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Finding a dildo in my moms cabinet is It normal for your mom to have a dildo
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Your mom needs to cum too. ]
Yes it's normal.
It's also normal for your grandmother to have one!
Why are you going through her things? ]
My first question is the same you've already been asked, why were you looking in Moms privates cabinet. I assume this was somewhere in her bedroom. If you found one in a kitchen drawer or a coffee table drawer, in shared common spaces for the family only then would it be in bad taste and wrong.
I have never known dildos or any sexual toys to come with a label limiting use to those of ages 25 or younger. The only limitations I know of concerning age is that minors (below 18) are not allowed to enter a sex toy shop to buy such things in the first place.
So there is no expiration date for males or females to have orgasms and enjoy sex. Sure we don't have the hard bodies of youth when we are parents or grandparents. But if the sexual organs still work, theres no reason why not to. If you think its odd to think of Mom as sexual creature, try to think of anyone older, lets say your grandma. Don't know her age. But let me assure you it is very normal to enjoy sex with a partner or self pleasuring and that does not exclude having ones male partner use sex toys on his lady. My husband does. I just turned 59 and plan to keep having sex til the day I die. It may take more lub and use of toys more often but there are health benefits to sex as well. Many more than you can imagine. ]
First why were you snooping in moms cabinet?
Who is to say what is normal? Are you saying that just because mom has dad to take care of her sexual needs she should not have a dildo? For one thing just because mom has dad does not mean her sexual needs and dads are the same. They may have been at one time but over the years a mans sexual drive can diminish. some times it is for medical reason and other it is do to stress or just plain fatigue. Mena while moms sexual needs remains the same and can actually increase. For some women once the enter menopause there sexual needs increase now that the worry of pregnancy is over.
Given the above what would you rather mom do, have an affair or use a dildo to satisfy her needs? There is also a possibility that the dildo is part of mom and dads foreplay or after play.
I am of course making the assumption dad is still in the picture since you have not said. ]
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