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I need advice and I have a vague question because my phone has a text limit


Question Posted Sunday September 29 2013, 3:50 pm

I'm a 13 year old nerd girl, and I need to know how to get a nerd boy to like me, or at least how to tell them I like them.

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Additional info, added Monday September 30 2013, 10:47 pm:
Would it be a bad idea to tell him outright I have a crush on him? Or would it seem weird? And could I actually do it?.

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acw776 answered Wednesday November 29 2017, 11:16 pm:
Just tell him.

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Lukacrossziera answered Thursday November 21 2013, 1:01 am:
know what the boy hobbie,what type of girl she like,and anything about him.And then,try to get her attention...if you get her attention,then say that you like him..

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lightoftruth answered Monday September 30 2013, 8:47 pm:
It's pretty much the same way you'd talk to any other guy. Just you guys have similar interests so it's easier.
So that's where you start.

You can't make anyone like you. But the best way to find out if he ever does or ever will is to become friends with him. Relationships always last better and aren't as awkward when you guys are friends first.
So talk to him more, be nice and friendly, say hi when you see him, ask how his day was, ect. Then you can start hanging out with him. Even invite him out with your friends later.

At that point, you'll know how he feels for you or at least have a better idea.

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adviceman49 answered Monday September 30 2013, 8:52 am:
Nerdy boys are usually shy especially around girls. So do not expect him to come to you and start a conversation or even ask you out.

I can think of two ways to get him to know you and talk to you.

1. Ask him if he would help you with a subject in school that you know he likes and is interested in. Sort of tutoring you or helping you with homework. This gives you a common base to talk to each other. From here you can try to draw him out of his shyness and talk about other things and get to know you and hopefully like you.

2. In school on projects that might require that you work with a partner chose him. As a nerd he is probably the last one chosen. If you chose him over the more popular kids he will be shocked and pleased to be chosen rather than have a teacher assign him to someone.

Here again the project gives you a base in common to talk to each other. Then again it is on you to draw him out and get him to talk about other things.

Good luck.

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scottishgal1 answered Monday September 30 2013, 12:25 am:
If you mean like actual nerdy Wholock girl, then I can help! Just talk about likes and dislikes. Ask him if he watches Supernatural, or what his favorite book is. ask what he's going to be (if anything) for Halloween. Just talk ! But you know, not too much. Maybe smoothly get some friends together and go out to the movies. Good luck!

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