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Huge crush
I have a HUGE crush on this guy at my school. He asked out my best friend and he asked her out twice. I really want him to ask me out instead even though she is my besty. what should I do? Thanks for your help!
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oh girl.first of all,talk to your friend about it!If she is your best friend she has to understand that it bothers you.Always remeber friends above boys.i cant really tell you what to do other than discuss the matter.you need to find a way to compromise,both of you.this may mean her not going out with him,or you trying not to bother.i dont know what your age is but imagine that you will be in this situation multiple times in the future.you never know,you may be the one getting the boy!hope i helped.-xoxo
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you seem like my age (11) sorry if I'm wrong. I wouldn't ask him out now. Though he might say yes cause of being frustrated with her saying no, it may not be because he really likes you. Plus if he says no it won't help your chances later. I'd talk with your friend and maybe convince her not to date him ( be sure to mention you have a crush on him). Then after the whole friend being asked out is overwith, you can get to know him. After you get to iknow him you can ask him and you'll have a better shot.
Hope that helped somewhat.
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I would take time to get to know the guy first. Make him feel like he can contribute to your life in a positive way. And just for the record, guys love it when a girl respects him.
I actually had the same thing happen to me a few years back and as a matter of fact, my crush was trying to make me jealous! I know that sounds a little stupid but it did grab my attention, ultimately.
Good Luck!
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I think you should get to know him better as a friend before you actually get into a relationship with him or ask him out. Find out if he likes you, and who he likes. Also try to get to know his friends, because if you guys are going to be dating you will have to get along with their friend as well as yours. Make sure he is a trust worthy guy that isn't going to flirt with your best friend while you guys are dating. If you are a shy person most likely you will have to make a bold statement, try to impress him and get his attention. Also, find things in common with the guy first. Even if he doesn't see you as girlfriend material at first, later down the road he might, if you keep the guy close to you in your life. I hope that my advice will help you, and I hope for the best, good luck!
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So, im guessing that your said no both times and maybe he's trying to make you jealous. Flirt with him, maybe hint on how you feel about him, just don't stand back and continue to just watch it happen.
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Here's the deal, if your best friend really likes him too and has accepted the invite to go out, then you can't interfere. However if he asked her out and she wasn't interested and turned him down, then that means he's still single and not dating anyone. Make your move and ask him out before he asks someone else. It is ok for girls to ask guys out.
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