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confront or not?
so my really close friend was taking to my other friend and my other friend say "oh I have a lot of pimples" and my close friend said "u must have gotten them from rose" should I confront my close friend?
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If you think your pimples are a problem for you let your Mom know so that she can get you some skin care products for acne. Maybe you should give your close friend a break though, she probably doesn't know a lot about pimples or why you get them. Just tell her "you can't catch pimples(duh)!"
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Hell yeah that's rude. that's your close friend, she shouldn't be making comments like that. Now i'm not saying go whoop her butt or start screaming at her. ask her why she said that and tell her how it made you feel.
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If I was you I wouldn't consider any of these people as your friends. Kind of crappy to talk behind someone's back. If you really want to, you can confront them and ask why they would say that. I think this gives you an idea of who you can trust.
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Confront friends for being silly when they talk? Is there something you did not share that I need to know to answer you better?
Apparently I don't know enough about your situation. All I can see in your words is that one friend is teasing other. No different to me than saying Oh you must have gotten the 'bad hair day' hair from Rose, or you must have caught the cold from Rose, etc.
The pimples mentioned could be acne...in which case they are not something a person can catch from another.
The pimples mentioned could be a skin rash of some sort like dermatitis from coming into contact with something that caused an allergic reaction. or perhaps it is hives which are often stress induced. None of these can be transfered to another person.
The only other thing I can think of is rashes showing in the genital area which could be due to a yeast infection or possibly a contracted disease. If this is where the pimples in question are, then that friend should go in to see a Dr. If she can't/wont see the family Dr. she can be tested for STD's at Planned Parenthood. If its yeast, they'll tell her what to buy to take care of it. In none of these cases does Rose need to defend her honor so to speak. However if the friend and Rose have been sexual together and it is an STD, then Rose needs to go get tested also, even without a rash and pimples showing.
If this is not what the situation is and I'm off the mark, then please rewrite your question,be more specific and more details.
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