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group hang out crushing coming
Okay, so I finally asked the cute guy from work I'm crushing on to hang out with me and some of my co-workers to go bowling and he said yes (yay!) Okay, how am I suppose to flirt with him during bowling? I mean I don't even have his number yet. Were going this saturday, and I'm freaking out because I really don't know how to flirt in a group setting. And I extended the invitation for him to bring his friends or co-workers so you know he wouldn't feel awkward. So that's more pressure. I just want this night to go well in the romantic department, and any help on how to make him notice me during the bowling would be great!
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So you pretty much want to flirt subtly to where it doesn't seem weird or too obvious to other people.
Spending time around him will make him notice you. So I'd suggest sometimes during the game to go up to him and his friends and talk.
As to flirting, compliment him. Obviously, don't be excessive, but every once in awhile compliment him and he'll feel good about himself around you. If you compliment him on bowling, he'll probably feel the need to show off for you.
Tease him. It's a cute but funny way to flirt.
Challenge him. Tell him if you beat him, he'll owe you a drink or something. If he beats you, he buys you one.
Other than that, just enjoy it and have fun. I'm sure he'll respond back or at least get in him mind that you might be into him.
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He must know you are interested in him simply by asking him out. But some guys can be a little dense and slow on the pick up so they need something more obvious. So here's a cute help article on how to flirt by touch. You can flirt with speech but anyone can hear that. If you want it to be less obvious in the group setting, it won't be as easily noticed. Those few who do see, won't be totally sure if it was a natural or accidental touch or flirting. But since many people have a little of the matchmaker in them, they may think that since you both are single that there is an attraction but not give it much more than a fleeting thought.
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Have fun and don't overthink it. If all else, by end of evening if he hasn't asked you out you can honestly pull him aside in a private moment and tell him, "Hey, I am really interested in you but I am also very nervous so I hope I didn't put you off by anything I said or did tonight.
A final statement like that to the evening gives him a chance to let you know that he is equally interested and the opportunity to ask him out. If he doesn't either he's more shy than you or he's not interested enough to be more than casual friends, although I highly doubt that with him taking the opportunity to visit your department that time.
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