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friends are following popular groups and boys!!!!!!! RRRRRR
i always hang out by my self now or with my friend marley because my friends abby, lily, laura, kiley, emma jane, Eve, breanna and sohpie all like to hang around boys or popular groups and i dont like to me and marley are pretty popular to but we dont want to hang around those groups or boys what do we do??????
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Just continue to do with what you're doing. If they want to spend time with you, they will leave that other group every once in a while. Don't push them, its their choice. If they are your true friends, they will miss you and want to hang out with you
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Meh. This always happens with women. It will continue to happen throughout your life. Women want to nest, they want boyfriends, husbands, babies etc. And sometimes your best friends completely change when males come into the picture.
Get used to it. It's hormonal and many other scientific things as well. That's one of the reasons why true friends that are there for life are hard to come by. Relationships are some of the primary reasons people leave childhood friends behind. Just do your thing, enjoy the friends you have around. Unfortunately, though the friends you might be losing, maybe acting completely weird and annoying, it's completely normal.
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Why do you think there is something that you have to do? You're already doing what you want to do. I am trying to figure out what it is that is really bugging you...maybe not having enough choice of people to hang out with if you're ruling out the others for a good reason. I always stayed away from the popular kids crowds at Jr hi and HS cus they felt so fake, superficial and didn't always follow school rules. And yet, I had regularly about 5 to 6 friends who were close and not tempted to hang out with popular kids. They were all the quiet, average kids who didn't belong in any group, no goths, emos, populars, the brainy group, etc. Not saying you have to never see your old friends again. Just wait for them to wake up and realize the in group is not as hot and wonderful as it seems. In meanwhile, look for others like yourself who seem to often be alone too, probably for the same reason as you, or that they are too shy to make the first move to become a friend. That's what you can do for now. If your friends ask why you dont want to hang out with the popular crowd, tell them you already know you don't want to be part of that group but you won't think less of them if they do.
Good luck dear.
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