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I want to die. sorry my English is not my first language
I am 14years old student today I got my report card my cgpa was very low. I don't know why it always happens to me i want to become a lawyer. my friends and family don't understand that i also don't like scoring low marks . For them i will be nothing if i don't score well . My sister is going through a lot after scoring low arks in 10th. i don't want to suffer. i don't know what to do so i choose this option the best . no society tension no parents tension . sorry my English is not my first language
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Don't be hard on yourself. You are struggling and that's okay it happens to all of us. Try studying a bit more, or get a tutor. You can do this girl, don't give up.
I know your parents are frustrated but understand them they just want you to be happy and want the best for you. Try telling them you are going to put in more effort and hang in there.
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I can feel you sweetheart. I've been experiencing that today. I'm graduating high school tomorrow. I should be running as an honour student as what I'm used to for the past years. I got really high grades and expected to graduate with honours. But someone stopped me and became the hinder. She was math teacher who screwd everything just because I did a small prank. My parents who are both teachers want me to b achieve high grades. But I fail and got low grades and I was almost kicked in school. But to tell you I'm a good student and smart but just failed. And they keep on blaming me and telling me I'm not good enough and comparing with their students who were my honour schoolmates. And jeeo on offending me earlier. I almost wanted to die and I'm crying because I'll graduate tomorrow without making them proud.
The purpose why I'm telling you my story is that for you to realize that your situation is even better than me. It's not too late for you to achieve higher grades next grading period. I know you are smart and you can cope up easily. But the only thing matters is that you are pressured of making your parents be proud of you. I can feel you. You aren't happy of what you are doing because it pressures you emotionally. Yoy are desperate now. But suicide is NEVER EVER a good decision for intellectuals to think of. You are not just an intelligent. You are an intellectual who has great values and great thoughts in your mind. Think it as a competition, im sorry to tell you sweetheart that think every moment as a comoetition is because I just want you to standout and evilve from yourself you get used to. Think every possibilty as a challenge, for you to take failures and acceot them with an open. With these thoughts, I just want to mold you to be a good intellectual who has an open mind and accept failures and take it as an ingredient for your great success that awaits you in the future.
Don't let yourself be hidden in the opinions of others like for instance, your parents think you aren't good enough for them or you never made them proud. Don't take it as an insult or offense though it is, instead take it as words of wisdom that would motivate you from evolving yourself as a successful intellectual that your parents and other people should be proud of.
Don't waste your time thinking of things that will bother you. You are too young sweetheart and I can say that you are at the stage of flourishing mind. So your mind is still floating of thoughts and you are vulnerable about critisms and wide opinions. Your emotions are unstable yet you are becoming mature.
My whole clan is almost teachers and my parents wanted me to but I spoke up my mind and made my own choice to be a doctor. (i've experienced a trauma by a teacher). Your choice will be up to you. But as much as possible think it twice and think it positively. Don't let them decide what you must do if it's pressuring you. Don't stess yourself.
My tips about studying are: you must study whenever you have free time but to the point of studying in the middle or late at night. It'll make you forget what you've studied.
You must sleep as much as you can. Refrain from sleep deprivation because of studying.
Eat alot of veggies and fruits. And don't eat heavy meals because it will led up to hearing loss.
Drink alot of water and workout.
Most importantly sweetheart, you must evolve from who you are today. Take every possibilities as challenge and competition. And never be jealouse of othes because you ahave more than what they have and you are better than what they are. You are comfortant. "I AM COMFORTANT, I'M (yourname) AND I CAN DO MORE".
I hope this would help. I'm willing to help and you can reach me whenever you want. Stay happy, don't stress-out and evolve.
Goodluck sweetie and Godbless!
'blueheart'
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Killing oneself over a low grade or a bad report card is not the answer to your problem. Grades are not all that they are meant to be. They are suppose to be a method of examining your knowledge of a subject. Problem is some people may have a commanding knowledge of a subject but do not test well. I happen to be one of those people.
I have a form of photographic memory. If I see it or hear it I have almost total recall. Slide a paper in front of me marked test or examination and I go totally blank, even though I can demonstrate orally my knowledge of the subject.
Now the question is do you know the material that is being taught? Do you study hard? Did you try your best on exams and turn in homework on time. IF the answer to these question is yes then the problem is not your ability to learn it is the method you are examined in. This is not a reason to kill yourself.
I received low grades all through school. When I joined the military my grades in their schools were exceptionally high; Why was this? They taught and tested differently than public school
a method I was more comfortable with.
I think this is your problem as well. Why do I say this. You say English is not your first language yet you have done very well in getting your point across. Your punctuation needs work, other than that its very good. This tells me you are smart and you can learn.
I suggest you talk to your instructors. If you do have trouble with testing as I believe you do then talk to them about it. They should be aware of students with such problems and they should be able to find another way to satisfy their need to find out how much you know about the subject matter.
By the way you made your point very well you will make a very good lawyer some day. You need to stay alive to become that lawyer.
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