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How do i get him to unblock me and talk to me?
well first i'm 23 and he's only 20. i walked away from my ex because he was being extremely needy and i just needed space at the time being that i had a full time job and going to school full time, i was just exhausted and he didn't really help. anyway, when i left he pretty much said that i treated him like crap the whole time (which is pretty true) and he was through. so i just said "ok, sorry you feel that way bye!" and left it at that. well i'm not a fan of social media but my friend said that i should get on twitter and see this page he made that deals with thoughts/quotes/advice on chivalry and such. well i did and it broke my heart because everything he post is about me. even on my birthday when we weren't talking he said happy birthday. but all the quotes are talking about how much he misses me yet he has me completely blocked. i tried calling through *67 but he answered and hung up and won't answer again. i really regret the way i treated him but he won't give me the chance to apologize and make it work, what do i do? :/ i'm in college so i live in a different state right now so i can't just show up and be like heyyyy.
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Like pretty much everything all the other advicenators have said think about what you are going to say. If you can text him or even call and leave voicemail say what you have to. Apologize for things you've done. Tell him you want to make it work. But only if that's really what you want, be certain you really do want to be with him and you're going to change because if someone treats me like crap i don't give damn if they buy me a bmw and leave 1000 voicemails, they better come back intent on treating me right. So if you think you can make it work and you're going to try to change your ways for him. Go for it. leave that voicemail. send those texts. and hopefully everything works out.
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I think that before you message him you need to think through exactly what you are going to say to him. And he probably wont unbloc you. If there is something that you really want to say to him i think that you could make a second account and tell him that it is you and then say what you want to say. Good luck. I think that it is your own decision :)
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Before any action whatsoever you need to do some major soul searching to see where you really want to have this man in your life because if these "retro-feelings" are only out of shame for the way you left things you will only be hurting him all over again. You might feel bad for the choice you made however that doesn't make it the wrong choice. You just listed some fairly serious issues, have you changed your mind on any of these? If in your heart to heart with yourself you find that you do truly love this man then by all means, send a message with a mutual friend or send him a letter (i would do letter because you can get out everything you need to to him with the best chance of him getting all of it. You cant have the friend rattle off all you have to say & he may not call you out of fear but you know fhe will read that letter over & over again by himself. ) If instead you find you are really just not right for each other than still write that letter. Let him know that you are truely sorry for ending things the way you did & that he deserved better because he meant a lot to you then & still does. .)
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well can you get a friend to talk to him? maybe someone the two of you know mutually? sometimes guys will do this kinda stuff as a defense because their just soo hurt and dont know how to tell you.
obviously if everything he writes on his twitter is about YOU then he must have had feelings beyond words for you. when you called he probably hung up just to keep himself from crying. He doesnt know what your gonna say if he allows a conversation to take place so hes just avoiding you all together.
it sounds like hes REALLY hurt. so if you can try to get someone to personally talk to him. even if they do it and he doesnt want to hear it, once something is said it cannot be unheard. so have someone try to push through to him and then let him sit on what they said for a while. Then let him decide what he wants to do.
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