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love failure suicide


Question Posted Sunday April 28 2013, 2:39 am

my love failure i am going to suicide

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday April 28 2013, 10:27 pm:
Let me get this straight, you want to commit suicide cus you feel you're a failure as a lover?

And THATS a reason for Suicide?
If you're serious call a crisis center but I want you to know in my book...that's not a good reason for Suicide. There never is a good enough reason.


If it really was a good reason, then every person who fails to get the job position they applied for should commit suicide. Every student who failed to get an A on an exam, should commit suicide, everyone who has ever sung Kareoke and failed to do so without their voice cracking or squeaking is a failure and should commit suicide, the cook who created a souffle that fell instead of staying risen, is a failure as a cook and should commit suicide. Shall I go on?

Life is filled with disappointments. These struggles are there for a reason but not to prove we can do perfectly the first time around. It is in the lifelong struggles that we learn and grow and get better.

Perhaps you are a perfectionist? That is not a good trait to have. For if you did get to the point that you thought you were perfect as a lover, you still would never be able to find a woman who is perfect enough for you. Always searching, never satisfied.

Perhaps what you seek can not be found in the greater world around you. Perhaps it can only be found within. If you can find inner peace...you will no longer worry about the disappoints life brings your way.

If you do not follow any spiritual path right not, I highly recommend you seriously give that a chance. It matters not which one you choose, just that you are relying on a higher source or power to help light your way.

Good luck.

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kittenlover2000 answered Sunday April 28 2013, 3:58 pm:
No you're not.

I'm curious to know what advice you want?
I wont preach as I know people don't like it, but if you feel suicidal please phone a helpline.
Do it now-I've done 3/4 of the work:

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www.samaritans.org/

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