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would any body care if i ended my life?
would any body care if i ended my life? my mom dont want me nether does my grandma. my dad lafted us when i was 3 now i am 17 about to be 18 and am getting married nexted yr.
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Well, since you said you are getting married next year, whoever you're going to marry would probably care. Your mom and your grandma would be devastated without you too. Suicidal thoughts/actions are a part of life, and usually will go away eventually. You should probably talk to a therapist about this, or a person you can trust. If you die, the only thing you'll ever wish for is to be alive again, because the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Good luck <3
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Hi. My name is Laura. I am 13. I went through something similar a few months ago. I was in foster care(my mom died and my dad was an abusive heavy drinker) and my other family didn't want me) and I thought no one would adopt me. There was a mean older boy there and I thought about having him kill me because I knew that he would if I asked, but then I was adopted my this sweet family, and they helped me get past my suicidal thoughts.
But anyway, your fiance would miss you deeply and after you're gone, you're mom and grandma would regret being mean to you so DO NOT KILL YOURSELF. You have put so much into yourself, your life is SO PRECIOUS. Talk to your mom and grandma if they will listen (I understand that sometimes they won't listen or you're to afraid). Get a little help if I didn't help you.
P.S.: I f you wanna talk you can email me at averyreedtwitter@aol.com
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Well firstly, people are answering your question because they do care.
There are lots of people who go through this. So you're not alone. They feel like no one wants them and they feel hopeless.
Besides that, you are getting married. I'm pretty sure your fiance would care very much if you ended your life.
You should probably go see a counselor or therapist and they can help you get through the problems you are facing and get through your suicidal thoughts.
Humans like to feel needed and wanted. You seem to not be getting that, but that doesn't mean you give up. There are so many things you can do and so many more people to meet and they will care about you. Just because a few people don't really care, doesn't mean that nobody else does.
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To start with I care enough to answer you and tell you that ending your life is wrong and not just for all the religious reasons.
Your fiancé will most certainly care, be hurt by this and miss you. At the moment you will not believe this but your mom and grandma will be hurt and miss you too.
People who want to end their life are suffering an acute form of depression. When depressed we perceive things differently than if we were not depressed. An easy example of this is looking at a color like green. Most of us will see it as green. Because you are depressed your perception of things are off and you will not see green you will see lime or even a different color altogether.
If you can accept the fact that you are not perceiving things properly you have 2/3 of the problem licked. The first third of the problem you concurred is writing to us for help.
Now there are several ways of getting help"
1) The National Suicide Prevention Hotline is a 24/7 confidential number you can call staffed by professional volunteers who will talk with you and find you the help you need in your community. Their number is 1-800-273-TALK.
No matter what problems you are dealing with, they want to help you find a reason to keep living. By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you’ll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7.
2) Go to any hospital emergency room, Police Station, Fire Station and ask for help. Tell them you feel suicidal and they will give or get you the help you need.
3)If you feel that you are going to hurt yourself call 911 and tell the call taker how you feel and that you are planning to hurt yourself. Help will be sent to you and the call taker will stay on the phone with you until that help arrives.
There are two things I know for certain. There are people who will be hurt and will miss you if you kill yourself and the world is a better place with you in it.
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Everything seems to be falling apart right now but things will get better.
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