|
i want to be raped or have sex at 11
i want to have sex or be raped but i am only 11 and a girl!!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Don't worry same here
]
At your age, you are coming into a period in your life in which hormones are raging and your developing sexual feelings. And that is just fine.
But, the desire to be raped is not a normal feeling. While technically, if it is something you wan't it's really not rape as that the definition of rape is non-consensual sex, it's still not a good thing.
Personally, I would recommend that you speak to your school guidance counselor and perhaps he or she might suggest you see a therapist or mental health professional.
While it is ok to have sexual urges and even ok to have some unusual fantasies from time to time, you have to be sure that you keep them in check. get yourself some help and be safe.
]
Like many answers here, I believe you do not want to be raped or may be you do not really understand what rape actually is.
In anyway do know what rape actually is and you really want to be raped, I wanna let you know that most fantasies we do have are not worth the time we use in planning it. Go through your young life and check most of your fantasies that have come true. Didn't you regret any?
Dear sex itself is for matured mind while no one wants his/her enemy to be raped. Find something to keep your mind busy and forget the thought of being raped.
]
Hi there! Now don't get worried, you are not weird or freaky to have thoughts like this. You're at an age where your mind can get hold of some strong ideas and feelings of a sexual nature. And sexual imagery is all over the place in todays world. You really don't want to start having sex at eleven mate! And rape is a horrible crime committed by men who want to hurt and humiliate women. It's not about being in love, or even fancying the woman they abuse. You really don't want that do you? When the time's right you'll find a guy you love and trust and you'll want to have sex. But that's not for a long time yet. But I'll repeat that these thoughts are nothing to get worried about. You aren't the only girl your age to have them. You've shared yours on this site and it's good to get things off your chest. Don't use social media sites to share them with others will you sweetheart? Promise? There are people around who take advantage of feelings like this and you don't want to risk having anything to do with guys like this. Stay safe. Sex is for you and your special boyfriend when you're older. X
]
You're going to have to take us on blind faith with the answers the others and I are giving you to your question. Rape is the last thing a women wants and at your age worse than the trauma of the rape is the damage it can do to you.
At 11 you may be in the early stages of puberty and your body may be changing and starting to look like a woman's body. While that may be happening your vagina is still that of the child you still are. It has yet to receive the hormones of puberty that will allow it to stretch and accommodate a mans penis. Forcible rape or even consensual sex, which you are way too young for, will be very painful and will do considerable damage to your sexual reproduction area of your vagina. Possibly enough physical damage that intercourse in the future will not be possible without great pain.
This is just one of many reasons why sex is inappropriate at your age. Another is your age. You are just not old enough physically or mature enough to handle the consequences of intercourse.
What is causing you to feel this way is puberty and the hormones floating through you. Your horny, hormones = horny. I suggest you learn to masturbate to relieve the pent up sexual tension these hormones are causing. Masturbation is safe, pleasurable and you cannot get pregnant from it. You also learn about your bodies likes and dislikes as far as being touched.
Masturbation is the first step anyone should take in learning about their sensual self. I must be right for according to a recent survey 85% of us, this includes adults, masturbate.
]
First of all, you don't want to be raped. My girlfriend was raped. It's ruined her life. Second of all, you're too young for sex. You might think you are, but sex brings about emotions. It makes you attached. Normally I wouldn't recommend an 11 year old masturbate, but I think it would be good for you. You'll feel the pleasure you're looking for, and wont have the emotional hangups that an 11 cannot handle.
]
You are likely going through puberty and the flood of hormones has your sexual drive going out of control. It happens to us all at some point.
Rape or sex with peers is not a good idea at your age because your body is only beginning to develop to its full sexual maturity. It is far from it and you don't want to end up doing something that might damage you. It is better to practice masturbating and let that be what takes care of any horny feelings for now.
]
More Questions: |