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efficient suicide method
I need an EFFICIENT and rather quick way to commit suicide.
Please save the preaching, my mind is made up. I just don't want to end up as a vegetable, or a burden.
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You are right to say save the preaching but your mind is not made up allthou you think it is and as far as you know it is. Also you are thinking to say things like " this is not a call for help " but it is you just dont know you are doing it. Survival is kicking in and it is becouse you are that close to doing it. We all have different lives and ways we live them so am not going to assume anything I dont know if is an illness or isnt it really doesnt matter and shoundt matter how and why s are not important if end result is equal... so.when I said that you haven't made up your mind I'm basing this statement on previous personal expirience I had a plan and to my fortune I went I to a psychologycal warfare to where I didn't know who or where I was and it was so frightening is like I was already dead my eyes had no light I coundt speack anything but the word "no" and than that turned into just a gesture.I was helped and without wanting it I was sure nothing could ever take my pain away not that kind and shit the things I've done ever sense. Only you know how it feels Inside you and if there is any miniscule chance of changing your mind please please listen to it. As hard as it is to belive in anything or anyone this days I am here for my brother and my sister.
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The other columnist is right that no one is going to tell you how to kill yourself.
I used to work with physically ill, depressed and sometimes suicidal people helping them in their home and was trained a bit on what to look for. One of the ways a person who is feeling suicidal acts is to write a letter. Every letter states that they ARE going to commit suicide so don't bother. There are patterns the people always have. The ones who actually end their lives did not send the letter or leave it somewhere where someone could find it ahead of time. The others send to letter to someone, perhaps a care crisis agency, an email to someone or a note to this column.
If you are willing to delay just in the "slightest chance" that there might be something that helps you feel better, then read on for a bit.
Are you still with me??? Okay, I have found that depression goes hand in hand with suicide.
You know what depression is. But do you know what changes take place in your brain that cause your mind to be depressed? Your brain needs certain levels of NT's Neurological transmitters at proper levels for your mind to be able to think clearly to make good decisions not matter how difficult what we face in life. The NT's are hormones called Serotonin, Dopamine and Oxytocin. What Doctors do is to introduce drugs that help your brain create these hormones but our brains are capable of producing them on our own. When these levels are dangerously low, we lose capacity to deal with hardships, illness, ridicule, etc.. and see no way out of our maze even if there is one or possibly several avenues of real help. Some of the fastest ways to get those levels up naturally are through hugging therapy. People today do not receive even one genuine hug per day let alone the minimum four to barely function normally. Eight or more are recommended. Okay, I know this sounds silly but it works if it is not the hug where you barely embrace as if the person has dirty clothes or is ill This ineffective hug lasts only a second or two with a brief pat or two on the back. Nope, we're talking big bear hugs that last 10 seconds for it to have effect on raising those NT levels.
So here is what I propose :
Try, I mean really try hugs for a week straight and at the end, if your outlook isn't feeling even a tiny bit better, then go ahead with your plan but you won't have help from us with suggestion how. To get hugs, you will need to give hugs. Total strangers like at a mall. Make a sign that says "Free hugs". Not everyone will approach you, but everyone needs hugs. It doesnt matter if the hugger or huggee is elderly, young, male, female, or wheelchair bound. Try to put on an act cus i KNOW you won't feel like it until you get into it. Smile and sometimes say, Would you like a free hug even though the sign says so. What time is your free time, go. Every day, weekdays and weekends, the longer you do it and the more hugs you get, the better you are bound to feel. Even with strangers, we are still all God creation and as such a greater family as humans. So a certain level of love is unknowingly transferred between two huggers. They may not feel it at the time but they will as that love starts the body producing serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin. And that begins to ease depression. Depression is depressed amounts of NTs. But you must be able to force yourself to do this, 7 days straight. Try to get the eight or more hugs.
Watch "Free Hugs" on youtube searches.
If you find people don't want you giving hugs out in public, try the retirement/nursing homes. The elderly are lonely, need to feel love and more likely to be open to receiving hugs.
If it doesn't work for you, at the very least, you will have cheered someone else life before you decide to go. If you decide to try my challenge, I would like to hear back how it went for you.
It won't have changed what caused you to become so depressed to begin with but you may have found new ways to deal with it.
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No one is even allowed to tell you how to kill yourself on this site.
Everyone on here is supposed to help people live.
You need to talk to someone about this, you obviously aren't the only person who has gone through this.
I'm assuming you are sick, your life can still be worth living. I know tons of people who have illnesses but yet still do their best to keep themselves occupied and learn to be happy.
There are tons of people you can talk to, there are ways to feel better. Go get some help.
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No one on here is going to tell you how to do this.
It's just as easy to find Advicenators as it is to type into Google 'help for suicidal thoughts' and get numbers of helplines. Go get help.
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