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Hey... Im kinda depressed from moving and losing friends. My whole life Ive moved and lost friends alot. At first I lived in a trailer. I moved into a small country house in the middle of no where. There I met my best friend. I stayed for a few years and we became closer than sisters. Much to my distress we then moved to a small city house in nashville where i became friends with Heaven and Avery who soon moved. When I was still there I befriended Alena and Elly. I moved back to the country house away from my city friends but back to my "sister." Soon afterwards I moved to tiny house in a small town where I befriended Whitney Maddie Noelia and Keondria. Within months I moved to an average sized house in a big city. I then became friend with Meredith Charlsie and Nicole. They have recently turned on me and eachother. I am now friendless.
Just to let any advice givers know I am a preteen. (link)
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I have been experiencing the same thing myself and the best thing I know to do is to find something you enjoy doing and commit yourself to it. Once you find a steady home, you can go out and make friends and show your friends how amazingly talented you are! I know everyone has a talent. You just need to find it.
Good Luck!
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Hey! I'm a teenage girl and I need a bit of advice. My family is going to the beach tomorrow (my mom and 4 siblings) but I have a hefty amount of school work to get done so I'm staying behind. The thing is, I'm super nervous about them going. my sister is only 50 pounds and my brother is 40 pounds and the older ones can't swim and I'm in constant fear that they'll drown or be swept away even when I'm with them. I know that I have anxiety to some extent (though I've never brought it up because I feel stupid) so I know that my thinking probably isn't logical, but I can't help it. I feel like ditching my school work and just going along but then I'd be anxious about failing classes. every time I think about them going I get flashes of tears and funerals and my mom trying to pull the kids back to shore to no avail. how can I stop this thinking so I can focus on my work when they go? (link)
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Hi! I, myself suffer from anxiety and I've had anxiety attacks from time to time. You are not alone. We often worry about things that scare us (even if they're silly)because we simply cannot predict the future. We are only human. Quite frankly, you cannot change the outcome of the situation either way. So why worry about it?
"Don't worry about your life
Cause if you hold it too close you lose it
Don't worry about your life
So won't you let go before it's gone….
I see the birds, watch them fly
They have everything they need
Show me why
I can be free knowing You will care for me."
Don't Worry by Rebecca St. James
You don't know if these things will happen to your siblings because you have no logical proof to back it up. You're just worried because you won't be there with them to make sure they are safe.
When you place your faith in things that can demolish you, you open the way for Satan to bring these things into your life. Look away from those things and look to God. Jesus has already destroyed these lies and these lies cannot destroy your life.
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I have been a straight A student up until now. Lately i have been getting off track and I'm not sure why. My grades are suffering. I am not sure what to do to get back on track and fix my grades. Any advice? (link)
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Yes its nice to be a straight A student and all but everyone deserves a break every once and while. Take your time, gradually work your way back to straight A's. Don't hound yourself.
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My brother is 35 years-old, and for a VERY long time, has fallen into the pattern of dating girls who are superficial and manipulative. He also has a problem where he gets serious VERY quickly and basically allows who he dates to take advantage of him. The excitement of being in a relationship blinds him to the red flags that I see all to clearly. That said, he has been dating a girl for about 2.5 months, she is 26, already divorced, and has already brought some of her things to his apartment and had my brother pay $400 to have someone organize his entire place (not to mention she put up decorations, etc)... obviously it seems a plot to infiltrate his life. When we went out a couple times, her behavior struck me as bizarre- overly high energy, and attention seeking. When we were all in a cab, at one point she put her hand on my brother's mouth and said ,"no one cares what you think." The entire ride, she was spastic, overly high energy, etc. I can see she is superficial, manipulative, and attention seeking. Worst of all, she has my brother convinced that she is not. He likes her a lot, they are very into each other, and it worries me. I need to have a talk with him but do not know how to approach the topic or what I should say. Any advice? (link)
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I wouldn't touch that girl with a ten foot pole. Lol.. You've already made it clear that your brothers girlfriend is psycho..so why don't you explain this to the rest of your family? However, state your thoughts seriously and thoughtfully with family members. They won't last long and it will affect their relationship when he finds out the family doesn't approve of her.
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I have a HUGE crush on this guy at my school. He asked out my best friend and he asked her out twice. I really want him to ask me out instead even though she is my besty. what should I do? Thanks for your help! (link)
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I would take time to get to know the guy first. Make him feel like he can contribute to your life in a positive way. And just for the record, guys love it when a girl respects him.
I actually had the same thing happen to me a few years back and as a matter of fact, my crush was trying to make me jealous! I know that sounds a little stupid but it did grab my attention, ultimately.
Good Luck!
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