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Group Date
Hey you helped so much with your great advice last time, and I was wondering if you could help me again.Okay, so I finally asked the cute guy from work I'm crushing on to hang out with me and some of my co-workers to go bowling and he said yes (yay!) Okay, how am I suppose to flirt with him during bowling? I mean I don't even have his number yet. Were going this saturday, and I'm freaking out because I really don't know how to flirt in a group setting. And I extended the invitation for him to bring his friends or co-workers so you know he wouldn't feel awkward. So that's more pressure. I just want this night to go well in the romantic department, and any help on how to make him notice me during the bowling would be great!
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Good for you for asking him!
When you go out with 2 groups be sure that both the groups are included. Include him and his friends in conversations that you and your friends/coworkers are having, make sure that they aren't excluded. You don't want to have to socialize between 2 separate groups of people. And plus, everyone will have more fun and feel less awkward that way.
As far as flirting with him goes. If it were me I would pay a little bit more attention to him. Not so that you're ignoring all the rest of the people or fawning all over him, but just so he knows you're interested. I really believe in eye contact for flirting. It's not an obvious flirting thing, but be sure and maintain eye contact when he speaks to you. It really makes it seem like you are listening and interested. Also, talk to him and take an interest in things that involve him as well as you. Some minor physical contact is a good flirting tactic, but may be a little bit much for a group date. For example, a hand on the arm as you laugh, a slight bump with your shoulder to get his attention, something to that effect. You'll be bowling so, you could incorporate a little playful competition with him. Smile at him and most importantly, remember to have fun!
Hope this helps, it always seems like there are so many rules for flirting, but really just be your normal self and have a good time.
Good luck, feel free to ask anything else!
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