...since I'm friends with like half of the popular people! Anyway, also, if it helps, I'm just under 5 feet am 13 and have an 'A' cup...and I'm thin except for my inner thighs and my abs...I'll rate high...

Amy
haha you sound just like me ...
i got my bathing suit at delias.. its leik thys polka dot top and shorts bottoms but not those ugly ones...
haha if you have ares/morpheus/lime wire/ ect.. download 8 minute abs and do it like 2ce a day

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Q: I ave this "condition" called lumbar lordosis where your lower back curves out so your butt really sticks out. I went to physical therapy and got kick butt abs to control it and now its a lot better. You can barely tell. But I have trouble fitting into jeans (i have to get a few sizes larger), skirts (the sideseam curves), and shorts and capris. I'm skinny and i know i have a good body to fit into this stuff, but it's the back-curving-out-slightly problem that won't let me wear anything but long shorts and huge jeans. Can i have some help or stores where i can get some good clothes?? 13/f SHOULD wear size 16 slim

try applebottom jeans there made for girls with big butts

Q: Currently the company I work for has been very very slow to get inventory in. They have not done any marketing or advertising. And we have been told to change some things that we normally do for customers. Also our current customers are leaving (due to lack of inventory) faster then our new customers are coming in.
This has been going on for almost a year. Can it get better or should I seriously be looking for another job? The manager can only say it cost alot to order inventory and hang in there.
look around for a few more jobs. if you fnd a better one then go for it

Q: hey im 15 and never had a boyfriend, and not even kissed someone, and all my friends have! i dont hang around with any guys, so how can i meet a guy?
thanxz for the help
you can go to a teen club if they have one near you or pick a guy from school... have a party and invite some guys and some girls and play kissing games ...
who knows maybe the guy you kiss will eventually ask you out

Q: I recently found out that my boyfriend drinks. Every fiber of my bones is completely and utterly against drinking and alcohol. I hate it like you would not believe. My dad was an alcoholic and my best friend died from drinking and driving a few years ago.

I love him. I really do. I care about him and beg him not to drink. But he tells me he knows his limits. He says he doesnt get drunk just "tipsy". The other night he went out with a few of his friends and they played drinking games. He didnt tell me about it but his friend did.

I feel lied to. I feel betrayed. I know it's his life and he can do as he pleases. I dont want him to think Im trying to control him. But I dont want him to die either.

Help me. Should I leave? Should I stay? How can I look past his drinking habits?
well if he wants to drinnk make sure he isnt going to drink and drive..
you should stay with him becuz no ones perfect and just tell him you get really upset when he drinks....
give him a few more chances

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