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First Anniversary
Hey guys.. I'm super excited because my one year anniversary with my boyfriend is coming up this Saturday. Problem is I don't know what to give him because he is doing well financially and he can basically afford anything he wants.
I only came up with this- puting my favorite picture of us(from a studio photo shoot)into a nice frame.
Or..buying lingerie,candles and wine and having mind blowing sex :-)
HELP.
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My two year anniversary with my boyfriend is on Saturday too! :)
Anyways, anniversaries are to celebrate the two of you. So definitely give him something that revolves around both of you.
Last year I got him a nice picture frame and put a picture of us in it and gave it to him.
He will obviously really love the lingerie, candles, wine and sex though. You can never go wrong with that.
For valentines day I got him a little gift basket and put a bunch of stuff in it. Like little travel sized things you find in the store, I also made him a card, and I made him heart shaped cake pops and heart shaped brownies.
Guys love food so..
Or get him tickets to somewhere you both can go together. Sports games, concert, movies, ect.
You can write him a letter, or reasons why I love you. It's cheesy but it's cute.
Then of course you can take him out to eat or something. As long as you think he won't try to pay for you or he's not planning that. If not, a picnic is always nice and sweet.
Pretty much anything that involves both of you.
Good luck!
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Congratulations on making one year. Anniversaries and observances of other special dates are a bigger thing to many females than it is to males. The fact that they have you in their life is celebration enough, a daily celebration in their heart every time they see you. Some guys remember dates like this and others don't. Has he mentioned the anniversary coming up? Have you mentioned something to him? If not, better say something soon to bring it to his attention ask him what he wants to do for it. If you don't say anything and he is surprised by all the fuss you went through and a gift you have for him when he is unprepared and doesnt have one for you, he will feel bad. The fact he doesn't remember a date like a female might doesnt mean he doesn't care. It's what he decides to do once he is reminded of the date that shows if he cares or not.
Since you've already mentioned a photo and also mentioned lingerie, I was reminded of something I used to see at the malls years ago, a photo place called Glamour shots. I don't know if there's something of the equivalent near you...but the photographers have staff who do the makeup and hair and have some lingerie or sexy top for a head and torso shot that make a person look like a sexy celebrity. I don't think you have time for that but it might make a nice gift for Christmas.
If you guys are sex partners, then perhaps a book on the kama sutra and you guys can have fun trying all the positions. There are other racy things you can do too, one favorite I read in a book to bring spice into the marriage was to lay some towels over the bed for easy cleanup later. You lay down and put whipping cream and little bits of fruit on you and you are basically the plate he eats it off. Whipping cream melts and slides off quickly due to body heat. Any movie scene with whipping cream that stays in place while the person is standing is because it was shaving cream, not whipping cream. So theres a couple of ideas for you.
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Well you got some good ideas.Lingerie is when you are in a relationship a little longer then a year. Having sex you can probably wait another year so that way you can be sure if you want to and if he really cares about you he wouldn't mind waiting until you are really ready. I think that you should have a nice dinner and when the time is right then you guys can exchanger gifts and then spend the rest of the night just enjoying each other and talking about this is your first year together and how many more anniversaries you guys might have. I hope that I helped you some.
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