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Bullies: What do I do if no adults care that I am being bullied?
What do I do if no teacher or anybody cares if someone is bullying me?
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If it's physical abuse, such as punching, go to the police. They will handle it.
Have you talked to your school counselor? He/she will be able to help you no matter what. Then the principal will know about it and they'll suspend, most likely expell, them. Which is good.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this. Nobody should have to. Good luck, and I hope you tell the counselor or police :)
-Christina
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Have you tried getting ahold of your vice principal or a counselor within the school? They can help a lot more with what you're going through more than teachers. And if you have any friends who can cheer you up, don't be ashamed to let them know whats going on. They can help defend you and support you if no one else is around.
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If it's physical file a police report and have them charged with assaulting you. Also list all instances of verbal threats.
If they call your home bothering you take down the numbers, date and times of the calls and charge them with harassment. Also tell police on your own about Facebook abuse and cyber bullying.
I'm sure your parents care. If teachers keep passing the buck have your parents go directly to the school board, chairman and trustees and make a big noise about you not getting support. Go to the community newspaper even and shine attention on the school not doing anything for victims.
I don't condone violence but if someone punches, kicks, pushes you than you should defend yourself and show through that not to screw with you. Self defense lessons for that purpose as well as to become confident and handle bullying is a good idea.
I would find a doctor or psychologist that is on your side who can put pressure on the school to do something. They can help you with your social skills, how to handle bullying, becoming confident as well as anxiety and depression and be a real advocate. You can see your family doctor for a referral.
The bottom line is don't react to what they say or do and as hard as it is to remember you're better than they say of you. Consider the source and then know it has no traction nor can harm you. It's not easy but continue to stand up for yourself and tell every last adult what's happening until someone acts. They have to.
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Lacking more information the only option I see is for you to call 911. Being bullied is high on the police radar. If you are being bullied in school or around your neighborhood and the school or the bullies parents are not stepping up it then becomes a police matter.
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I want to help you but i wish I had more details. LIke where do you live what type of community? Is it a small town or a conservative area? What are you getting bullied for?
Have you tried going to your school counselor? I wish I could give you more ideas of people you could go to but i don't know what you've tried already?
But if you want hope or inspiration you can visit www.itgetsbetter.org
There are a bunch of testimonials of people that were bullied their whole life and how they got through it.
Good luck, stay strong and get support. Believe me it's out there!!
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